The Fee vs. The Fine: The Real Cost Of Pretending To Be Someone Else

Get off of the hamster wheel!

It's the final episode of chapter one of Conversations with Candice, and what a ride it's been. Before we close this chapter, Candice covers everything from the show's upcoming season break and how you can now join the conversation in Chapter Two, to answering your listener questions live for the very first time. In this episode, Candice tackles: * Manifestation - why you probably don't believe in yours yet, and how to fix that * Friendship trauma - the uncomfortable truth about seeking closure * The hamster wheel vs. true evolution - and how Candice finally reached contentment She also reflects on why chapter one was never about transforming in 10 weeks and why the real rebuild takes years, not episodes. Chapter Two is coming, and the theme is… Love and relationships.! Get ready. Want to be part of the conversation? Send your questions or voice notes to: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com [contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com] Conversations with Candice is produced by Undeniable Productions. Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Stop Snagging, Start Living

In this penultimate episode of Chapter One, Candice is calling out the one thing keeping you from moving into the life you've been building, perfectionism. Using the metaphor of a house that's been renovated but never moved into, Candice breaks down why "snagging" (obsessively nitpicking every last detail of your life’s rebuild) is really just procrastination wearing a designer outfit. She shares her own experience - from the early days of this very podcast launching with sound only coming out of one ear, to the nine episodes it took to finally get blackout blinds - as proof that you learn by doing, not by waiting until everything is perfect. This episode covers: * Why perfectionism is a safety net, not a standard * How to know when enough is enough, on your own terms * The guilt of silence after chaos and why calm feels so foreign * Practicing completion over perfection * How to celebrate wins without immediately moving the goalposts Candice's reminder this week: You don't need to fix your life in order to feel like you deserve to live in it. Note: After next week's Episode 10, Conversations with Candice is taking a 3–4 week break. Use the time to sit with everything from this chapter and actually move in. Follow Candice: @candicebrathwaite (never braithwaite) across all socials. Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The Fee vs. The Fine: The Real Cost Of Pretending To Be Someone Else

We're almost at the end of Chapter One and this episode is the one you've been building towards. After weeks of laying foundations, clearing out the rubble, and doing the deep internal work, it's finally time to talk about self-expression. What it looks like to actually show up as yourself in the world. Not performing. Not seeking permission. Not dressing for someone else's approval. Just you, fully expressed. In this episode, Candice breaks down: * Why knowing yourself and believing in yourself are two very different things * The real cost of cosplaying as someone you're not (the fee vs. the fine) * How dressing intentionally can be the fastest shortcut to your highest alignment * Why self-expression is not about approval it's a statement, not a question * The difference between "do you like who I am?" and "this is who I am" * 3 journal prompts to take into the next 7 days If you've been here since Episode 1, this one's for you. The cocoon is done. It's time to come out. Conversations with Candice is a series for anyone who's ready to rebuild from the inside out, one honest, unfiltered conversation at a time. Available on all major podcast platforms Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Why being a lukewarm b***h is the biggest threat to your glow-up

Episode 7: The Demolition Episode - What You Need to Destroy to Finally Grow Strap on your hard hat, because this episode of Conversations with Candice is calling in the demolition squad. We're past the halfway point of this chapter, and after covering a foundations, permission, planning, and structure  it's time to talk about what you need to tear down in order to truly rebuild. Because growth doesn't just need effort. It needs space. In this episode, Candice gets raw and deeply personal about: Why most people's lives are designed for survival, not expansion. The courage it takes to demolish relationships that are holding you back (including parental ones). Why being a lukewarm bitch is the biggest threat to your glow-up. The inner enemy you can't demolish and how to beat them anyway. Why you sometimes must burn a bridge so you can never betray yourself again. How to stop energetically slumming it and start attracting people who match where you're going. + Candice's practical homework to help you identify exactly who you've been vs. who you're destined to become. This one hits different. Don't say we didn't warn you. Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Why You Keep Underestimating Yourself (And How to Finally Stop)

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Candice ditches the cue cards and delivers one of the most powerful episodes yet. Inspired by pacing her husband through his first 10K in over a decade and her own breakthrough performance, Candice unpacks what it truly means to make your new life watertight. If you're mid-rebuild and starting to forget how capable you are, this episode is your reminder. In this episode we cover: * Why your highest capability and comfort cannot coexist * How fear uses your own mind to keep you small and how to override it * The power of your personal data (emotional resilience, lived experience) and why you must trust it * Why energy leaks; fear, self-doubt and limiting beliefs will destroy your rebuild before it's finished * The truth about maintaining what you build, not just acquiring it * How to go to the edge of your capability and discover a version of yourself you won't believe Key quote: "Safety can be spiritual strangulation." Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Conversations with Candice is hosted by two-time Sunday Times bestselling author and cultural commentator Candice Brathwaite. New episodes every week. Get in touch: contact@conversationswithcandicepodcast.com Listen on Acast: https://shows.acast.com/conversations-with-candice Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@conversationswithcandicepod Follow Candice: Instagram: @candicebrathwaite TikTok: @candicebrathwaite If you love the show, please leave a review, it really helps others find us. Remain Unrealistic. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.