Escuchar Everyday Leadership

This week's episode gets raw and real. Sope shares his personal experiences of business setbacks in 2025, the global rollback of DEI initiatives, the collapse of so-called "safe" investments, and the harsh reality of an unstable world. He explains why staying stuck in bitterness will only hold you back and how reclaiming ownership of your mindset is the only way forward. You’ll learn the neuroscience behind resilience and why your greatest asset isn’t the economy, your job, or the market. It’s you. KEY TOPICS: * The harsh truth of 2025’s business landscape * Why DEI rollbacks are costing brilliant people opportunities * The stock market crash and the illusion of financial "safety nets" * The neuroscience of taking ownership and building resilience * Why no one owes you anything and why that's empowering Connect with Sope Website [https://mindsetshift.co.uk/about-sope/] | Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@everydayleadershippodcast] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sopeagbelusi/?hl=en] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sopeagbelusi/] Did you find this helpful? If you like this episode, please leave a review or share it with someone who could benefit from listening.    We’re always keen to get feedback so if you have any thoughts, send us an email at hello@mindsetshift.co.uk [hello@mindsetshift.co.uk]

We dive into Lilah's journey from growing up as the youngest of 11 children to leading at some of the world’s biggest tech companies like Microsoft, Oracle and now Google. But what stood out most to me was her raw honesty about burnout, worthiness, and the powerful transformation she experienced through creating silence in her life. We explore how that one decision to prioritise stillness led to her first personal offsite and later, a global retreat that’s helping other women do the same. This conversation is full of real talk on identity, ego, values and what it actually takes to hear your own voice again. If you’re feeling stretched thin, disconnected from yourself or just ready to move differently this one’s for you. 💡 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: * How to create intentional space for stillness and clarity * Why worthiness is the foundation of personal power * What it means to partner with your ego instead of letting it run the show * How to run your own personal offsite to reset your life * The difference between joy and happiness and why it matters * How to align your life with your values not someone else’s * What it really looks like to lead from the inside out 🔗 RESOURCES & LINKS: Connect with Lilah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lilahjones/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lilahjones/] Learn more about her Mexico retreat (May 1–4): https://www.lilahjones.com/retreat [https://www.lilahjones.com/retreat] Learn more about my work and how I help leaders like you: https://www.lilahjones.com/ [https://www.lilahjones.com/] Connect with Sope Website [https://mindsetshift.co.uk/about-sope/] | Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@everydayleadershippodcast] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sopeagbelusi/?hl=en] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sopeagbelusi/] Did you find this helpful? If you like this episode, please leave a review or share it with someone who could benefit from listening.    We’re always keen to get feedback so if you have any thoughts, send us an email at hello@mindsetshift.co.uk [hello@mindsetshift.co.uk]

🔥Quotable Moment: “I really struggle with the word ‘entrepreneur’. When I go to networking events, I see how people introduce themselves with this glee when they say entrepreneur, but it’s actually just a grind. It’s just tough.”  In this episode of Everyday Leadership, I am joined by Tola Alade, serial Founder and a creative maverick with deep experience in founding and scaling businesses across multiple industries.  Currently, Tola is building a next-gen digital media company, Marmalade Ventures, on a mission to build a new mainstream audience shaped by Africa’s culture, stories and emerging brands.  In this episode, we explore his path as a creative entrepreneur and the moments that shaped his career, from securing $2M in VC funding to launching the world’s first rum infused with natural plantains, after an April Fools joke went viral.  Episode chapters:  ✅ The complexity of the entrepreneur's identity  ✅ From Nigeria to the UK  ✅ Changing the perception of Africa through creativity  ✅ Losing the joy of what you’re building  ✅ Being creative vs being commercial  ✅ From a social media joke to a new brand  ✅ The Alpha Reset  ✅ Start by leading yourself    Don’t forget to connect:  Connect with Tola LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tolaalade/?originalSubdomain=uk] | Marmalade Ventures [https://marmalade.ventures/] | DÒDÒ [https://www.drinkdodo.com/] Connect with Sope Website [https://mindsetshift.co.uk/about-sope/] | Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@everydayleadershippodcast] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sopeagbelusi/?hl=en] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sopeagbelusi/] Did you find this helpful? If you like this episode, please leave a review or share it with someone who could benefit from listening.    We’re always keen to get feedback so if you have any thoughts, send us an email at hello@mindsetshift.co.uk [hello@mindsetshift.co.uk]

In this conversation, Bolaji opens up about growing up in a Nigerian household where hierarchy shaped his early mindset — and how he slowly dismantled those internal limits. We explore the tension between creativity and conformity, surviving 18 years in corporate while holding onto purpose, and how faith, failure, and fierce vision kept him grounded. You’ll hear how he used music, events and ministry as an early training ground for leadership — long before stepping into business. Now, as the founder of Altitude AI, Bolaji is building tools that empower entrepreneurs to scale using smart, accessible tech. We unpack: 🔥 The journey from subservient to self-led 🔥 Why AI is a tool to unlock potential — not replace it 🔥 Faith, failure, and staying power in entrepreneurship 🔥 How to unlearn cultural norms that keep you playing small 🔥 The mindset shift from challenger to champion Expect real talk about leadership, tech, identity, staying power… and why the world doesn’t need more safe goals — it needs people who dare to try. Whether you’re navigating corporate life, exploring entrepreneurship, or trying to reconnect with your purpose — this episode will inspire you to break your own limits and step into your next level. Connect with Sope Website [https://mindsetshift.co.uk/about-sope/] | Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@everydayleadershippodcast] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sopeagbelusi/?hl=en] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sopeagbelusi/] Did you find this helpful? If you like this episode, please leave a review or share it with someone who could benefit from listening.    We’re always keen to get feedback so if you have any thoughts, send us an email at hello@mindsetshift.co.uk [hello@mindsetshift.co.uk]

Chasing work-life balance is not only impossible—it's damaging your happiness, fueling guilt, anxiety, and burnout. In this powerful episode, Sope Agbelusi dismantles the myth of balance, revealing how the pursuit of an impossible ideal sets us up for constant stress and dissatisfaction. Inspired by Jay-Z's orchestral performance at Radio City Music Hall, Sope introduces the transformative concept of work-life harmony—a beautiful integration rather than rigid separation of life's roles. You'll discover: * Why the concept of balance inherently creates guilt and stress. * Real-life examples showing the pitfalls of strict balance and the freedom found in harmony. * Proven research from organisational and positive psychology supporting work-life integration. * Practical strategies to shift from exhausting balance to energising harmony. Stop chasing balance. Start orchestrating harmony. Key highlights: 1. The three ways balance sets you up to fail. 2. Powerful real-world stories illustrating harmony. 3. Actionable steps to achieve resonance in your life. Join the conversation: What does harmony look like for you? Remember: Balance is the beautiful lie; harmony is your achievable truth. Connect with Sope Website [https://mindsetshift.co.uk/about-sope/] | Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@everydayleadershippodcast] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sopeagbelusi/?hl=en] | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sopeagbelusi/] Did you find this helpful? If you like this episode, please leave a review or share it with someone who could benefit from listening.    We’re always keen to get feedback so if you have any thoughts, send us an email at hello@mindsetshift.co.uk [hello@mindsetshift.co.uk]