S3E5: Big Deck Energy - Mixing A Vibe with Promoter and DJ Harry Cross

S3E5: Big Deck Energy - Mixing A Vibe with Promoter and DJ Harry Cross

Ever wonder what it really takes to turn a dance floor from cute to chaotic? In this week’s episode, Pete and Bisq-it sit down with DJ and party visionary Harry Cross - the mind behind some of Chicago’s most iconic queer parties - to talk about the fine art and occasional chaos of setting the vibe. From the first woo that ripples across the room to fog-drenched underground parties where laptops die from sweat (literally), they unpack the secret connection between DJ and dance floor: when to push, when to pull back, and when to drop Whitney Houston like a spiritual offering. Expect stories about: - How DJs play god with the energy of a crowd and what happens when it goes wrong - Pivoting from “sex dungeon techno” to “Janet Jackson salvation” mid-set - The sacred power of the “woo” and why hands-in-the-air energy can resurrect any room - Tips and tricks for creating own vibe or party It’s a masterclass in musical foreplay - a deep dive into how DJs conjure sweat, surrender, and shared chaos. Whether you’re behind the decks or under the disco ball, this episode proves that the best nights happen when the vibe sets you.

S3E4: Party Planning & Night Out Necessities

Who needs socks when your carry-on is full of fanny packs, harnesses, and a douche that may or may not get flagged by French airport security? Pete and Bisq-it are unpacking (literally) their ultimate feral survival kit - from coded Notes app checklists (“D&L” = douche + lube, duh) to travel wigs with names (Karen sends her regards). From sleep masks that double as blackout curtains for your eyeballs to the eternal battle of do I pack my Metamucil or just raw dog fate?, nothing is off-limits. Expect tales of Parisian douche drama, TSA pat-downs that should’ve been porn, and a VeggieTales visual that will leave you questioning your child’s content consumption. Plus, why caftans, fans, and earplugs might just save your weekend. It’s cheeky, chaotic, and the only packing list that pairs poppers with a Bluetooth speaker. Travel light, party heavy, babes.

S3E3: Bender Mender, Post-Party Recovery with Soft Landings Co-Founder Zen Savona

Pack your eye mask, pop your electrolytes, and maybe thank past you for leaving a Xanax and a bottle of water on the nightstand - because this week, Pete and Bisq-it are tackling the art (and science) of party recovery. From two-day wine hangovers to full-on multi-day festival ferality, our hosts get raw about liquid courage, extracurricular enhancements, and what it really takes to bounce back when your body feels like a crime scene. Enter Zen from Soft Landings, who joins the chaos to spill all about his supplement line designed to keep the party girls going without fully flatlining the next day. Let's just say, he brings the aforementioned "science" to the questionable "art" that our hosts put on display. Expect talk of pre-drug drugs, post-drug drugs, MDMA “Sherpa” duties, calorie-burning dance floor cardio, and one unforgettable mushroom trip that had Bisq-it asking, “Did I just shit myself?” (spoiler: he did not). Whether you’re a weekend warrior, a festival lifer, or just here for the feral confessions, this episode is your guide to bending without breaking. Warning: Side effects include sudden urges to dance until sunrise, text your dealer like a project manager, and maybe — just maybe — treat your liver with a little respect. *** Interested in trying Soft Landings [softlandings.com]? Use promo code "FERAL" at checkout for $10 off your purchase! Visit Feralationship.com [feralationship.com] for more episode fun!

S3E2: Whore-o-scopes, with Astrologer and Tyromancer Jen Billock

From star signs to slut signs, this week Pete and Bisq-it are charting the cosmos to see who’s destined to be the biggest partiers, the most chaotic lovers, and the most feral friends. Joined by Astrologer and Tyromancer Jen Billock, who was recently profiled on People.com [http://People.com], our co-hosts go through wild takes on which zodiac signs thrive in the darkroom, which ones you should never share a beach house with, and how the upcoming transits and retrogrades through the end of 2025 could fuel your nightlife destiny.  After Pete and Bisq-it dive headfirst into each sign’s feral astrology, this chaotic episode on the cosmos then veers gloriously off-course into the mystical world of tyromancy — fortune-telling with cheese (yes, cheese). So whether your fate is written in the stars or in the parmesan grinder at Olive Garden, this episode proves the universe enjoys a gouda laugh while giving you one as well. Don’t worry, we brought lactaid.

S3E1: Realities of Fire Island Feralities

Pack your fans and your fanny packs, babes - we’re taking you to Fire Island, where it's all sunsets, speedos, and scandalous opportunities abound. Season 3 of Feralationship kicks off with the spicy stories from what might be the nation's most famous feral gay destination. From poolside chaos to late-night beach cruising, Pete and Bisq-it spill every last sip of tea from their trip to America’s gayest sandbar. In this episode, expect the myth-busting (or validation) of all of those Fire Island tropes we've all heard: the parties, the NYC gays, the Odyssey-like travels to get there. Our co-hosts will share their feral lessons learned from one week of underwear parties, sunrise afters, and the real deep conversations had in the hot tub of complete strangers. Was it healing? Yes. Was it hungover? Surprisingly not really. Was it horny? Is that really a question?! Whether you've never been or are a season regular, there's something for everyone in this tale of two (vers) bottoms. So tune in for our Fire Island debrief—equal parts diary, roast, and PSA—and remember: have fun, get fucked, get feral.