So...You Wanna Donate Your Eggs?

The Hidden Realities of Endometriosis w/ Dr. James Kondrup

🎙️ The Hidden Realities of Endometriosis In this incredibly insightful episode of Fertile-ish, we sit down with special guest Dr. James Kondrup to have an honest conversation about the hidden realities of endometriosis and the ways it can impact fertility, IVF outcomes, chronic pain, and everyday life. Dr. Kondrup shares his decades of experience in minimally invasive surgery and endometriosis care, explaining why so many patients go years without answers and how symptoms are often dismissed or misunderstood along the way. 💛 We dive deep into the difference between excision and ablation surgery, how endometriosis can affect egg reserve and implantation, and why choosing the right surgeon matters so much for preserving fertility. Dr. Kondrup also discusses endometriomas, fertility preservation, recurrent implantation failure, suppression protocols, and what recovery from endometriosis surgery actually looks like. We also talk about “silent endometriosis,” how inflammation may play a role in symptoms and fertility outcomes, and why advocating for yourself as a patient is one of the most important things you can do. 🩺✨ This episode is filled with validation, education, humor, and hope for anyone navigating infertility, IVF, chronic pelvic pain, or the emotional ups and downs that often come with endometriosis. And yes… there’s even a very real conversation about banking eggs instead of embryos when you’re “not totally sure you’re keeping this guy.” 😂🥚 If this episode made you feel seen, helped answer some of your questions, or taught you something new, be sure to like, follow, subscribe, and leave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5-star rating and review! Your support helps more people find Fertile-ish and keeps these important conversations going. 💕🎧

The Clomid vs Letrozole Group Chat Debate

🎙️ The Clomid vs. Letrozole Group Chat Debate This week on Fertile-ish, Laura and Brandis are diving into one of the most common fertility questions out there: Clomid or Letrozole… and what’s actually the difference? 🤔💊 From side effects and ovulation induction to PMOS (formerly known as PCOS), unexplained infertility, IVF protocols, and why some providers prescribe one medication over the other, they break down the science in a way that actually makes sense. The episode covers how both medications work differently in the body to achieve the same goal; helping follicles grow and triggering ovulation. 🌱 They explain why Clomid can come with more menopausal-style side effects, like hot flashes, mood swings, headaches, and thinning of the uterine lining, while Letrozole is often better tolerated and is considered the first-line medication for many patients with PMOS. They also get real about the frustrating reality many fertility patients face when they’re handed a prescription for Clomid or Letrozole without a full fertility workup first. 😵‍💫 The conversation touches on why testing matters before wasting months trying medications blindly, including semen analysis, HSG testing, hormone panels, and evaluating lifestyle factors like stress, sleep, inflammation, and insulin resistance. Laura and Brandis also discuss superovulation, timed intercourse cycles, IUI, IVF, modified natural transfer cycles, and the important reminder that going to a fertility clinic does not automatically mean jumping straight to IVF! 🙌 They explain how fertility treatment is never one-size-fits-all and why advocating for yourself and asking questions about your treatment plan is so important. Plus, they share personal experiences with these medications, funny fertility moments, transfer anxiety, and why even fertility professionals still spiral over their own estrogen levels sometimes. 😂 Whether you’re just starting your fertility journey, currently taking Clomid or Letrozole, navigating PMOS, or simply trying to understand your options better, this episode is packed with information, validation, and plenty of honest conversation. 💗 Be sure to like, follow, and subscribe to Fertile-ish wherever you listen to podcasts. 🎧✨ And if you’re loving the show, please leave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5-star rating and review — it helps more people find the podcast and supports our mission to make fertility conversations more honest, educational, and relatable!

So...You Wanna Donate Your Eggs?

🎙️ So...You Wanna Donate Your Eggs? 🥚✨ Featuring Special Guest: Allyson Santoro In this episode of Fertile-ish, Laura and Brandis sit down with Allyson Santoro, RN and Director of Third-Party Programs at CNY Fertility, to break down everything you need to know about becoming an egg donor 💕 From qualifications and testing to compensation, anonymity, and what the actual donation process looks like, this episode gives an honest and informative look into the world of egg donation. Whether you’re considering becoming a donor, exploring donor eggs to grow your family, or just curious about the process, this episode answers the questions everyone is asking 👀 You’ll hear all about why women choose to donate their eggs 🌸, what the screening and medical testing process looks like 🩺, how genetic carrier screening works 🧬, and what to expect during monitoring appointments and egg retrieval 💉🥚 Allyson also shares insight into compensation 💰, recovery after retrieval, risks and side effects, and how donor anonymity has changed in today’s world with DNA testing and Open ID donation 🌎 Laura and Brandis also dive into common myths and misconceptions surrounding egg donation ✨ including whether donors can freeze some of their own eggs while donating to help another family grow 🤍 This episode is packed with education, transparency, and real talk about one of the most selfless gifts someone can give 💗 📞 CNY Fertility: 844-315-BABY 📧 Questions about egg donation? Contact Laura at lhendley@cnyfertility.com [lhendley@cnyfertility.com] About Our Guest 🌟 Allyson Santoro is a registered nurse and the Director of Third-Party Programs at CNY Fertility. She works closely with egg donors and recipient families, helping guide them through the donation process with compassion, education, and support 🤍 ⭐ Don’t forget to rate and review Fertile-ish 📲 Follow, share, and tag your fertility besties 💕 New episodes drop every Tuesday 🎙️✨

Say It With Your Chest...Fertility Edition

🎙️ Say It With Your Chest...Fertility Edition 💭🔥 Welcome back to Fertile-ish—the space where we say the quiet parts out loud about fertility, IVF, and everything in between. This episode dives straight into the spicy takes 🌶️ that so many people think during infertility… but rarely feel safe saying. If you’ve ever been told to “just relax” 😅 or heard “at least you know you can get pregnant,” this one is going to hit home. We’re unpacking why those comments aren’t just unhelpful—they can actually be harmful. Infertility is a real medical diagnosis, not something you caused by stress, diet, or that one time you drank out of a plastic water bottle 🙃. We get into the pressure of toxic positivity ✨ and why constantly trying to “stay positive” can feel exhausting—and sometimes completely unrealistic. You’ll hear honest reflections on how infertility can shift your personality, your relationships, and how you move through the world. There’s a real before-and-after, and it’s okay to acknowledge that. We also talk about the misconceptions around IVF—especially the idea that it guarantees a baby. The truth? It often takes multiple cycles, and even when everything looks perfect on paper, it still might not work. That doesn’t mean you did anything wrong 💔. Social media gets a spotlight too 📱—how IVF can look “cute” or even trendy online, while the reality is often filled with grief, trauma, and uncertainty. Not every moment is a milestone worth posting, and not every story gets shared. Support (or lack of it) is another big theme. From well-meaning but clueless comments to the emotional labor of educating others, we explore why even “supportive” people can sometimes miss the mark. And on the flip side, how isolating it can feel to constantly explain your experience. We also normalize the complicated emotions—being genuinely happy for someone else while grieving your own situation at the same time 🤍. Both can exist. Both are valid. There’s space here too for boundaries 🚧—whether that’s taking a break from treatment, stepping back from relationships, or simply protecting your peace. Taking a pause isn’t giving up. It’s choosing yourself. And a reminder we all need: doing everything “right” doesn’t guarantee success. You are not a formula. You are a human going through something incredibly hard. Don’t forget to like, share, follow, and rate us 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ so we can keep bringing these real, unfiltered conversations to more people who need them.

TTC 101...But Make It Real Life

🎙️ TTC 101…But Make It Real Life Trying to conceive sounds simple… until you’re actually trying 😅 In this episode, we’re getting real about what TTC at home actually looks like—no fluff, no myths, just the stuff people wish they knew sooner. From coming off birth control to figuring out your cycle (because why were we only taught how NOT to get pregnant??), we’re breaking down the basics in a way that actually makes sense. We talk through how to set yourself up for success before you even start trying—like why starting a prenatal early matters, what should actually be in it (👀 folic acid is non-negotiable), and how a preconception visit can give you way more clarity than guessing your way through it. We also get into genetic carrier screening and why having that info upfront can completely change your plan—or at least give you peace of mind. Then we get into the timing—aka the part that stresses everyone out. When should you actually be having sex? Are apps enough? What even is the fertile window? We explain why sperm can hang out for up to five days but the egg is on a strict 24-hour timeline, and how to make sure you’re not missing your shot. We also break down ovulation predictor kits (OPKs), what a true positive looks like (hint: it’s not just “two lines”), and why tracking your cycle beyond an app can make a big difference. Of course, we had to bust some myths too. 🙃 No, you don’t need to put your legs up after sex. No, position doesn’t matter. No, Mucinex isn’t a magic fertility hack. And yes… some lubes can actually hurt sperm (so choose wisely 👀). We’re separating what’s actually helpful from what’s just internet noise. We also talk about when it’s time to get help—because there are guidelines, but there are also situations where you don’t need to wait at all. Whether you’re just starting out or feeling unsure where you stand, this episode is your reality check + roadmap all in one. Basically, if you’ve ever thought “am I even doing this right?”—this one’s for you! 💗 Don’t forget to like, follow, share, and rate us ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ it helps more people find Fertile-ish and feel a little less alone in all of this. 💕