10 Things I have learned from getting my house ready to sell

10 Things I have learned from getting my house ready to sell

For the past several weeks I’ve been working on a big project: getting my house of 14 years ready to sell. That has meant decluttering, repairing things, rearranging rooms, staging the house, and honestly doing a lot of thinking along the way. I expected to learn some lessons from the process, and it turns out there have been quite a few. In this episode I share ten of them — lessons about letting things go, handling change, accepting feedback, simplifying life, and learning to sit in the waiting place. Some of these lessons came from the practical work of preparing a home. Others came from the emotions that come with change. Either way, they’ve been meaningful reminders about life and growth, and I hope they help you reflect on your own season as well. In this episode I talk about: • Letting go of things and shifting your mindset when decluttering • The emotional side of big life changes • Doing your best and letting things be imperfect • Learning how to receive feedback • Facing worst-case scenarios and moving forward anyway • Simplifying meals, schedules, and responsibilities when life is full • Appreciating the help others give • The importance of community • Seeing new possibilities when you rearrange things • Learning how to live in the waiting place

Finding Greatness in Motherhood

Hey friends, I wanted to share the quick take‑aways from today’s chat—how a simple Nike ad sparked my own quest to define greatness as a mom, and what I’ve learned along the way. 1. Greatness is Something We Find The commercial says “Find Your Greatness,” and the word find (per Webster’s 1828) means “to discover, to master, to come upon by seeking.” For me, greatness isn’t handed to us—it’s a journey we start every day. 2. What “Greatness” Looks Like in Motherhood (From the same old‑school dictionary) * Size/Quantity – We give huge portions of ourselves to our kids. * High Degree – The intensity of our love and sacrifice. * Rank/Dignity/Power – The profound influence we hold over a child’s life. * Magnanimity/Nobility – Calm, firm, benevolent responses to chaos. * Intellectual Faculty – All those endless “why?” questions we answer. Whenever I’m cooking, soothing a tantrum, or explaining the birds‑and‑bees, I’m living one of these definitions. 3. The “Empty” Moments—and How I Fill Them Even with all that built‑in greatness, burnout hits (think Mom’s Night Out vibes). My rescue? Tiny “recharge” rituals: a short prayer, a 5‑minute walk, a goofy bubble session with the kids. Those micro‑breaks keep my cup from running dry. 4. Body Image, Post‑Partum, and Confidence After my first baby I was ~50 lb heavier and felt I’d “failed.” I reframed my body as a temple (a lesson from church) and gave myself permission to look good—starting with a special anniversary outfit that made me feel cute again. That confidence ripple helped me adopt healthier habits naturally. 5. Everyday Acts Are Greatness in Disguise Greatness isn’t only big milestones; it’s the daily grind—making meals, wiping tears, teaching a teen to drive. I now keep a Greatness Journal: three small wins each day that remind me (and you) how powerful we already are. Quick Action Checklist for You 1. Pick a definition that resonates and write your own “greatness” statement. 2. Schedule a 10‑minute recharge this week—whatever restores you. 3. Wear something that makes you feel good (even if it’s just at home). 4. Log three daily greatness moments in a notebook or phone note. Final Thought- Greatness isn’t a distant trophy; it’s the sum of the ordinary, intentional actions we take as mothers. You’re already embodying it—keep seeking, keep loving, and keep believing in the power you hold. Thanks for listening, and see you next time!  With love, Rachel :)  ⬇⬇⬇RESOURCES & LINKS: 1. Find Your Greatness: Jogger. https://youtu.be/XcbSCnUXOkk [https://youtu.be/XcbSCnUXOkk] 2. Mom’s Night Out: https://www.amazon.com/Moms-Night-Out-Sean-Astin/dp/B00M3ZY0K6/ref=sr_1_2?crid=19IK5FBP0X8E7&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xt_3cpOjX389FhsZ2mVDqRFpNIDAUgR3rOfLAYvNtb2pryQRyb304_LAqvzEggYtr4SlG-ZlsPfbPljlhAGDJzg-0up-2Kn7GUO4OJ2eHQiSR21eJD-q7CnubB9YSPstfvwaqffWwkMpwiH3-Ed2GikS56IaT5bIawfqfQXr-UJLzjTr5WWnXguqhkvCCgiK7Av_zUHJ_UYFqvRUHX46grsdgYgUMKBdiu2CbpwJJ2k.twUdhM7ohdX7ZCaVwg_5eWvi6trxPfTmaph82QYiKV8&dib_tag=se&keywords=Mom's+night+out&qid=1768520560&sprefix=mom's+night+o,aps,261&sr=8-2 [https://www.amazon.com/Moms-Night-Out-Sean-Astin/dp/B00M3ZY0K6/ref=sr_1_2?crid=19IK5FBP0X8E7&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xt_3cpOjX389FhsZ2mVDqRFpNIDAUgR3rOfLAYvNtb2pryQRyb304_LAqvzEggYtr4SlG-ZlsPfbPljlhAGDJzg-0up-2Kn7GUO4OJ2eHQiSR21eJD-q7CnubB9YSPstfvwaqffWwkMpwiH3-Ed2GikS56IaT5bIawfqfQXr-UJLzjTr5WWnXguqhkvCCgiK7Av_zUHJ_UYFqvRUHX46grsdgYgUMKBdiu2CbpwJJ2k.twUdhM7ohdX7ZCaVwg_5eWvi6trxPfTmaph82QYiKV8&dib_tag=se&keywords=Mom's+night+out&qid=1768520560&sprefix=mom's+night+o,aps,261&sr=8-2] 3. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary: https://webstersdictionary1828.com/ [https://webstersdictionary1828.com/] 4. The Hand that Rocks the Cradle poem: https://allpoetry.com/The-Hand-that-rocks-the-Cradle-Is-The-Hand-That-Rules-The-World [https://allpoetry.com/The-Hand-that-rocks-the-Cradle-Is-The-Hand-That-Rules-The-World] 5. Shop my women’s clothing boutique: www.lularoerachelabbott.com [https://www.lularoerachelabbott.com/] 6. Explore all-access styles: All Access Link [https://lularoe.com/collections/all-access?ls=U2juNi_L4DSXzQfTmsbkT&sca_ref=9348129.fCYuG1LvWt] 7. Request your size/style or leave me a note: Request Form [https://lularoerachelabbott.com/pages/contact] 8. Join the VIP group on Facebook: Facebook Group [https://www.facebook.com/lularoerachelabbott] 9. Follow along on Instagram (stories only! I am not very active): @lularoerachelabbott

Reflect & Reset: 10 Questions That Help Me Plan a More Purposeful Year

In this debut episode, I’m sharing the importance of good questions and the 10 reflection questions I use at the end of every year to set the next year up for success. Inspired by mindset work and personal experience, these questions helped me shift from survival to intention and joy. Whether you’re wrapping up a difficult year or just want to set clear, heart-centered goals, these prompts will give you clarity, gratitude, and a fresh start. 🎧 What you’ll hear in this episode: * Why good questions matter and set us up for success * The moment my mindset began to shift — and how you can do the same * My personal reflection prompts and how I use them 📝 Links & Resources: * Receive your own copy of the 10 questions with room to answer them here:  * Shop my women’s clothing boutique: www.lularoerachelabbott.com [http://www.lularoerachelabbott.com/] and All Access [https://lularoe.com/collections/all-access?ls=U2juNi_L4DSXzQfTmsbkT&sca_ref=9348129.fCYuG1LvWt] * Request your size/style: Request Form [https://lularoerachelabbott.com/pages/contact] * Let’s connect on Facebook where you can sign up for my VIP group: LuLaRoe Rachel Abbott Business Page [https://www.facebook.com/share/14RQQFQKYaE/?mibextid=wwXIfr] * You can find my instagram here but be forewarned that I only post stories on it: @lularoerachelabbott 💬 Listener Reflection Prompt: Which of these 10 questions hit home for you the most — and why? Timestamps:  Intro: Why Good Questions Matter0:00 Question 12:05 Question 23:08 Question 34:08 Question 45:10 Question 56:00 Question 67:05 Question 78:05 Question 89:00 Question 910:05 Question 1010:45

Trailer

Welcome to the Frump Fighters Podcast — a space for moms who want to reflect, reset, and show up for themselves with intention and confidence. In this short trailer episode, I’m sharing the heart behind this show: why I started it, what “fighting the frump inside and out” really means, and how each episode is designed to help you reconnect with yourself — even in the chaos of motherhood. Whether you’re feeling a little lost, craving clarity, or just looking for honest encouragement from someone who gets it — this podcast is for you. 🎧 What you’ll hear in this episode: * Why I finally decided to start this podcast — and what held me back * What it means to “fight the frump” inside and out * How I hope this podcast helps you reclaim your spark and rock the world in your own way 📝 Links & Resources: * Shop my women’s clothing boutique: www.lularoerachelabbott.com [https://www.lularoerachelabbott.com/] * Explore all-access styles: All Access Link [https://lularoe.com/collections/all-access?ls=U2juNi_L4DSXzQfTmsbkT&sca_ref=9348129.fCYuG1LvWt] * Request your size/style: Request Form [https://lularoerachelabbott.com/pages/contact] * Join the VIP group on Facebook: Facebook Group [https://www.facebook.com/lularoerachelabbott] * Follow along on Instagram (stories only!): @lularoerachelabbott 💬 Listener Reflection Prompt: What would it mean for you to reclaim your spark this season?