High Conflict People Explained | Behavior Patterns, Boundaries & Protecting Your Energy

LP Giobbi Explains How FEMME HOUSE Brought These Women Together

In this bonus clip, LP Giobbi shares how FEMME HOUSE brought together an incredible group of women musicians during the Viva El Gonzo festival. What started as a simple idea quickly turned into a live collaborative jam session featuring artists from completely different musical backgrounds, including harpist Mikaela Davis. LP also breaks down a basic music production concept by explaining what a "kick" drum is and why understanding the building blocks of music can feel both eye-opening and incredibly freeing. This is a fascinating behind-the-scenes look at creativity, collaboration, and how FEMME HOUSE is opening doors for more women in music. #LPGiobbi #FEMMEHOUSE #WomenInMusic #MusicProduction #MikaelaDavis #VivaElGonzo #BehindTheScenes #ElectronicMusic

Neuroscience of Music Festivals | How They Transform Your Brain and Heart | Femme House

Shelbi Fox explores the transformative power of music festivals, the science behind emotional and social bonding, and the inspiring work of women in music through Femme House with LP Giobbi. Discover how music impacts the brain, fosters community, and empowers women in the industry. Key Topics * Music festivals and brain chemistry * The role of dopamine and oxytocin in emotional experiences * Femme House and women empowerment in music * The impact of live music on emotional and social bonding * The importance of community and collaboration among women artists Chapters 00:00 The Magic of Music Festivals 01:02 Personal Connections and Memories 03:23 LP Giobbi and Femme House 06:49 Mikaela Davis and Musical Experimentation 08:32 Haley Shines and Creative Expression 10:31 Sarah Elaz and the Power of Bass 12:15 Personal Connections and Lasting Memories Keywords music festivals, neuroscience, women in music, Femme House, emotional bonding, dopamine, oxytocin, live music, community, creativity Get in Touch @lpgiobbi@thisisfemmehouse @mikaeladavis@hayley.shines@sarahelaz Heart Jam Journey [https://a.co/d/0gACnxQj] Book by Hayley Shines

Trust Your Gut | How Listening to Your Instincts Can Save Your Life

Your gut instinct is more powerful than you think. Ignoring it can cost you everything. Have you ever ignored your gut feeling… and later realized you shouldn’t have? This episode of FuggaBRAT is a real, raw story about why your instincts matter more than you think. Shelbi Fox shares a life-threatening experience where listening to her gut led her to get a second opinion, a decision that ultimately saved her life. What started as feeling “off” turned into something much more serious. Despite being told everything was fine, something didn’t sit right. That inner signal pushed her to take action, leading to a critical diagnosis and emergency treatment just in time. This episode breaks down the difference between logic and instinct, why we tend to override our internal signals, and how your body often knows something is wrong before your mind can explain it. ⏱ Timestamps * [00:00] Ignoring your gut feeling and setting up the story * [00:30] Why this is a life or death situation * [01:05] Symptoms begin and misinterpreting the signs * [02:10] Extreme fatigue, breathlessness, and headaches * [03:30] First doctor visit and being told everything is fine * [04:30] Why that response didn’t sit right * [05:15] Taking control and ordering lab tests * [06:15] Severe test results and urgent warning signs * [07:10] Emergency room visit and immediate escalation * [08:15] Realizing how serious the condition is * [09:10] Blood transfusion and critical intervention * [10:15] How close it actually was * [11:10] Why getting a second opinion matters * [12:00] Gut instinct as a survival mechanism * [12:50] Final takeaway and trusting your gut Sometimes it’s not about having all the answers. It’s about paying attention to what you feel. Unlock your potential with your personal Cognitive Performance Index assessment: NeuroCPI - app.shelbifox.com * Website: ShelbiFox.com [https://ShelbiFox.com] * Instagram: instagram.com/shelbifox_official [https://instagram.com/shelbifox_official] * YouTube: YouTube.com/@shelbifox [https://YouTube.com/@shelbifox] * TikTok: TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox [https://TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox] * X: x.com/@fuggabrat [https://x.com/@fuggabrat]

How to Stop Overthinking Fast | The DO IT Directive for Decision Making

Overthinking is keeping you stuck. Learn how to stop the cycle and take action instantly. Have you ever talked yourself out of something you actually wanted to do? Overthinking isn’t helping you make better decisions. It’s slowing you down, creating doubt, and keeping you stuck in your own head. In this episode of FuggaBRAT, Shelbi Fox breaks down exactly how overthinking works and introduces a simple, powerful tool to interrupt it immediately. The DO IT Directive is a mental reset strategy designed to help you stop spiraling, trust yourself, and take action without getting trapped in analysis. Through relatable stories, real-life examples, and practical application, this episode shows how small decisions become overwhelming and how to take back control of your thinking patterns. If you’ve ever hesitated, delayed, or second-guessed yourself into doing nothing, this episode will shift how you approach decisions starting today. Timestamps * [00:00] Overthinking and decision paralysis explained * [00:42] Why overthinking is a time thief * [01:18] Relatable example of overthinking simple decisions * [02:05] The 30-day “say yes” experiment story * [03:15] Realizing overthinking was the real problem * [04:05] What happened after saying yes to everything * [05:00] Introducing the DO IT Directive framework * [05:28] Decide to interrupt overthinking * [05:50] Observe your thoughts without reacting * [06:10] Take ownership of the first step * [06:30] Take action immediately * [07:00] Why the DO IT Directive works * [07:45] Stopping perfectionism and building trust * [08:20] Real-life examples: emails, conversations, gym * [09:20] Applying the rule to everyday decisions * [10:00] Recap: action over overthinking * [10:35] Final takeaway and call to action Unlock your potential with your personal Cognitive Performance Index assessment: NeuroCPI - app.shelbifox.com Connect with Shelbi Website: ShelbiFox.com [https://ShelbiFox.com] Instagram: instagram.com/shelbifox_official [https://instagram.com/shelbifox_official] YouTube: YouTube.com/@shelbifox [https://YouTube.com/@shelbifox] TikTok: TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox [https://TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox] X: x.com/@fuggabrat [https://x.com/@fuggabrat]

High Conflict People Explained | Behavior Patterns, Boundaries & Protecting Your Energy

High conflict people follow predictable patterns. Learn how to spot them and protect your energy. You ever walk away from a conversation thinking… how did that turn into that? One minute everything is fine, and the next you’re defending yourself, explaining yourself, or completely drained. This episode breaks down high conflict people (HCPs), the patterns behind their behavior, and why every interaction seems to follow the same exhausting cycle. This isn’t about someone having a bad day. This is about a repeatable behavioral pattern that can impact your relationships, your work, and your mental energy if you don’t recognize it. We’re getting into: * The 4 core traits of high conflict people * Why their reactions feel intense and confusing * The patterns and phrases they use * How to recognize it early * Why you can’t change them * How to protect your energy without getting pulled in Because once you see the pattern… you stop taking it personally and start responding differently. ⏱ Timestamps 00:00 [?t=0] When conversations suddenly turn into conflict 01:05 [?t=65] What are high conflict people (HCPs)? 02:10 [?t=130] The 4 traits explained 03:40 [?t=220] All or nothing thinking 06:00 [?t=360] Unmanaged emotions and emotional reasoning 08:20 [?t=500] Extreme behaviors and escalation 10:30 [?t=630] Blaming others and avoiding responsibility 12:20 [?t=740] Why you can’t unsee the pattern 13:45 [?t=825] Self test for high conflict tendencies 16:00 [?t=960] Why high conflict people act this way 18:30 [?t=1110] Where this shows up in real life 20:45 [?t=1245] Warning signs and common phrases 23:30 [?t=1410] Why you cannot change them 24:45 [?t=1485] How to respond without escalating 26:00 [?t=1560] The BIFF method explained 28:00 [?t=1680] Stop JADE (don’t justify, argue, defend, explain) 29:30 [?t=1770] Protecting your energy and boundaries 31:00 [?t=1860] Breaking the cycle and taking your power back 🚀 Key Takeaways * High conflict behavior follows predictable patterns * It’s not about one moment, it’s about repeated cycles * You cannot change someone who lacks self-awareness * Emotional engagement fuels escalation * Boundaries only work when enforced * Awareness gives you control over your response 📲 Call To Action Unlock your potential with your personal Cognitive Performance Index assessment: NeuroCPI 👉 app.shelbifox.com [https://app.shelbifox.com] 🌐 Connect with ShelbiWebsite: ShelbiFox.com [https://ShelbiFox.com]Instagram: instagram.com/shelbifox_official [https://instagram.com/shelbifox_official]YouTube: YouTube.com/@shelbifox [https://YouTube.com/@shelbifox]TikTok: TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox [https://TikTok.com/@shelbi_fox]X: x.com/@fuggabrat [https://x.com/@fuggabrat]