October Aces: Julie Sondra Decker

Pride Perspectives 2026: Ashabi and the New Ace Flag, part 1

Because I’ve been sick, this episode is about three days late! I’m so sorry. But! It means that you get two episodes in two days! Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: Ace in Grace: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_aceingrace_/], Substack [https://aceingrace.substack.com/] Other Black Aces to Follow: The Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt_art/], Tumblr [https://www.tumblr.com/asexual-goddessss] GentleGiantAce: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshallb44/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlegiantace93?lang=en], Blue Sky [https://bsky.app/profile/gentlegiantace.bsky.social] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Yagirllici: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici/] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@liciismynickname] jen’s comet: Substack [https://leikeliscomet.substack.com/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

October Aces: Julie Sondra Decker

Ten years after The Invisible Orientation I talk with Julie Decker about what she would change, what she wouldn’t, and living in our changed world. Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Invisible Orientation by Julie Sondra Decker: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-invisible-orientation-an-introduction-to-asexuality-next-generation-indie-book-awards-winner-in-lgbt-julie-sondra-decker/7665070f6087ad4d?ean=9781634502436&next=t] Ace, by Angela Chen: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/ace-what-asexuality-reveals-about-desire-society-and-the-meaning-of-sex-angela-chen/3593703573619d42?ean=9780807014738&next=t] Refusing Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J Brown: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/refusing-compulsory-sexuality-a-black-asexual-lens-on-our-sex-obsessed-culture-sherronda-j-brown/17866777?ean=9781623177102&next=t] The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project [https://taaap.org/], Ace and Aro Journeys Cody Daigle-Orians: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/AceDadAdvice], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/acedadadvice/?hl=en], Substack [https://acedadadvice.substack.com/], website [https://acedadadvice.com/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@acedadadvice?lang=en] Sounds Fake But Okay [https://www.soundsfakepod.com/] podcast The Asexual Agenda [https://asexualagenda.wordpress.com/] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Shows to Watch BoJack Horseman Sirens Huge Shortland Street (New Zealand) Heartstopper Two People Who Can’t Fall In Love (Japanese) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Ace Week Specials: Kimberly Butler

For Ace Week, we talked SoulACE Day, gave each other reading and watching recommendations, and somehow still talked about the Robins Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Asexual Goddess: Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt_art/], Tumblr [https://www.tumblr.com/asexual-goddessss] Yagirllici: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici/] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@liciismynickname] GentleGiantAce: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshall_blount/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/discover/gentle-giant?lang=en] Fluently Aspec: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@fluentlyaspec] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/fluentlyaspec/] Alice Osman: website [https://aliceoseman.com/] Stuff to read Cassandra Clare, The Mortal Instruments, The Dark Artifices: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/city-of-bones-cassandra-clare/5fffbff98432d4e9?ean=9781481455923&next=t], Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-dark-artifices-the-complete-paperback-collection-boxed-set-lady-midnight-lord-of-shadows-queen-of-air-and-darkness-cassandra-clare/6c3bb4c4b4d069d0?ean=9781534462601&next=t] Margaret Owen, Little Thieves: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/little-thieves-margaret-owen/4ebd9a68cc33a23d?ean=9781250853530&next=t] Claire Kann, Let’s Talk About Love: Bookshop [https://bookshop.org/p/books/let-s-talk-about-love-claire-kann/d043a0f4da47fbcb?ean=9781250294500&next=t] Stuff to Watch Dr. Stone, anime One Piece, anime This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Ace Week Specials: Ashabi Owagboriaye

Today we talk Hugh Jackman, Chicago, the Ace Flag, and other uncomfortable conversations Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: Ace in Grace: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_aceingrace_/] Ace Flag Revision Survey [https://survey.typeform.com/to/EeIgyMXK?typeform-source=aceingrace.carrd.co] Correction for the episode: SoulACE Day was founded by all three of these creators: Yagirllici: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici/] and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@liciismynickname] GentleGiantAce: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshallb44/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlegiantace93?lang=en], Blue Sky [https://bsky.app/profile/gentlegiantace.bsky.social] Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/asexual_goddess/] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

October Aces: Kimberly Butler

Today I talk with Kimberly Butler, the Asexual Goddess, about intersectionality, advocacy, and who is the best Robin. Podcast music by Purple Planet Music. Resources Mentioned in Episode: The Asexual Goddess: Asexual Goddess: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgOPFHX0jIgjwXYcrrMtxTA], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt_art/], Tumblr [https://www.tumblr.com/asexual-goddessss] GentleGiantAce: YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsw6zzoKlskACsfRs0sZ20g], Insta [https://www.instagram.com/marshallb44/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlegiantace93?lang=en], Blue Sky [https://bsky.app/profile/gentlegiantace.bsky.social] Yasmin Benoit: Insta [https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/?hl=en], website [https://www.yasminbenoit.co.uk/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/c/YasminBenoit], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@theyasminbenoit] Comics to read Dom & Mor: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/nafisahtung?igsh=ZnNidXY0NDN1bTE0], Webtoon [https://www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/dom-mor/list?title_no=830924] Brandt & Stein: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/brandtandstein?igsh=MWo5a3B1NGNrajV4eA==] AroAce Dragon: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/_aro_ace_dragon_?igsh=MjJwb2h0Zm42bXNr] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit asexuality201.substack.com [https://asexuality201.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]