Healing From the Raw Pain of Infidelity & Betrayal

Finding Real Love in a Chaotic World

Finding real love can be tricky, and in today's world, meeting organically can be next to impossible. As a result, it's easy to feel hopeless and resigned to being alone or, worse yet, accept a partner who is not a good fit. Yet there are steps you can take to set the stage for finding a partner who is truly a great match. Today, we're joined by Jackie Dorman, relationship coach, professional matchmaker, and author whose techniques have helped thousands of singles find the long-term relationship of their dreams.   Topics discussed include love, relationships, dating, marriage, divorce, dating apps, dating online, healthy relationships, parents, intergenerational patterns, compatibility, infatuation, chemistry, attraction, unhealthy patterns, genuine love, healthy patterns, communication, modern dating, organic dating, and imperfect love.   Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised. Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes. Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ [https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/] and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships [https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships]   IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure. Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love [https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly [https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly] Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend  [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Fear-Carla-Marie-Manly/dp/1641701218] Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly [https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smart-Transform-Relationships-Fearlessly/dp/1641704675] Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond [https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Joyfully-Optimal-Relationships-Fulfillment/dp/1641701412] The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Imperfect-Love-Creating-Relationships/dp/1641709057] Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly: Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1757477615/imperfect-love-reflection-oracle-cards] Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Imperfect-Love-Reflection-Oracle-Cards/dp/B0D1Z5M4YK] Connect with Jackie Dorman: Website: http://www.jackiedorman.com/ [http://www.jackiedorman.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackiedormanofficial/ [https://www.instagram.com/jackiedormanofficial/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jackiedormanofficial [https://www.facebook.com/jackiedormanofficial] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jackiedorman [https://www.youtube.com/@jackiedorman] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jackiedormanofficial [https://www.tiktok.com/@jackiedormanofficial] Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/ [https://drcarlamanly.com/]

LOVE BOOST: 5 Simple Steps to Make Your Relationship GREAT!

Many people – whether married or in other long-term love relationships – begin to feel that they don't want to settle for a romantic partnership that lacks sparkle, connection, and joy. And this makes sense, especially if destructive dynamics are at work behind the scenes. Although many love relationships lose their luster over time, I've found that a bit of polishing and loving attention can help them shine more brightly than ever before. Today, I'm joined by a renowned relationship expert, researcher, and author, Dr. Terri Orbuch, who will walk us through the five simple steps that can help your romantic relationship go from dull and merely tolerable to great. Topics discussed include connection, emotional connection, intimacy, sex, sexual intimacy, attachment style, healthy disagreements, conflict, 10-minute rule, novelty, mystery, companionship, friendship, divorce, marriage, long-term relationship, happiness, and stability.   Topics discussed include connection, emotional connection, intimacy, sex, sexual intimacy, attachment style, healthy disagreements, conflict, 10-minute rule, novelty, mystery, companionship, friendship, divorce, marriage, long-term relationship, happiness, and stability.   Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised. Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes. Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ [https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/] and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships [https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships]   IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure. Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love [https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly [https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly] Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend  [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Fear-Carla-Marie-Manly/dp/1641701218] Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly [https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smart-Transform-Relationships-Fearlessly/dp/1641704675] Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond [https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Joyfully-Optimal-Relationships-Fulfillment/dp/1641701412] The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Imperfect-Love-Creating-Relationships/dp/1641709057] Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly: Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1757477615/imperfect-love-reflection-oracle-cards] Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Imperfect-Love-Reflection-Oracle-Cards/dp/B0D1Z5M4YK] Connect with Dr. Terri Orbuch: Website: https://drterrithelovedoctor.com/ [https://drterrithelovedoctor.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terriorbuch/ [https://www.instagram.com/terriorbuch/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriLoveDr/# [https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriLoveDr/] Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/ [https://drcarlamanly.com/]

Say "YES!" to Joyful Connection, Purpose, and a BEAUTIFUL LIFE!

Do life's stressors leave you feeling out of balance and disconnected from yourself? From personal and professional experience, I've found that many people struggle with finding the internal peace and purpose they desire, want, and need. Yet in real life, it's not easy to find or use the tools that can reduce stress and increase inner joy, confidence, and self-awareness. But what if the life of your dreams is waiting just outside your door? Today, I'm joined by an amazing special guest, Dr. Jordan Ashley of the nonprofit Souljourn Yoga Foundation. Dr. Ashley helps people around the world transform and deepen their connection with themselves, their purpose, and the outer world.   Topics discussed include fear, anxiety, stress, balance, embodiment, peace, getting unstuck, purpose, passion, self-awareness, community, connection, fulfillment, acts of service, education, travel, yoga, inspiration, yoga retreat, underprivileged girls, underprivileged women, helping others, Cambodia, Morocco, giving back, community service, mentorship, transformation, empowerment, and joy.   Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised. Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes. Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ [https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/] and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships [https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships]   IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure. Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love [https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly [https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly] Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend  [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Fear-Carla-Marie-Manly/dp/1641701218] Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly [https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smart-Transform-Relationships-Fearlessly/dp/1641704675] Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond [https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Joyfully-Optimal-Relationships-Fulfillment/dp/1641701412] The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Imperfect-Love-Creating-Relationships/dp/1641709057] Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly: Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1757477615/imperfect-love-reflection-oracle-cards] Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Imperfect-Love-Reflection-Oracle-Cards/dp/B0D1Z5M4YK] Connect with Dr. Jordan Ashley: Website: https://www.souljournyoga.com/ [https://www.souljournyoga.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/souljournyoga/ [https://www.instagram.com/souljournyoga/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SouljournYoga/ [https://www.facebook.com/SouljournYoga/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@souljournyoga [https://www.tiktok.com/@souljournyoga] Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/ [https://drcarlamanly.com/]

Healing From the Raw Pain of Infidelity & Betrayal

If you've ever been betrayed by a loved one, especially a romantic partner, you know how deeply painful it can be. When those we count on most betray our trust, it can take years to process the betrayal, heal, and move forward. So if you're aching over a new or old wound stemming from disloyalty, know that you are not alone. Today, I'm joined by an amazing expert, Joe Sanok, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and podcaster, who will share his journey of betrayal with us. Joe will take us through the process of how to heal so you can open your heart to those worthy of your trust.   Topics discussed include betrayal, infidelity, parenting, single parenting, marriage, divorce, children, anger, resentment, disgust, Gottman Method, The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, stonewalling, criticism, contempt, defensiveness, cheating, honesty, transparency, healing, apology, amends, trust, and support.   Sensitive Episode: Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised. Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes. Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ [https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/] and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships [https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships]   IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure. Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love [https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly [https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly] Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend  [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Fear-Carla-Marie-Manly/dp/1641701218] Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly [https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smart-Transform-Relationships-Fearlessly/dp/1641704675] Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond [https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Joyfully-Optimal-Relationships-Fulfillment/dp/1641701412] The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Imperfect-Love-Creating-Relationships/dp/1641709057] Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly: Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1757477615/imperfect-love-reflection-oracle-cards] Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Imperfect-Love-Reflection-Oracle-Cards/dp/B0D1Z5M4YK] Connect with Joe Sanok: Website: https://practiceofthepractice.com/ [https://practiceofthepractice.com/] https://greatlakesonlinecounseling.com/ [https://greatlakesonlinecounseling.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/practiceofthepractice/ [https://www.instagram.com/practiceofthepractice/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Practiceofthepractice [https://www.youtube.com/@Practiceofthepractice] Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/ [https://drcarlamanly.com/]

Getting Strong: Setting Boundaries without Losing Relationships

Are you a naturally nurturing person who finds that acts of loving kindness are being mistaken for invitations to be taken advantage of or manipulated? For many generous souls, the moment they begin setting boundaries, the pushback can feel enormous. This is the painful reality for one mother, whose question forms the focus of this episode: "I finally realized my daughter is manipulating me... I have started saying no. This has made her really angry. She is worse than ever and threatens to cut me off if I do not give her whatever she wants." How do you keep your boundaries without losing your child? In this essential discussion, Dr. Carla Manly is joined by clinician and host Dr. Darcy Sterling [https://www.askdrdarcy.com/] to provide expert tips on how to create and maintain strong, healthy boundaries, navigate uncomfortable conflicts, and avoid falling back into old, detrimental patterns. We often think that giving our loved ones everything they want and need is the right thing to do. And this is especially true for those of us who are naturally nurturing and giving. Yet, from my experience, I've found that certain people mistake acts of loving kindness for invitations to take advantage--or even abuse--generous souls. When this occurs, eye-opening moments often help the giver realize they are being used or manipulated. And if strong boundaries are then put in place, the push-back can be enormous. Today, I'm joined by a terrific clinician who will provide tips to help you create and maintain healthy boundaries. Topics discussed include family, friends, children, adult children, parents, parenting, emotional blackmail, boundaries, demands, ultimatums, estrangement, conflict avoidance, tolerance, discomfort, healthy boundary setting, empathy, validation, listening, reinforcement, negative behaviors, people-pleasing, and imperfect love. Sensitive Episode:  Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised. Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).  As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.  Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ [https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/] and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships [https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships] IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure. Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love [https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly [https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly] Books by Dr. Carla Manly: Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend  [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Fear-Carla-Marie-Manly/dp/1641701218]  Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly [https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smart-Transform-Relationships-Fearlessly/dp/1641704675]  Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond [https://www.amazon.com/Aging-Joyfully-Optimal-Relationships-Fulfillment/dp/1641701412]  The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships [https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Imperfect-Love-Creating-Relationships/dp/1641709057]  Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly: Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1757477615/imperfect-love-reflection-oracle-cards]  Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/Imperfect-Love-Reflection-Oracle-Cards/dp/B0D1Z5M4YK] Connect with Dr. Darcy Sterling: Website: https://www.askdrdarcy.com/ [https://www.askdrdarcy.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdarcysterling [https://www.instagram.com/drdarcysterling] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDarcySterling/ [https://www.facebook.com/DrDarcySterling/] Connect with Dr. Carla Manly: Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com [https://www.drcarlamanly.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/] Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/ [https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly [https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly] LinkedIn: