8 things you need to do before getting into a relationship

what if i never find someone again? there is always someone better

One of the biggest fears after a breakup is the thought: “What if I never find someone again?” In this solo episode, I talk about why that fear feels so real, how heartbreak convinces us that we lost our only chance at love, and why that's rarely true. We dive into the psychology behind attachment, scarcity mindset, and why we tend to put people on a pedestal after they're gone. I also share how to stop romanticizing the past, rebuild your confidence, and trust that the right person won't require you to beg for love, attention, or effort. If you're struggling to let go of someone and wondering if you'll ever find a connection like that again, this episode is the reminder that your story doesn't end with one person.

dating, but from a guys perspective (w/ brayden black)

In this episode, Brayden joins me to talk about dating from a guy’s perspective and answer the questions girls are always wondering about. We get into modern dating, mixed signals, communication, relationships, confidence, attachment, and what guys actually think when it comes to love and commitment. We also talk about red flags, dating standards, emotional vulnerability, and the biggest misunderstandings between guys and girls. This episode feels like one big honest conversation that gives insight into dating from both sides.

the secret to confidence & authenticity (w/ lucy jacobsen)

In this episode, we talk all about confidence, authenticity, and what it really means to be yourself in a world that constantly pressures people to fit in. We dive into the psychology behind self-worth, validation, comparison, and why so many people struggle to feel comfortable as their real selves. We also talk about overcoming insecurity, building confidence from within, setting boundaries, and learning to stop shrinking yourself for other people. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing instead of genuinely living as yourself, this episode is for you.

8 things you need to do before getting into a relationship

In this solo episode, I talk about 8 things I believe everyone should focus on before getting into a relationship. We always hear people say “love yourself first,” but no one really talks about what that actually looks like. This episode is all about becoming more secure within yourself, building a life you genuinely enjoy on your own, and learning how to stop relying on relationships for validation, happiness, or identity. If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness, attachment, overthinking, or losing yourself in relationships, this episode will really resonate with you.

living with OCD & how to manage it (w/ jacie smoot)

In this episode, I sit down with Jacie to have a real and honest conversation about living with OCD. We talk about what OCD actually looks like beyond the stereotypes, how it affects everyday life, and the challenges that come with managing intrusive thoughts and compulsions. We also touch on religious OCD, or scrupulosity, and how it can impact your thoughts and beliefs. Most importantly, we share ways to cope, manage symptoms, and navigate OCD in a way that feels healthier and more grounded.