Who gets to be a victim? The Pink Nipple Theory and Black Womanhood

I Hate Carrie Bradshaw Because I Am Carrie Bradshaw: A Post-Breakup Manifesto

In this episode, I unpack the tragic comedy of being a modern-day Carrie Bradshaw without the budget or the cigarette. We talk about what it means to date while being real, vulnerable, and actually in love in a culture that rewards manipulation and “high value woman” performativity. From the cult of SheraSeven and TheWizardLiz to the illusion of options, we get into the raw, unfiltered chaos of heartbreak, anxious attachment, and trying to heal without turning into a Menace to Me. I said what I said, and yes, I cried about it after. It’s deep, it’s delusional, it’s devastating. And honestly, it’s iconic! Connect with us on our socials Instagram: @keeping_it_kuntroversial Substack: @kursedkourt

Where The Hell Have I Been?!

“After all, computers crash, people die, relationships fall apart. The best we can do is breathe and reboot.” – Carrie Bradshaw After a little hiatus, I’m back! breathing, rebooting, and bringing the mic with me. In this episode, I’m catching you up on where I’ve been since November, what life has looked and felt like behind the scenes, and how I’ve been processing the chaos, the quiet, and everything in between. From heartbreaks to healing, soft resets to hard truths. And consider this my warm reintroduction. I’m also spilling my summer favourites: the music, media, moods, and moments that kept me going and reminded me who I am. This one’s for anyone who’s had to step back to return stronger. Tune in for the soft landing, the sharp insight, and a whole lot of heart. ♡

Who gets to be a victim? The Pink Nipple Theory and Black Womanhood

On this episode of Keeping It Kuntroversial, we dive into the 'Pink Nipple Theory'—an unfiltered exploration of how societal purity standards are inherently racialized, favoring white women while subjecting Black women to relentless scrutiny and double standards. We unpack the ways society nitpicks its victims, holding Black women to impossible standards while granting others the privilege of innocence and softness. Why is purity still a currency reserved for white femininity? Why is the world so quick to demonize Black women for behaviors that are celebrated in others? This episode takes a raw and honest look at respectability politics, media portrayals, and the deep-rooted biases that shape perceptions of beauty, morality, and worth. Expect spicy takes, hard truths, and a call to dismantle the narratives that hold Black women back. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges societal norms and calls out the hypocrisy at every turn. Let’s get into it! Connect with us on our socials Instagram: @keeping_it_kuntroversial

Validation, Vogue, and Vulnerability: Exploring The Queer Scene as a Neurodivergent Trans Girl

On this episode of Keeping It Kuntroversial With Kourtney, I’m sharing my deeply personal journey of navigating Johannesburg’s queer nightlife and ballroom scenes—not just as a trans girl in the early stages of my transition but also as a neurodivergent woman. Johannesburg’s queer spaces are vibrant, chaotic, and full of life, but they can also be overwhelming, filled with unspoken rules, social hierarchies, and moments that make you question where you belong. This episode explores the intersections of identity, nightlife, and culture, diving into what it means to seek connection and validation in spaces that are both liberating and demanding. Whether you’re in the ballroom or on the dance floor, it’s all about showing up as your most authentic self—even if that self is still a work in progress. Connect with us on our socials Instagram: @keeping_it_kuntroversial

Is She Really Your Friend? The Complicated Reality of Female Friendships

In this episode of Keeping It Kuntroversial with Kourtney, we’re diving deep into the complexities of female friendships—the good, the bad, and the controversial. From the fierce loyalty to the unspoken competition and boundary-crossing, we'll explore what makes these relationships some of the most powerful and challenging ones we experience. Using iconic dynamics from shows like Girlfriends, we’ll look at how fictional friendships like Joan and Toni’s mirror real-life sisterhood: the love, the drama, and the inevitable ups and downs. If you’ve ever questioned a best friend’s loyalty, dealt with a “frenemy,” or struggled with balancing support and boundaries, this episode is for you. Join me as I unpack the raw truth about what it means to truly connect with another woman—and when to recognize that the friendship might be more complicated than we thought. Get ready for a real, honest look at the beauty and mess of female friendships! Connect with us on our socials instagram: @keeping_it_kuntroversial