#40 Getting To The Root Of The Matter - Unlocking Change Around Your Drinking.

#42 Conscious Living: The Journey to Alcohol Control with Amiee Kate Speakman

Summary In this conversation, Amiee Kate Speakman, a mindset and wellness coach, shares her journey of taking a break from alcohol and the positive impact it has had on her life. The conversation covers topics such as the tipping point that led to her decision, the increase in alcohol intake during the pandemic, the role of alcohol in socializing, and the challenges of parenting a small child while drinking. Amiee also discusses the resources she used to educate herself about alcohol & her drinking behaviours, including books and podcasts. She shares strategies for coping with cravings and temptations, as well as the benefits she has experienced since quitting alcohol, such as improved sleep and overall health. The conversation concludes with a discussion on mindset and the importance of embracing yourself and making mindful choices around sugar. In this conversation, Carol and Aimee discuss the importance of mindset and self-talk in overcoming challenges related to alcohol and personal development. They explore the power of subconscious thinking and beliefs, as well as the need to question and challenge negative thoughts. They also emphasize the significance of adding positive elements to counteract negative thinking and the value of movement and physical activity in improving mental well-being. The conversation highlights the importance of taking small steps, being kind to yourself, and celebrating milestones along the journey of taking back control of your drinking. They also discuss the role of reflection and preparation in overcoming triggers and building a personal toolkit for coping.   Takeaways Taking a break from alcohol can have a positive impact on sleep, energy levels, mood, and overall health and wellness. Educating yourself through books, podcasts, and online communities can provide valuable support and guidance. Finding non-alcoholic drink alternatives can help with cravings and provide a sense of normalcy in social situations. Mindset plays a crucial role in rewiring thought patterns and coping with triggers and cravings. Making mindful choices around sugar can contribute to overall well-being. Mindset and self-talk play a crucial role in overcoming challenges related to alcohol and personal development. Questioning and challenging negative thoughts is essential for changing patterns of thinking. Adding positive elements, such as affirmations and physical activity, can counteract negative thinking and improve mental well-being. Taking small steps, being kind to yourself, and celebrating milestones are important aspects of the journey to alcohol control and personal growth. You can find Aimee here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeekatecoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/aimeekatecoaching/] You can find Aimee here on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aimeespeakman/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/aimeespeakman/] Conclusion I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. This is a call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge. Please follow the link below for further information: https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠ [https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠]   Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode. Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠ [carol@warriormumcoaching.com]   Follow me on socials here: Website - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ [file:///D:/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach] ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠ [https://d.docs.live.net/e51cc1bf1bc97e26/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach]

#41 Autism Awareness Day & Why It's SO Important to Me & My Drinking Story

Sound Bites "I was probably spending £400 a month on wine from the wine club." "Alcohol is readily accessible, isn't it? We all use it to self-medicate don't we?" "Alcohol is a toxic substance, it's actually carcinogenic."   Keywords autism, coping mechanism, education, drinking habits, root causes, mindset, faith, alternatives to alcohol, support, sobriety   Summary In this conversation, Carol shares her personal journey with alcohol and how it was influenced by her son's autism diagnosis. She discusses how she used alcohol as a coping mechanism and the challenges she faced in her son's education. Carol emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind our drinking habits and the need to address the root causes. She also highlights the power of mindset and the role of faith in overcoming habitual habits & behaviours. Carol provides practical tips for finding alternatives to alcohol and seeking support on the journey to moderation or taking a break from drinking. Takeaways Using alcohol as a coping mechanism for stress and challenges can lead to a slippery slope of relying on alcohol. Understanding the root causes of our drinking habits is crucial for long-term change. Mindset work and addressing the emotional reasons behind drinking are essential for breaking free from our habitual drinking habits. Finding alternatives to alcohol and seeking support from coaches or communities can aid in the journey to controlling your drinking. Leaning on faith and drawing strength from God can provide comfort and guidance in difficult times. LINKS FROM THE EPISODE William Porter’s website with links for his books. Alcohol Explained – The definitive, groundbreaking guide to alcohol, alcoholism and addiction [https://alcoholexplained.com/] Rick Warren devotional: Daily Hope with Rick Warren - Devotional - Pastor Rick's Daily Hope [https://pastorrick.com/devotional/] Rick Warren Daily Hope App: Pastor Rick's Daily Hope – Apps on Google Play [https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.purposedriven.dailyhope&pli=1] Rick Warren Book The Purpose Driven Life: https://amzn.eu/d/0NEgkMc [https://amzn.eu/d/0NEgkMc] ⁠I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. This is a call where we look at your habits & challenges around your drinking & you leave the call with a plan and a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you need. Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠ [https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall]   Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode. Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠ [carol@warriormumcoaching.com]   Follow me on socials here: Website - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ [file:///D:/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach] ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠ [https://d.docs.live.net/e51cc1bf1bc97e26/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach]

#40 PART 2 - Christian Perspective: Getting To The Root Of The Matter.

Summary In part 2 of this episode, Carol discusses the Christian perspective on changing behaviour and overcoming habitual drinking. She emphasizes the importance of addressing the root of the problem rather than focusing on behaviour modification. Carol uses the analogy of removing the roots of a passionflower to illustrate the need for deep change. She highlights the role of belief systems and neural pathways in forming habits and suggests that spiritual transformation can lead to lasting change. Carol also encourages listeners to draw strength from the Holy Spirit and seek support from other Christians. She concludes with a prayer for victory over habitual habits.   Takeaways Changing behaviour requires addressing the root of the problem, not just modifying behaviour. Belief systems and neural pathways play a significant role in forming habits. Spiritual transformation can lead to lasting change. Drawing strength from the Holy Spirit and seeking support from other Christians is essential in overcoming habitual drinking.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Recap 01:23 The Difficulty of Changing Behaviour 04:27 Changing Neural Pathways 06:01 Spiritual Transformation 07:12 Drawing Strength from the Holy Spirit 08:15 Defining and Breaking Habits 10:04 Identifying Triggers 11:22 Seeking Support from Other Christians 13:05 Alcohol as a False God 14:37 Taking Control and Seeking God's Help 16:20 God's Power Over Habits   Here is the link to Craig Groeschel talking about bad habits: https://youtu.be/kVobe_Qz7Cw [https://youtu.be/kVobe_Qz7Cw]   I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. As it’s my second business anniversary I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March so check out the link to get booked in!⁠ This is a call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge. Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠ [https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall]   Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode. Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠ [carol@warriormumcoaching.com]   Follow me on socials here: Website - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ [file:///D:/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach] ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠ [https://d.docs.live.net/e51cc1bf1bc97e26/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach]

#40 Getting To The Root Of The Matter - Unlocking Change Around Your Drinking.

PLEASE NOTE MY CHRISTIAN TAKE ON THIS EPISODE WILL BE DELIVERED IN PART 2. (A SEPERATE RECORDING) PLEASE CHECK BACK SOON TO LISTEN IN. 🙏   Summary In this conversation, Carol discusses various topics related to mindset and behavioural change. She provides a personal update and shares her son's assessment and university plans. Carol emphasizes the importance of getting out and socializing, especially for young people. She then delves into the power of mindset and the need to change our thinking at its root cause. She discusses the influence of perspective, self-talk, and negative thinking on her first marriage and mental health. Carol also highlights the impact of thoughts on physical well-being and the misconceptions surrounding alcohol's effects. She concludes by offering solutions and strategies for changing mindset and taking control. Takeaways Getting out and socializing is important for mental well-being, especially for young people. Changing behaviour isn't the answer it requires addressing the root cause and mindset. Negative thinking and self-talk can have a significant impact on relationships and mental health. Positive thinking and belief systems can lead to positive changes in our drinking patterns and our well-being. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Update 02:27 Son's Assessment and University Plans 03:54 The Importance of Getting Out and Socializing 04:24 Focus on Mindset and Changing Behaviour 08:13 The Power of Mindset and Thoughts 09:41 The Influence of Perspective and Self-Talk 11:43 Negative Thinking and Its Impact on Relationships 14:07 Negative Self-Talk and Depression 21:55 The Power of Positive Thinking 23:07 The Misconception of Alcohol's Effects 27:02 The Importance of Self-Talk and Belief Systems 29:51 Changing Mindset and Taking Control 30:48 Digging Deeper to Address Root Causes 33:19 Offering Solutions and Strategies 34:19 The Power of the Mind to Physically Change the Body I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. As it’s my second business anniversary I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March so check out the link to get booked in! This is a call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge. Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠ [https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall]   Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode. [https://open.spotify.com/show/4gd5Yem5k9MqL4iyU8SnwZ?si=7681f403513f417e] Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠ [carol@warriormumcoaching.com]   Follow me on socials here: Website - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ [file:///D:/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach] ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠ [https://d.docs.live.net/e51cc1bf1bc97e26/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach]

#39 Breaking the Cycle: Navigating Alcohol, Peer Pressure & Positive Change.

Summary Tracy shares her journey of growing up with alcohol in the family and the embarrassment she felt as a child. She discusses her own drinking habits, starting with cider at parties and later binge drinking in her 30s. Tracy explains how the decision to stop drinking was influenced by her desire to have a different experience for her own child. She talks about the challenges of peer pressure and the reactions she received from friends and family when she stopped drinking. Tracy also discusses the changing attitudes towards non-alcoholic drinks and the importance of finding alternatives in social settings. In this conversation, Tracy and Carol discuss their experiences with alcohol and the benefits of quitting drinking. They talk about the peer pressure and social acceptance of alcohol, as well as the challenges of changing drinking habits. Tracy shares how quitting alcohol has improved her sleep, weight, and overall well-being. They also discuss the impact of alcohol on relationships and the importance of having a supportive circle of friends. Tracy speaks about her business, which supports people with dementia, inspired by her mother's diagnosis and sad passing. Overall, the conversation highlights the personal and societal effects of alcohol and the positive changes that can come from quitting.   Takeaways Growing up with alcohol in the family can have a lasting impact on a person's relationship with alcohol. Peer pressure can be a significant factor in drinking habits, but it is possible to resist and make different choices. Changing attitudes towards non-alcoholic drinks are making it easier for people to socialize without alcohol. Stopping drinking can lead to positive changes in relationships and personal well-being. Quitting alcohol can lead to improved sleep, weight loss, and a clear head. Changing drinking habits can be challenging, especially when faced with peer pressure and social acceptance of alcohol. Having a supportive circle of friends and changing friendship groups can make quitting alcohol easier. Alcohol can have a negative impact on relationships, and quitting can lead to improved partnerships. Educating yourself about the dangers of alcohol and giving people a choice can help promote healthier habits. You can find Tracey here at Creative Energy Studios. [https://www.facebook.com/CreativeEnergyStudioWorksop] It's my second business birthday I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March (normally £99). Check out the link to get booked in! This is a one off call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or solutions to make the changes you are finding a challenge. Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠ [https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall]   Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode. Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠ [carol@warriormumcoaching.com]   Follow me on socials here: Website - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠ [https://www.warriormumcoaching.com/] Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching] Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching] LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ [file:///D:/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach] ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠ [https://d.docs.live.net/e51cc1bf1bc97e26/Documents/www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach]