How Independence Protects Hearts

Are You Ready To Spare Hearts From Abuse?

Let's look at the research on what makes us vulnerable to abuse. Then, let's look at some ways WorththeWar is helping to provide ways to educate the hearts in our reach that deserve better! Are you ready to help spare hearts?  Let’s look at what research shows makes someone vulnerable and then consider: do you know anyone like this?  1. Empathy & compassion- more likely to overlook red flags and hope for healing 2. Naivety or lack of experience: people with little to no experience who have no idea of things like love bombing or gaslighting. (pretty much anyone YOUNG) 3. Financial dependence/instability; easier to trap and control. 4. Low self-esteem- They will be more likely to believe they deserve it. There are other factors, too: past trauma, societal attitudes, cultural norms, isolation, peer pressure to be in a relationship, and the list goes on. This is helpful information you can find at the National Domestic Abuse Violence Hotline and RAINN websites!  I think the question becomes, how many people do you know who don’t make this list? The Dark Heart (someone who would rather wound than Love) How does the way we define Love play into this vulnerability? If we don’t have a healthy definition of Love, we are more likely to confuse it with attraction, control, jealousy, and manipulation. Culture adds to the confusion with ideas like Love hurts, jealousy is cute, and dominance is sexy.  We are working to provide you with conversation starters to open the dialogue about what Love is and what people call Love to isolate and control you. The idea is to have a fun gift or novelty to show how much you care and then to open the dialogue about what is happening in the broader culture. How many people want Love only by choosing a path that leads to broken dreams, lives, and worse? We can only battle what we know; it’s time to begin to teach the tactics and the ideas that take us places we never wanted, with people we never understood.  I hope you are ready. It’s been a long time since we learned what tangible things we can do to shift the ideas of Love. Let’s do this!  Let’s Love Well or Not at All!   You can also find us at our Website: https://worththewar.com/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa1ZIb2ZraGVhUVJfVHI3S3VsV0Q2SnJLMHJYUXxBQ3Jtc0tsbTBWZFZMdE1CUXU2Sk5Jd2RWM0VJWWdCT1FjVGlWeHhBSGtMSzd4Y3RUMkNrNVpBSHd6N1dWNWdwQ0syanZQamdfOG9EYWR5Z2hWQ2JHZ3Q1UGJSS0JqTHBwTlZadUNSRnU3bF8wVEx1aFNtbHEtaw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fworththewar.com%2F&v=IICLmY5_Qw0] Instagram:   / worththewar   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbW0zUVo0eWNZVVJSTGV6YnpUbjdzWGJKckREQXxBQ3Jtc0tsUXJhb3lnZWdRUGJDc3o5X1BPT29sLXc4ZFlQOTRrX0Q1Z2Z5R2lIQUFpZDJpc2Juei1Yc2M3NmJCa3dtZUgxTENnOTFrTDNzU0dEMjZSNDJQSUxxVjhEbkJqbUZ5bl9NckExN190XzdZX09HUktFRQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=IICLmY5_Qw0] Facebook:   / worththewar   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbE5ybnNPM2RiOWRDc0I1RTBZVk45VmxUenpaQXxBQ3Jtc0trSlNBTXNKM1dVbVh1bXowelNZakNxWGVmZU1ERjVkSlVLY0xzcjRBb1ZkT0lrWU9palRlWHhtMEtoWGJFcnFrbTlTWTRkdUxLeFVaR01mYW1DYTN3TzZPOVRTVEQ4SmU1cnpvX19uMS1VUHF1ell6WQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=IICLmY5_Qw0] Pinterest:   / worththewar.   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUlXVWJMeVhxSUhrVXYxUlZVNzF2VG9IeHpmUXxBQ3Jtc0tuVUVkTkdYTndjdTFES1lEMDQzcnB3czh2WWwzbFhOcTVWQVRsZTJGVDdmc0RVNVgzaGozRWhMQklBSThUMUw3Mnc0QjlhLXVNaGxNOVdpTUR5MkNTRmlGVkNtdFNPajBiTVpxUHhVWjYxSlF1R3dacw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fworththewar..&v=IICLmY5_Qw0]. Twitter:   / worththewar   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbGszRGl1RWFLYUV4ZG9FeDB6N3RfTGxvWDltUXxBQ3Jtc0tsTEVTWWQxZE9vU0hWYUtwcmNhOVBGZGVJc0ZaSmlSNGVBVER4ZVdnMHVzX0VoQ1otR09pcVp5b0FwVjZ2TVgwOFJ1WE1ONkVBbEtqb0xNRExyM0dmOGhYbkR0XzJOajJNVlViZm5JOFk5bkpMMkQ2RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2FWorththeWar&v=IICLmY5_Qw0] Questions? You can reach me at WorththeWar@gmail.com. This video is not intended to replace medical or mental health advice. This video is for informational purposes only.

Spare Your Kids- Teach Them About Control In Relationships

It's time to teach your children how to recognize control in relationships, what causes it, and how to swerve around it! Let's spare some hearts today! It is crucial to teach our children about control in relationships because it helps them develop healthy and respectful relationships with others. Control can manifest in different ways, such as emotional manipulation, physical aggression, or limiting someone's freedom and autonomy. When children learn about what control looks like and how it can harm others, they are more likely to recognize it and avoid engaging in such behaviors themselves. Additionally, teaching children about control in relationships can empower them to speak up if they ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe in a relationship, and seek help if necessary. Overall, educating our children about control in relationships is an essential step toward building a society that values healthy and respectful relationships. Every major shift in culture has come from determined voices. Voices that can call out dangers but also shine a light on the path that will restore us! We are determined to rethink Love and relationship! WorththeWar is growing a community of voices, and I hope you will JOIN US! You can also find us at our Website: ⁠https://worththewar.com/⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWhPcEROanF6bl9qdzVQckNzVk10OGFpQ2xYQXxBQ3Jtc0trYkN2cndwaGJ2c1NvcjlEYkpxTW5EMnVrTVJwTWpzUzlpSDV1b3I3MWdRZ0pyRy15RHFXSzFpN19Td2RhMVhPMHpwUDFoRkVUQVhZT3ZEV3N3VlFreDM5a0lmQnJXWUk0WlZOeHZhbnhSd3FYNm04QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fworththewar.com%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/worththewar/⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEFVSHpzQnl4RGhHb2NxM3ZNdVA0SWI0a3g3d3xBQ3Jtc0tuc2NqMko1ZC1NQ0tzaVF5cEJyd0VjT3lGaXdYT2NxaGhNU1ZQVGZCWUdLN2c2YWFnZUQ4bXhkV0Jkd1lJUUplQ0tlOE5JNFBOQlNtZENqR2k4OUJDNktzVEc1MjM1Zkx3aWhmX0cxX0JMSVdZTGtPOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/worththewar/⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEQ0MnFaNVZvbkJYbnVyc1Z4TXI0MHlGX29UUXxBQ3Jtc0ttSUVuaS1JYlQzeWZpeG1RRlVrelFvVHo0cWZ5TGZoMWU4cGhxM0YtczAzbGtINEhOWGE3U1g2UTF6eWF5VXRRZ2lDb1pfb2RuVFNneE5rQkVVRng5SHNJVWhyMnZLdmxyU25mWE9GLW0xRGItLWZIbw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Pinterest: ⁠https://www.pinterest.com/worththewar...⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkFYU3RVNE14ZjRRYVdQb2lFQnA5ajQ2ZjdkUXxBQ3Jtc0tsRXBobGVCSWtCRUhBOTZpZjN6R3U5Yjl2RklYWWhQM0JNNkRNTS1RdGpWN3NRRFRzVk80WlVlWmpjSVRESERFRkhsa0xJZFlnbUhaeHlGaElzcDZpSl9rOElGUkIwSlVNZmFMWXZXY21wQU96bVBYOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fworththewar%2Fboards%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/WorththeWar⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhVOExod1ZMQnhOVkdyUTdCeUpjQ0FBMkdwZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWmpMTzhYdDlHdUR5YWV5NzFpUkswRHRKQkl2TGhtUy1TRG13Z05FSWJCMVZvZzJrYndYNG1lR0FHWkE1QS1hc21TM094V0NhS3d5aVFKM0FMdlVLUmE4Ymd6TVlZbHZsTkVnNWJMbnROVDVoZXlTTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2FWorththeWar&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Questions? You can reach me at WorththeWar@gmail.com. This video is not intended to replace medical or mental health advice. This video is for informational purposes only.

How Independence Protects Hearts

We cannot pass a healthy connection to the next generation if we don't take the time to fix our toxic ideas first! If we don't understand what kind of dependence leaves us vulnerable to dark hearts, who will we avoid it? If we can't cultivate independence, how will we know when to be safe and choose to depend on people we trust? Let's talk about it as we spend a few minutes to spare possibly years in the lives of the people we LOVE. Join us as we ReThink Love and relationship! If we prepare hearts, we are on the way to sparing hearts! We can do a better job than was offered to our generation; the statistics scream for change-Are You In? Every major shift in culture has come from determined voices. Voices that can call out dangers but also shine a light on the path that will restore us! We are determined to rethink Love and relationship! WorththeWar is growing a community of voices, and I hope you will JOIN US! You can also find us at our Website: https://worththewar.com/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWhPcEROanF6bl9qdzVQckNzVk10OGFpQ2xYQXxBQ3Jtc0trYkN2cndwaGJ2c1NvcjlEYkpxTW5EMnVrTVJwTWpzUzlpSDV1b3I3MWdRZ0pyRy15RHFXSzFpN19Td2RhMVhPMHpwUDFoRkVUQVhZT3ZEV3N3VlFreDM5a0lmQnJXWUk0WlZOeHZhbnhSd3FYNm04QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fworththewar.com%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEFVSHpzQnl4RGhHb2NxM3ZNdVA0SWI0a3g3d3xBQ3Jtc0tuc2NqMko1ZC1NQ0tzaVF5cEJyd0VjT3lGaXdYT2NxaGhNU1ZQVGZCWUdLN2c2YWFnZUQ4bXhkV0Jkd1lJUUplQ0tlOE5JNFBOQlNtZENqR2k4OUJDNktzVEc1MjM1Zkx3aWhmX0cxX0JMSVdZTGtPOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEQ0MnFaNVZvbkJYbnVyc1Z4TXI0MHlGX29UUXxBQ3Jtc0ttSUVuaS1JYlQzeWZpeG1RRlVrelFvVHo0cWZ5TGZoMWU4cGhxM0YtczAzbGtINEhOWGE3U1g2UTF6eWF5VXRRZ2lDb1pfb2RuVFNneE5rQkVVRng5SHNJVWhyMnZLdmxyU25mWE9GLW0xRGItLWZIbw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/worththewar... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkFYU3RVNE14ZjRRYVdQb2lFQnA5ajQ2ZjdkUXxBQ3Jtc0tsRXBobGVCSWtCRUhBOTZpZjN6R3U5Yjl2RklYWWhQM0JNNkRNTS1RdGpWN3NRRFRzVk80WlVlWmpjSVRESERFRkhsa0xJZFlnbUhaeHlGaElzcDZpSl9rOElGUkIwSlVNZmFMWXZXY21wQU96bVBYOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fworththewar%2Fboards%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Twitter: https://twitter.com/WorththeWar [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhVOExod1ZMQnhOVkdyUTdCeUpjQ0FBMkdwZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWmpMTzhYdDlHdUR5YWV5NzFpUkswRHRKQkl2TGhtUy1TRG13Z05FSWJCMVZvZzJrYndYNG1lR0FHWkE1QS1hc21TM094V0NhS3d5aVFKM0FMdlVLUmE4Ymd6TVlZbHZsTkVnNWJMbnROVDVoZXlTTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2FWorththeWar&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Questions? You can reach me at WorththeWar@gmail.com. This video is not intended to replace medical or mental health advice. This video is for informational purposes only.

Practical Ways To Stop Relationship Abuse

If we want people to have healthier relationships, we need to teach them and learn for ourselves what makes us vulnerable to people who would rather wound us than Love us. Today we will cover those practical factors and offer some ideas on overcoming them! Join us as we ReThink Love and relationship! If we prepare hearts, we are on the way to sparing hearts! We can do a better job than was offered to our generation; the statistics scream for change-Are You In? Every major shift in culture has come from determined voices. Voices that can call out dangers but also shine a light on the path that will restore us! We are determined to rethink Love and relationship! WorththeWar is growing a community of voices, and I hope you will JOIN US! You can also find us at our Website: https://worththewar.com/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWhPcEROanF6bl9qdzVQckNzVk10OGFpQ2xYQXxBQ3Jtc0trYkN2cndwaGJ2c1NvcjlEYkpxTW5EMnVrTVJwTWpzUzlpSDV1b3I3MWdRZ0pyRy15RHFXSzFpN19Td2RhMVhPMHpwUDFoRkVUQVhZT3ZEV3N3VlFreDM5a0lmQnJXWUk0WlZOeHZhbnhSd3FYNm04QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fworththewar.com%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEFVSHpzQnl4RGhHb2NxM3ZNdVA0SWI0a3g3d3xBQ3Jtc0tuc2NqMko1ZC1NQ0tzaVF5cEJyd0VjT3lGaXdYT2NxaGhNU1ZQVGZCWUdLN2c2YWFnZUQ4bXhkV0Jkd1lJUUplQ0tlOE5JNFBOQlNtZENqR2k4OUJDNktzVEc1MjM1Zkx3aWhmX0cxX0JMSVdZTGtPOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEQ0MnFaNVZvbkJYbnVyc1Z4TXI0MHlGX29UUXxBQ3Jtc0ttSUVuaS1JYlQzeWZpeG1RRlVrelFvVHo0cWZ5TGZoMWU4cGhxM0YtczAzbGtINEhOWGE3U1g2UTF6eWF5VXRRZ2lDb1pfb2RuVFNneE5rQkVVRng5SHNJVWhyMnZLdmxyU25mWE9GLW0xRGItLWZIbw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/worththewar... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkFYU3RVNE14ZjRRYVdQb2lFQnA5ajQ2ZjdkUXxBQ3Jtc0tsRXBobGVCSWtCRUhBOTZpZjN6R3U5Yjl2RklYWWhQM0JNNkRNTS1RdGpWN3NRRFRzVk80WlVlWmpjSVRESERFRkhsa0xJZFlnbUhaeHlGaElzcDZpSl9rOElGUkIwSlVNZmFMWXZXY21wQU96bVBYOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fworththewar%2Fboards%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Twitter: https://twitter.com/WorththeWar [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhVOExod1ZMQnhOVkdyUTdCeUpjQ0FBMkdwZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWmpMTzhYdDlHdUR5YWV5NzFpUkswRHRKQkl2TGhtUy1TRG13Z05FSWJCMVZvZzJrYndYNG1lR0FHWkE1QS1hc21TM094V0NhS3d5aVFKM0FMdlVLUmE4Ymd6TVlZbHZsTkVnNWJMbnROVDVoZXlTTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2FWorththeWar&v=29QhxYkxknY]  Questions? You can reach me at WorththeWar@gmail.com. This video is not intended to replace medical or mental health advice. This video is for informational purposes only.

Three Things You Should Have Been Taught About Love- But Were Never Told.

We know that Love can make life better or leave us wounded. What is the difference? Is it luck? I offer three truths that can spare hearts in practical ways. Let's share them, remember them, and support young hearts to skip the carnage we have seen. Every major culture shift has come from determined voices. Voices that can call out dangers but also shine a light on the path that will restore us! We are determined to rethink Love and relationship! WorththeWar is growing a community of voices, and I hope you will JOIN US! You can also find us at Website: https://worththewar.com/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWhPcEROanF6bl9qdzVQckNzVk10OGFpQ2xYQXxBQ3Jtc0trYkN2cndwaGJ2c1NvcjlEYkpxTW5EMnVrTVJwTWpzUzlpSDV1b3I3MWdRZ0pyRy15RHFXSzFpN19Td2RhMVhPMHpwUDFoRkVUQVhZT3ZEV3N3VlFreDM5a0lmQnJXWUk0WlZOeHZhbnhSd3FYNm04QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fworththewar.com%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEFVSHpzQnl4RGhHb2NxM3ZNdVA0SWI0a3g3d3xBQ3Jtc0tuc2NqMko1ZC1NQ0tzaVF5cEJyd0VjT3lGaXdYT2NxaGhNU1ZQVGZCWUdLN2c2YWFnZUQ4bXhkV0Jkd1lJUUplQ0tlOE5JNFBOQlNtZENqR2k4OUJDNktzVEc1MjM1Zkx3aWhmX0cxX0JMSVdZTGtPOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/worththewar/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEQ0MnFaNVZvbkJYbnVyc1Z4TXI0MHlGX29UUXxBQ3Jtc0ttSUVuaS1JYlQzeWZpeG1RRlVrelFvVHo0cWZ5TGZoMWU4cGhxM0YtczAzbGtINEhOWGE3U1g2UTF6eWF5VXRRZ2lDb1pfb2RuVFNneE5rQkVVRng5SHNJVWhyMnZLdmxyU25mWE9GLW0xRGItLWZIbw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fworththewar%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/worththewar... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkFYU3RVNE14ZjRRYVdQb2lFQnA5ajQ2ZjdkUXxBQ3Jtc0tsRXBobGVCSWtCRUhBOTZpZjN6R3U5Yjl2RklYWWhQM0JNNkRNTS1RdGpWN3NRRFRzVk80WlVlWmpjSVRESERFRkhsa0xJZFlnbUhaeHlGaElzcDZpSl9rOElGUkIwSlVNZmFMWXZXY21wQU96bVBYOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fworththewar%2Fboards%2F&v=29QhxYkxknY] Twitter: https://twitter.com/WorththeWar [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhVOExod1ZMQnhOVkdyUTdCeUpjQ0FBMkdwZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWmpMTzhYdDlHdUR5YWV5NzFpUkswRHRKQkl2TGhtUy1TRG13Z05FSWJCMVZvZzJrYndYNG1lR0FHWkE1QS1hc21TM094V0NhS3d5aVFKM0FMdlVLUmE4Ymd6TVlZbHZsTkVnNWJMbnROVDVoZXlTTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2FWorththeWar&v=29QhxYkxknY] Questions? You can reach me at WorththeWar@gmail.com. This video is not intended to replace medical or mental health advice. This video is for informational purposes only.