The Desire Drive: Is what you’re doing today what you want to do today?

Sovereignty and Connection: Resolving the seemingly endless push/pull of attachment style in intimate sexual relationships 🕊️🌸🍃

Our childhood emotional environment set us up for how we will relate emotionally with our partners. From the springboard of our youth, some of us will be on a life journey to seek sovereignty, among other quests. Others will be on a journey to curate connection at higher levels, among our other life purposes. Many people call these our emotional attachment styles. The two classic styles are played out in our culture over and over. Mysteriously, each person tends to select the opposite type of emotional style in their partners. Then we wonder what went wrong. … When in reality, we are set up for everything to go right! We choose the partner who is different from ourself for a really great reason - so we can learn! Together we can learn to balance and harmonize our styles. And come into union - what many call Divine Union. A lifelong process, I am here to share ways to navigate the wild and wonderful journey to this union.  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Family Court Survival Guide: Maintaining sovereignty and dignity as your family transitions 🕊️🌤️🪴

I’ve decided to do a podcast on the most boring topic in the whole world.  … Unless you find yourself in a family law case, such as a divorce, custody, or child support case. If you’re in family court or you know someone who is - this might be the most important issue there is. In this episode, I describe my past experience as a family law attorney who had my own law office by the courthouse in Austin for over 20 years. And I tell stories that you probably won’t hear a currently-practicing attorney tell.  I describe the fundamental flaw in the concept of family court in the first place. It’s destroys the fabric of our society to pit family members against one another in ridiculously-expensive and emotionally-destructive fights in order to “resolve” their separation. I give you my unvarnished take on divorce cases, child support cases, custody cases, family law attorneys, jury trials, judges, mediation, and collaborative family law.  We talk about options if you need to hire a family law attorney.  And I tell “the biggest secret of all”. But best of all, I share how to exit the family law court system, or maximize your chances of doing so. Because family law cases are never about the money. They’re about emotional pain. When we learn how to heal our emotional pain, many new doors and opportunities can open. I hope you find this episode useful, darling.  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Sexual Geomancy and Cosmic Gridwork 🌈🧘🏽‍♀️☀️

What if your body was made up of beautiful light waves that flowed all through and around you? And what if you could connect your magic light waves into the light waves of our mother earth and the rest of the cosmos? What if during heart-connected sexual union with your partner, the two of you could connect your super-duper bright light waves into the rest of the cosmos and gift other beings with your love and light? And what if we could form groups and connect our light waves in wonderful sacred geometry shapes inside ourselves, with each being in the group, and with every being in the whole cosmos?! To top it off, what if there were a group of people in Austin, Texas, who get together in person to practice this sacred art? This episode might knock your socks off. ⚡ … Or you might say “Yah, I already do that all the time, River!” Either way, this is one you might not hear anywhere else!  Earth Chakras by Robert Coon Sacred Geography by Marko Pogacnik  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

The Canine Codes: Simple ways to radically improve your relationship with your dog 🐶

Do you have a dog, or know a dog, who has room to improve? A canine who could be more relaxed, calm, happy, fulfilled, and obedient? … And what does this have to do with your life force and sexuality? Every single dog has the capacity to be calm, obedient, and loving toward you and others. And you have the capacity to have a relaxed, loving, relationship with your canine American. No matter how out of reach this may seem. At the root, it’s an energetic thing (plus some very simple techniques). Which means that …. if your energy with your canine is off … your energy with your lover is off as well, my dear. With all my dogs, it’s taken a very short time to “train” them to join my life as a strong ally and then we have enjoyed decades after that of … unity consciousness. As if we were one entity. One superhero being with all of my human-knowledge combined with their extra-sensory perceptions and loyalty. Plus a little extra slobber, fur, and cuddles. 🥰 In this episode, we look at common challenges with dogs. I share my almost 30-year history with dogs and trainers, including rehabilitating violent canines. We look at some central concepts: - most common challenges - dog psychology - what they want and need - the detailed language they speak (not English) - how to communicate very clearly with your canine - leashes and collars, food and treats - jumping, freaking out when someone knocks at the door, and violence. And Daily Walks. 🐾🐾 I share the simple tell-tail sign that shows the world immediately whether or not you are the leader of your pack. And whether your dog is as psychologically stable as they could be. (Literally 99% of the dogs I see around town are NOT getting what they need in this respect.) Your dog wants nothing more than to make you happy.  That’s the only reason it’s living.  Help your dog succeed by understanding the way they communicate and what they need to be in a  wise, loving relationship with you for a lifetime of happiness, clear, communication, and perfect obedience. Harmonize with your dog so your dog becomes your teacher as well!  Showing you aspects of nature and yourself that you might never have been exposed to otherwise. 💞🐶💞 Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

The Desire Drive: Is what you’re doing today what you want to do today?

Desire has a bad name. As a result, we no longer live life in consent at all! Forget consent with sex - is your LIFE in consent? Are you letting life lead you around on a short leash? We did not come here to wake up to an alarm that we did not want to set. We did not come here to sit in traffic for hours that we don’t want to sit in. We did not come here to work in a toxic work environment for someone else’s goals that we don’t even agree with. We did not come here with our powerful sexuality just to serve others sexually. We didn’t even come here just to be bored or settle. True consent has nothing to do with:         ⁃        Obligation         ⁃        Enduring         ⁃        Tolerating         ⁃        Numbing out         ⁃        People pleasing         ⁃        Hinting         ⁃        Wishing, or         ⁃        Settling True consent is built around desire. Your deep desire is what the Highest Version of Yourself wants! Your desire is beautiful and sacred. It’s a nuclear power house of energy inside you that wants to be expressed and become your ally. The question is not is my desire good or bad. The question is where is this desire coming from? When I say desire, I’m not talking about desire from an activated nervous system.  I’m not talking about addictive desire, drunk-dialing desire, amped-up desire to dominate the world, late night desire for a half gallon of ice cream, or the heroin addict’s desire for the next hit. The desire that I’m talking about comes from a place of stillness.  A relaxed nervous system.  Safety in the body.  It comes from your soul. When we’re in stillness, that quiet place, when the thinking mind is at rest.  That’s when your soul speaks to you loud and clear. In this episode, we explore healthy desire. How healthy desire can revitalize your sexuality … revealing your unique style of sexual expression. How healthy desire might improve the world we live in. The deepest desire for many people centers around a deep, loving heart connection with another that becomes more nourishing over time. … maybe many of these connections.  If we all stood in our true desire, maybe we would be more connected. If we are all more connected we would be more powerful as a group and  … Maybe someday we wouldn’t even allow our leaders to start wars against our consent. Maybe more of us would stand in our glorious sovereignty. You and I are infinite light beings. We are walking masters of light. Let’s step into our role as creator of the world around us. By cultivating desire. 🥰 Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  Hop on my email list and let's have a personal connection that doesn't depend on an outside platform! ❤️  LINKS 🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨