How to find your true identity: getting rid of your false self

Confidence From Within

"I think, therefore I am."- Descartes. Confidence is an emotional state that is affected by the way we feel. The way we feel is a direct manifestation of how we think. So in order to be more confident we need to reshape our thought patterns in a way that will build us up. Here are a couple of tips that can be useful when it comes to building your confidence.

How to Become a High Value Woman Pt.2: Qualities of a high Value Woman

“We are afraid to allow ourselves to blossom fully because of the general disapproval that fills our air whenever a ‘little lady’ forgets her place.”- Marianne Williamson Becoming a high value woman is a beautiful journey we all find ourselves in. We are work in progress, and remember at the end of the day there is only one of you. So no matter how far along your journey you are, remain authentic to you. Becoming a high value woman is also becoming the most authentic version of yourself. This should come out of a place of love and not judgement. Become a high value woman for yourself and no one else.

True Femininity and How to Become A High Value Woman Pt. 1

As woman we are taught to be little red riding hoods. Insecure, afraid, occupying less space, and following the one path in front of us, not allowing us to be curious and choose who you decide to be. You were meant for much more. You can be soft and fearless at the same time. You can be kind and not be a people pleaser. You can be grateful and still demand what you deserve. Femininity is not an aesthetic, it is an essence that needs to be cultivated, just like a garden needs to be watered to grow.

How to find your true identity: getting rid of your false self

The reality is that many of us do not know who we truly are because if we did know, we would not be playing it small. We would be doing great and amazing things. We would be living fearlessly and we would be walking in our purpose. We feel lost because we do not know our true identity. The reason we do not truly know who we are is because we do not know who God is. We will start letting go of our false identity when we start embracing what God says is true about us. We will find our true identity when we trust in God and surrender control. You are wonderfully made! Do not make God small by acting like you are not enough. He did not make a mistake with YOU! Psalm 139:13-14- "You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous-how well I know it."

WHY you feel lost Pt.2: Identifying your why

“Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it.” – Buddah Your why motivates action and creates urgency. Your why is the driving force that will give you a reason to keep going and live a life with purpose. If you feel lost it may be because you do not now your WHY, or have lost sight of what your why is. Start living a life that makes you come alive everyday. A life that inspires yourself and those around you.