There's Always a Salt Guy: Rejection, Breadcrumbing & How to Read the Room ft. Rafael Gomez

Zero to Stepdad: Big Life Changes, Long Distance & Keeping Your Relationship Alive

What happens when life moves faster than your relationship can keep up?Matt landed a new job, moved cities, got engaged, and is about to become a stepfather — all before he and his fiancée have ever lived together. Then week five on the job, his boss got fired. The plan changed overnight. And he had to figure out how to tell her.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, hosts Mitch and Ed sit down with Matt to talk about navigating big life changes as a couple — the kind that don't wait for you to be ready.Topics covered:— How to have the hard conversation when the plan falls apart— Why setting realistic expectations early is the only thing that prevents resentment later— The two big life changes rule: why stacking more than two at once breaks relationships— Long distance relationships: what makes them work and what kills them— Moving for a job when your partner has to sacrifice their career and community— What it looks like when couples accidentally become roommates— Asking for help as a man — why we resist it and why it's the dumbest thing we do— Being a leader in a relationship without being an autocrat— How to sacrifice for your partner without losing yourselfMitch opens up about moving to Germany with a toddler, solo daycare runs, losing his entire support network, and the days he's just been a short-tempered asshole. Ed delivers the most honest line of the episode. Matt figures out what it actually means to shift the target on someone you love.Man We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble

It's Not A Zero Sum Game | Patriarchy, Pay Gap & Why Men Don't Feel Heard

Men's podcast. Mitch and Ed debate whether women secretly benefit from the patriarchy — and end up in a 70-minute conversation about the pay gap, hypergamy, why men fall into red pill thinking, and why boys are emotionally neglected from childhood. Topics covered: traditional gender roles, women dating up financially, the Harvard divorce study, occupational segregation, the pay gap and the real factors behind it, why men don't feel heard, the communication double standard, real stoicism vs. repression, and the first ever MWIT Book Club — Dungeon Crawler Carl, The Forgotten Soldier, and The Pentagon Wars. Honest talk for men who'd rather think than shout. No gurus. No grift. Just guys. Find us everywhere: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble [https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble]

That's Not Love, That's Control | Toxic Relationships, Escort Confessions & The Game

On this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch and Ed reunite after months apart — Ed has moved to Europe with his wife, child, and two dogs, while Mitch is juggling two mortgages after buying a new house before his old one sold. Carlos joins mid-episode. They react to six real relationship advice stories covering financial control, study boundaries, an escort confession that led to therapy, orgasm and sexual compatibility, carrying an unmotivated partner, and a girlfriend who found "The Game" with her boyfriend's highlights in it — leading into a full debate on red pill content, negging, and what men are actually reading. ──────────────────────────CHAPTERS──────────────────────────00:00 Cold Open Debate00:25 Season Two Kickoff01:22 Moving Overseas Stress03:00 Two Mortgages Woes04:58 New Advice Format05:49 Hostess Job Control12:25 Study Time Boundaries16:41 Carlos Joins In18:46 Escort Dad Bombshell28:53 Orgasm Conversation35:36 Sex Therapy Reality Check37:47 Resentment And Burnout40:21 Ultimatums Or Exit44:20 Pickup Artist Book Shock46:03 Negging And Dating Tactics53:28 Red Pill Context Debate57:31 Jester Maxing And Apps01:00:46 Man Wit Book Club01:03:11 What We Are Reading01:09:13 War Books And Today01:11:05 Wrap Up And Next Time ───────────────────────────FIND US──────────────────────────Email: Themanwitpc@gmail.com [Themanwitpc@gmail.com]Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheManWitPodcast [https://www.instagram.com/TheManWitPodcast]TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themanwitpodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@themanwitpodcast]Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/manwitpodcast.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/manwitpodcast.bsky.social]YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheManWitPodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@TheManWitPodcast]Podcast: https://tr.ee/mpF4UP-gNZ [https://tr.ee/mpF4UP-gNZ]All links: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble?utm_source=linktree_admin_share [https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble?utm_source=linktree_admin_share] man were in trouble, MWIT, mens podcast, relationship advice, red pill, the game, toxic relationships, dating advice, reddit stories, escort confession, mens talk, podcast, non toxic masculinity, book club, dating tactics, sexual compatibility, orgasm, ultimatum, pickup artist, negging

There's Always a Salt Guy: Rejection, Breadcrumbing & How to Read the Room ft. Rafael Gomez

A drunk guy at a line dancing bar made crude comments about the women around him. Then he started drinking the table salt. Mary asked him to leave — and he did. But nothing would have stopped him from following her to the parking lot. That firm rejection wasn't rudeness. It was a safety line.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch and Ed sit down with Mary, Mariah, and Rafael Gomez — host of Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity — to talk about rejection, breadcrumbing, and what it actually means to read the room.Topics covered:— Why rejection hurts even when you're the one doing it— How dating apps have warped men's expectations of real-world rejection— The friend zone vs. breadcrumbing — and why both are real— How men and women breadcrumb differently— The body language signals women are actually sending at bars and in social settings— Why being rejected is not the same as being disrespected— How handling rejection confidently is more attractive than avoiding it— The "fuck it" confidence shift — Mariah's emotional callus theory— Why you should get off the apps and meet people in person— Rafael previews his upcoming book: The Attraction HandbookMan We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/ManwereintroubleFeatured guest: Rafael Gomez — Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity

Communication is Foreplay: Trauma Dumping, Vulnerability & Hard Conversations in Relationships

What do you do when your partner shares something traumatic — and you weren't ready to hear it?Matt is six months into the healthiest relationship of his life. But his partner has dropped some heavy things on him without warning, and now he's carrying them alone — afraid to bring them back up, afraid to look insecure, and slowly starting to self-sabotage something good out of fear it might actually work.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch sits down with Matt, Victoria, and Mariah to talk about what real communication looks like in a relationship — especially when the conversations are hard.Topics covered:— Trauma dumping: what it is, why partners do it, and how to set boundaries around it— The difference between listening and trying to fix everything— How to revisit a hard conversation without making it feel like an attack— Using a safe word or scheduled time for difficult topics— Why writing a letter sometimes works better than talking— What belongs with your therapist vs. your partner— The double standard men face when it comes to emotional vulnerability— Red pill culture, the simp label, and why real men are actually winning— How porn and romantasy set impossible expectations for both men and women— The male loneliness epidemic — and who's actually responsible for itMariah closes the episode with the line that started it all: "Communication is foreplay. Don't rush it."Man We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble