Organized Chaos

What does it mean to be successful? Is it a job title, a big paycheck a ton of responsibility at work? How often have you found yourself running after that next promotion or job without feeling like you’ve ever “made it”. And when you do make it, you barely celebrate before you’re off looking for the next jump up the career ladder because nothing is ever enough? Let’s talk about how you can have your cake and eat it too. ⏱ time stamps * 0:00 - intro * 0:30 - my burnout * 3:40 - how girlboss culture impacts us * 4:30 - stop asking for permission * 7:44 - be resourceful * 9:20 - communicate your limits * 12:43 - work can be transactional * 15:34 - there’s no such thing as a dream job * 17:09 - closed mouths don’t get fed * 19:10 - empathy gets you closer to a yes * 21:06 - their lack of planning is not your emergency * 23:28 - your personal time matters * 25:36 - take breaks * 26:53 - create evidence * 28:40 - homework 🤍 your FREE guide to designing the next chapter of your career. [https://uk0tz9onkdi.typeform.com/to/u4FNkWbV] 🌼 join me on social * youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@reganoelze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@reganoelze] * insta: ⁠@organizedchaos.show⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/organizedchaos.show/] * tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@organizedchaospodcast]⁠@regan.oelze⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@regan.oelze] * work with me: reganoelze.com [reganoelze.com] 🪩 the rules are made up. you can change them.

I’m a recovering girl boss and couldn’t be happier. I like to think of the girl boss movement as “hustle culture painted in lipgloss”. What started as a way to define ambitious, young women focused on their career turned into an excuse to shame other women who don’t want to run around stressed, sleep deprived and working 80 hour weeks. Those days are over. I girlbossed way too close to the sun and got burnt, big time. Learn from my mistakes. ⏱ time stamps * 0:00 - intro * 3:50 - girlbossing ruined my life * 7:20 - what is the girlboss movement? * 12:00 - how the girlboss movement is changing. * 13:25 - is the girlboss movement over? * 16:00 - unlearning girlboss culture * 16:50 - lessons I learned while recovering from burnout * 21:00 - 5 things I’ll never do as a recovering girlboss 🌼 join me on social * youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@reganoelze⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@reganoelze] * insta: @organizedchaos.show [https://www.instagram.com/organizedchaos.show/] * tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@organizedchaospodcast]@regan.oelze [https://www.tiktok.com/@regan.oelze] * website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bento.me/organized-chaos]regan.page [https://regan.page] 🪩 the rules are made up. you can change them.

Welcome to my brutally honest career Q&A as a woman in tech. A few weeks ago, I asked you to submit your questions about managing your mental health at work. Wow did you deliver… * How do you manage your personal life and career all at once? * Have you ever doubted your career path/role? * My boss talks down to me: what do I do? * Is crying ever ok at work? These were just the tip of the iceberg. In honor of World Mental Health Day, I recorded this week’s episode because, though I pride myself on being a very strong, independent woman - it’s unrealistic to think that my grief, emotions, and trauma don’t impact how I show up in life. 💕 make sure to leave me a comment, like & subscribe - it helps more than you know! ⏱ time stamps * 0:00 - intro * 1:40 - how we talk about mental health * 2:40 - my mental health background * 6:19 - announcement! * 7:13 - how to handle sunday scaries * 11:18 - doubting your career path * 14:55 - dealing with meeting anxiety * 19:01 - is it ok to cry at work? * 22:40 - homework 🌼 connect with me * youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@reganoelze⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@reganoelze] * insta: @organizedchaos.show [https://www.instagram.com/organizedchaos.show/] * tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@organizedchaospodcast]@regan.oelze [https://www.tiktok.com/@regan.oelze] * website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bento.me/organized-chaos]regan.page [https://regan.page/] 🤍 work with me * invest in yourself [https://regan.page/] * book your $0 coffee chat with me! 💌 contact (brand work only!) → hello@reganoelze.com [hello@reganoelze.com] 💋 my favorite things * self-help books that changed my life [https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-99ca3c2a/list/1ZCHLECRM6EBE?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-99ca3c2a_VM6R5E2XG1VAR3VG21BZ] * notion [https://www.notion.so/product?utm_source=affl&utm_medium=reganoelze9435&pscd=affiliate.notion.so&ps_partner_key=cmVnYW5vZWx6ZTk0MzU&ps_xid=s9PrUfTLRjQead&gsxid=s9PrUfTLRjQead&gspk=cmVnYW5vZWx6ZTk0MzU] * wfh essentials [https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-99ca3c2a/list/29WDXKKG1F4FH?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-99ca3c2a_6H14Q35J9M8B40GYGC8S]

Amazon just ended their remote working policy. This is bad for everyone. I will always prioritize a career that let’s me work from home. You should too. If you’re trying to understand how you can talk to your leaders about the benefits of working from home and what you can do to find balance in your own life - tune in. ⏱ time stamps * 0:00 - intro * 1:30 - my wfh journey * 4:21 - what does success mean? * 6:12 - why people hate working from home * 7:46 - why corporate culture hates wfh * 12:30 - how to be more productive at home * 12:40 - step 1 * 13:45 - step 2 * 15:20 - step 3 * 16:05 - step 4 * 17:30 - step 5 * 19:00 - step 6 * 21:29 - wfh is not the enemy 🌼 join me on social * youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@reganoelze⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@reganoelze] * insta: @organizedchaos.show [https://www.instagram.com/organizedchaos.show/] * tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@organizedchaospodcast]@regan.oelze [https://www.tiktok.com/@regan.oelze] * website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bento.me/organized-chaos]regan.page [https://regan.page] 🪩 the rules are made up ✌️ follow along to change the game.

People don’t leave bad jobs, they leave bad managers. So many of us have found ourselves in situations where a toxic manager has pushed us dangerously close to a meltdown. If you can relate, you’re not alone. In this video, we're going to discuss how to overcome the challenges of dealing with a toxic manager and take back control of your work life. ⏱ time stamps * 0:00 - intro * 0:38 - the impact of a toxic boss * 3:00 - cultural differences vs toxicity * 5:00 - the types of toxic bosses * 5:51 - type 1 * 7:15 - type 2 * 8:25 - type 3 * 8:55 - type 4 * 9:22 - a warning against radical candor * 10:50 - why EQ is important * 11:55 - how to handle a toxic boss * 18:05 - the “how to work with me” guide * 19:30 - how to go to HR * 22:45 - homework 💻 download my guides → ⁠⁠regan.page [https://regan.page/shop/life-audit] 🌼 join me on social * youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@reganoelze⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@reganoelze] * insta: @organizedchaos.show [https://www.instagram.com/organizedchaos.show/] * tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@organizedchaospodcast]@regan.oelze [https://www.tiktok.com/@regan.oelze] * website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bento.me/organized-chaos]regan.page [https://regan.page] 🪩 don’t forget to subscribe for more non-toxic work & life advice.