Ep 13: Feedback, Shame and the Myth of the "Good Mom"

S2 Ep 3: Momming Out with Mollie's Mom: Meredith Baxter

What happens when two generations of mothers sit down and tell our truth out loud? In this deeply personal episode, we’re joined by former actress, but more importantly, Mollie's mom - Meredith Baxter, for an honest conversation about inherited patterns, motherhood across generations, and the stories we carry about what it means to be “enough.” Together, we explore the invisible things passed down between mothers and daughters: perfectionism, people-pleasing, shame, humor, resilience, devotion, and the longing to do things differently than the generations before us. Meredith reflects on raising children while navigating fame, sobriety, marriage, and her own unresolved childhood wounds, while Mollie and Ali unpack the pressure modern moms feel to get parenting “right.” We talk about: * The difference between surviving motherhood and feeling naturally maternal * Why moms today seem trapped in the “am I enough?” conversation * Generational trauma, inherited coping mechanisms, and breaking cycles * Parenting while still healing yourself * Shame, femininity, body image, and the messages women inherit about their worth * The long game of parenting: choosing relationship over control There’s laughter, grief, tenderness, hard truths, and the kind of conversation that only happens when people are willing to stay at the table together. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing enough as a parent — or wrestled with the ways your own childhood still shows up in your motherhood — this episode is for you. *****Content note******: This episode contains honest conversations about recovery, parenting, family trauma, body image, and mental health. Connect with us at: mommingoutloudpodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram at mommingoutloudpod We would love to hear your stories and suggestions for future episodes! Also, let us know if you are interested in being a guest on the show! *Hosts: Ali OConnell and Mollie Birney

S2 Ep 2: (Re)parenting While Parenting

What if (re)parenting starts with four simple words: "I’m here, I’ve got you"? In this episode, we talk about the messy, beautiful work of (re)parenting yourself while parenting your children. From playground triggers and inherited family patterns to perfectionism, productivity shame, and nervous system overwhelm, we explore how old wounds surface through parenting—and what it looks like to respond differently. We unpack the courage it takes to become a safer place for ourselves and, in turn, for our kids. If parenting has ever made you wonder, why is this bringing up so much in me? this conversation is for you. Connect with us at: mommingoutloudpodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram at mommingoutloudpod We would love to hear your stories and suggestions for future episodes! Also, let us know if you are interested in being a guest on the show! *Hosts: Ali OConnell and Mollie Birney

S2 Ep 1: Back from Hiatus: More Shame Bombs, Parenting Expectations and the Stories we Tell Ourselves

We’re back from a little hiatus and getting current—no plan, just what’s been real lately. In this episode, we dive into some very real “shame bomb” moments (including a full Lego-induced spiral), and the parenting expectations that quietly shape how we show up—and how we fall apart. From “dude, bro” moments to missing the mark entirely, we talk about the pressure to get it right and how quickly we can slip into self-criticism. We explore the stories we tell ourselves when we feel like we’re not enough, the gap between what we know and what we can actually access in the moment, and the difference between pain and suffering. This is a conversation about being human in motherhood—messy, honest, and learning in real time as we find our way back to ourselves (again and again). Connect with us at: mommingoutloudpodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram at mommingoutloudpod We would love to hear your stories and suggestions for future episodes! Also, let us know if you are interested in being a guest on the show! *Hosts: Ali OConnell and Mollie Birney

Ep 13: Feedback, Shame and the Myth of the "Good Mom"

What happens when being told you’re a good mom feels more like pressure than reassurance? In this episode of Momming Out Loud, we talk about the complicated role feedback plays in motherhood—how praise can quietly turn into fear, performance, and shame. We explore what it looks like to get curious instead of self-critical, to ask more questions, and to stop letting shame tell the story about who we are as moms. This conversation is for any parent who’s ever wondered what it means when they’re not doing it “right”—and wants a little more honesty and breathing room in the process. Connect with us at: mommingoutloudpodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram at mommingoutloudpod We would love to hear your stories and suggestions for future episodes! *Hosts: Ali OConnell and Mollie Birney

Ep 12: Time Scarcity and the Tolerance for Choosing Wrong

What if the hardest part of limited time isn’t how little of it we have—but how afraid we are to choose wrong with the time we get? In this episode, we talk about time scarcity and the noise that comes up when we try to use small pockets of time “well.” The second-guessing. The pressure. The fear that choosing ourselves might cost someone else. We explore: * Building tolerance for choosing the wrong thing—and staying with ourselves anyway * How internal noise and self-abandonment block our sense of potential * Why this is different from the idea of “taking care of me so I can take care of you” * Rooting into relationship with ourselves as the way we contribute to others * How our children learn self-trust by watching what we tolerate in ourselves This is a conversation about becoming—not through optimization or sacrifice—but through presence, choice, and repair. Connect with us at: mommingoutloudpodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram at mommingoutloudpod We would love to hear your stories and suggestions for future episodes! AND, if you are interested in signing up for our Momming Out Loud Circle please email us for more information! *Hosts: Ali OConnell and Mollie Birney