Ep 57: Starting again when you have no idea how

Ep 59: Cancer highlights your patterns

The episode explores the impact of cancer on existing coping strategies and patterns, amplifying them and creating new challenges. Fleur shares personal experiences and insights, highlighting the need for self-compassion and awareness of these patterns. Takeaways * Cancer amplifies existing coping strategies and patterns, creating new challenges. * Self-compassion and awareness of these patterns are essential for navigating life after cancer. Chapters * 00:00 Exploring Coping Strategies and Patterns * 08:03 Impact of Coping Strategies on Control and Anxiety * 23:51 Desire for Validation and Identity as the Strong One

Ep 58: Disconnected

The conversation explores the experience of feeling disconnected after cancer, addressing the impact on self, body image, and emotional well-being. It delves into the nervous system response to trauma and offers insights on reconnecting with joy and presence. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and patience in the process of reconnection. Takeaways * Feeling disconnected after cancer is a common experience * Reconnecting with joy and presence requires patience and self-compassion Chapters * 00:00 Life After Cancer Retreat in Tuscany * 08:14 Disconnection from Self and Body * 13:38 Reconnecting with Joy and Presence * 19:07 Judgment and Shame in Disconnection * 24:36 Reconnecting After Disconnection

Ep 57: Starting again when you have no idea how

The podcast episode explores the challenges of starting again after cancer, addressing the disorientating aftermath, the disappearance of structure and support, the fear of recurrence, and the emotional barriers to starting again. It reframes the concept of starting again as 'turning the corner' and emphasizes the importance of small, incremental steps in rebuilding life after cancer. Takeaways * Starting Again After Cancer * Rebuilding Life After Cancer Chapters * 00:00 Welcome to Cancer, Chemo, and Curriverse * 07:27 The Void and Identity Confusion * 13:21 The Physical and Emotional Impact * 19:22 The Process of Starting Again * 24:44 Reframing Starting Again as Turning the Corner

Ep 56: Why Me?

The episode delves into the emotional and psychological impact of the question 'why me?' in the context of cancer diagnosis and treatment. It explores the guilt, shame, and search for control associated with this question, as well as the grief, loss, and lack of satisfying answers that accompany it. The episode emphasizes the naturalness of asking 'why me?' and the importance of allowing oneself to process the trauma without feeling weak or ungrateful. Takeaways * Processing the question 'why me?' is a natural response to trauma * The question 'why me?' does not make you weak, ungrateful, or a victim Chapters * 00:00 The Lack of Satisfying Answer

Ep 55: The Good Kind of Cancer with Alicia Rush

Alicia Rush's conversation with Fleur is a powerful exploration of hope, trauma, resilience, and forgiveness. The conversation delves into Alicia's cancer journey, the impact of medical mistreatment, and the weight of dark moments, highlighting the power of forgiveness and the resilience of the human spirit. Alicia Baca Rush shares her journey of resilience and hope, finding strength in the face of trauma and adversity. Her story is a testament to the power of community, support, and the transformational journey of healing. Through her experiences, she has embraced a new purpose and a message of hope for others facing similar challenges. https://tinyurl.com/hhhjy5yv [https://tinyurl.com/hhhjy5yv] The Good Kind of Cancer: Turning Pain into Purpose One Day at at a Time  https://www.instagram.com/aliciarush77/ [https://www.instagram.com/aliciarush77/] Takeaways * Hope and Inspiration * Trauma and Resilience Hope * Resilience Chapters * 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage * 08:58 The Impact of Medical Mistreatment and Resilience * 19:09 The Weight of Dark Moments and the Power of Forgiveness * 30:27 Finding Hope Amidst Darkness * 36:30 Facing Trust and Trauma * 42:15 The Journey of Healing and Transformation * 50:23 Support and Community Building * 57:03 Embracing Purpose and Resilience