Who Controls Blackness?

The Internet Lied To You

The Internet Lied To You About People The internet will have you thinking people are either terrible or perfect. One or the other. But what if neither is true? In this episode, we unpack how the internet shapes our perception of people and why so much of what we believe might not be manipulation or propaganda at all. From utopia and human nature to biology, comprehension, and real-world experiences, the conversation shifts from blaming systems to understanding people. We don’t land on a perfect answer. We explore one. Because at the end of the day, people don’t just see the world as it is—they see it how they’re able to. New episodes every Saturday.

Fight for It? Sure… But Die?

A conversation about military legacy, family history, and one hard question: What are you willing to fight for, and what are you willing to die for? We talk about the mixed experiences the military holds in Black families. For some, it meant honor, structure, and pride. For others, it meant trauma, silence, assault, betrayal, and coming home changed. From World War II to Vietnam to Iraq, the same system produced very different stories under the same flag. Then the conversation pushes further. Because fighting for something and dying for something are not automatically the same. A lot of people are willing to fight when they believe they can come back. But what happens when the real cost is death, trauma, or a family left behind? That is where this episode lives. This is not just a conversation about war. It is a conversation about conviction, sacrifice, legacy, and what your list really looks like when life gets real. Nappy Homework: Make two lists: 1. What are you willing to fight for? 2. What are you willing to die for? Then ask yourself how many things belong on both.

Who Controls Blackness?

Who Controls Blackness? What does it mean to be Black… and who actually gets to define it? In this episode of Nappy Thoughts, Xab (The Nappy CEO) and Jay (The Nappy OG) explore the relationship between Black identity, culture, and control. What starts as a conversation around white artists identifying with Blackness quickly turns into a deeper question: Is Blackness something you can enter… or something you’re born into? We break down the difference between appropriation and identification, challenge the idea of Blackness as a “nation,” and confront a harder truth: Black culture has influence. Black culture has power. But does it have control? This isn’t about giving answers. It’s about thinking deeper. Until next time… keep it nappy.

Is Nappy Only a Black Thing?

What does “Nappy” actually mean? In this first episode of Nappy Thoughts, we start with a simple but loaded question: Is Nappy only a Black thing? From identity and origin to culture and lived experience, we explore how Black Americans came to be who we are—and whether something new was created in the process. This isn’t about having the answer. It’s about working toward an answer. Welcome to Nappy Thoughts.