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The Mental Load No One Talks About (And Why You’re So Tired)

21 min · 12 de may de 2026
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Join the No Permission Necessary email list — get our weekly permission slip + a Tuesday note from Molly & Jill: https://no-permission-necessary.beehiiv.com/ [https://no-permission-necessary.beehiiv.com/] Why are you so tired… even when you’re not doing “that much”? In this episode of No Permission Necessary, Jill and Molly unpack the invisible mental load that so many women carry, the constant planning, remembering, anticipating, and decision-making that never actually stops. This isn’t about chores or responsibilities. It’s about the mental energy required to keep everything running, often without recognition or relief. This conversation dives into: • What the mental load actually is (and why it’s exhausting) • Why asking for help doesn’t always feel helpful • How resentment quietly builds over time • The impact of comparison and social expectations • Why women feel like they’re always “on” • How to start sharing the load in a real way They also explore how communication, clarity, and redefining expectations can help reduce the pressure, without adding more to your plate. 👉 Have you ever felt like your brain just never shuts off? You’re not alone. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Learn more about No Permission Necessary Website [https://www.nopermissionnecessary.com/] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/nopermissionnecessary?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=MWJidXV0anVyNGJn] Be sure to subscribe to the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-permission-necessary/id1823726205] or Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6daJPdqqD71G3LvUHpBUcj?si=c3bf0b27c7934307]  No Permission Necessary is produced by Taylor LaPointe

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