We’ve Been Waiting | Spain, Visas & Letting Go

We’ve Been Waiting | Spain, Visas & Letting Go

We’ve been waiting. This episode is about moving to Spain, visa limbo, grief, and trying to keep going when the plan refuses to plan. We talk about one visa being approved while the other is still pending, selling almost everything at a yard sale, and moving through a process that refuses to happen in a normal order. We also talk James Charles getting cancelled again, grieving Pharaoh, and what it feels like to hold excitement and loss at the same time. The plan isn’t planning, but the dream is still the dream. Watch on YouTube, follow @oopthepod, get exclusives and bonus tea on Patreon, and rep merch at oopthepod.printify.me

No Coachella. No Furniture. No Shrimp.

This episode is about moving apartments, cancelling Coachella, shrimp cholesterol, and trying to lead a balanced life without making it everyone’s problem. We talk about our recent Canada trip with friends, living in an apartment while everything we own is either sold, packed, or spiritually unavailable, and recording from a very temporary set. Then we get into Coachella, influencers, and cancel culture—because accountability still matters, but not every angry comment is activism. Watch on YouTube, follow @oopthepod, get exclusives and bonus tea on Patreon, and rep merch at oopthepod.printify.me

We Don't Dream of Work

We don’t dream of work. This episode is about quitting our jobs, being unemployed by choice, building a career that actually works for you, and what happens when you stop organizing your life around work. We talk about the delusion of our last weeks, what makes a strong design portfolio, how to get hired on your terms, and why choosing yourself changes everything. Somewhere between ambition and freedom, we land on something simple: we’re choosing what works for us. Watch on YouTube, follow @oopthepod, get exclusives and bonus tea on Patreon, and rep merch at oopthepod.printify.me

Gay Overachievers Anonymous

Gay overachievers, reporting for duty. This episode is about burnout, scaling back, leaving a 9–5, and what happens when you stop operating on hyperdrive. We talk comparing ourselves to bigger shows, breaking routines, and the emotional release that comes with doing something different. Between all the ambition and exhaustion, we land on something simple: just because we can do everything, doesn’t mean we should. Watch on YouTube, follow @oopthepod, get exclusives and bonus tea on Patreon, and rep merch at oopthepod.printify.me

Take This As A Sign

Take this as a sign. This episode is about quitting your job, near-death experiences, the Spring Equinox, and what happens when you stop ignoring yourself. We start with Disney nostalgia and slowly move into something deeper — a conversation about rebirth, timing, and what it actually means to live life on your own terms. Somewhere between spirituality and insanity, we land on something simple: you already know what you want. Watch on YouTube, follow @oopthepod, get exclusives and bonus tea on Patreon, and rep merch at oopthepod.printify.me