How Perfectionism Hurts Parents and Their Kids With Dr. Philip Mamalakis

What Your Marriage Is Teaching Your Kids With Paul & Karen Kinan

One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is a healthy marriage. In this episode, Paul and Karen Kinan join the podcast to explain how investing in their marriage has helped them raise a family who loves God and each other. As parents of adult children—and now grandparents—Paul and Karen also reflect on what worked well when they were raising their kids as well as what they would do differently if they could go back in time. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting]. Episode Recap: * Today we're talking with Paul and Karen Kinan, who have what most of us are desperate for—the hindsight that comes from decades of parenting experience. * Tell us about your family and how you met. * When you look at your adult children, what tells you something went right? * How did you surround your family with other Orthodox Christians? * Why is leading by example so important for parents? * What is village living and how do you create it? * Why did focusing on your marriage make you better parents? * How have you established a peaceful home? * What role does forgiveness play in your parenting? * How do you use the Jesus prayer in your daily life? * If you could go back in time, what would you do differently? * How do we help our kids develop relationships with the saints? * Has becoming a grandparent changed your perspective on anything? * What would you say to young parents today? * Can you share advice for parents when kids don’t want to go to church?  * What do you do when your kids ask questions you don’t have the answers to? Resources: *  Follow and rate the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/orthodox-christian-parenting/id1840695620], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ij2IRfmbFqzYAGFVSq0gS] or YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithtreeResources/podcasts] * Download this episode’s free Discussion Guide [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting] * Explore the full library of Faithtree Resources [https://www.faithtree.org/] * Order the Foundations of Faith Cards [https://www.faithtree.org/cards] * Download The Encounter App [https://www.faithtree.org/individual] * Donate to support the podcast  [https://www.faithtree.org/donate-now]

Why Orthodox Church Camp Changes Kids for Life With Father Andrew Andrews

Church camp offers an incredible opportunity to give your children a break from the noise of the world and surround them with a community of believers. In this episode, Father Andrew Andrews explains how camp can transform lives and form a faith that lasts beyond the weeks of summer. He also shares practical guidance for parents about who camp is for and how to overcome common fears around sending your kids to camp. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting]. Episode Recap: * Today we’re talking with Fr. Andrew Andrews about the role of church camp in spiritual formation.  * What sets this generation of Orthodox kids apart?   * How can camp strip away some of the falsehoods of the modern world?   * Can you share a story that exemplifies why camp matters? * What does liturgical life look like at camp?  * How can parents extend the impact of camp when kids come home?  * What would you say to parents who are scared to send their kids to camp? * How do we teach our kids to love people while holding firm to their beliefs? * How can church camp help kids who don’t have Orthodox friends at school? * Is camp helpful for kids who are new to the Church? * How can I get my spouse on board with the idea of camp? * What if my teenagers don’t want to go to camp?  * Lightning round camp questions    Resources: *  Follow and rate the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/orthodox-christian-parenting/id1840695620], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ij2IRfmbFqzYAGFVSq0gS] or YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithtreeResources/podcasts] * Download this episode’s free Discussion Guide [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting] * Explore the full library of Faithtree Resources [https://www.faithtree.org/] * Download The Encounter App [https://www.faithtree.org/individual] * Order the Foundations of Faith Cards [https://www.faithtree.org/cards]

How Perfectionism Hurts Parents and Their Kids With Dr. Philip Mamalakis

It's easy to get caught up in perfectionism in a world that gives us so much to worry about and so many "perfect" families to measure ourselves against. The question is what to do about it—and the Church, it turns out, has a lot to say. In this episode, Dr. Philip Mamalakis is back to share his advice for overcoming perfectionism, building life-giving relationships with other parents, and finding the freedom to stop caring what everyone else thinks. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting]. Episode Recap: * Today we're talking with Dr. Philip Mamalakis about how the Church helps free us from perfectionism.  * What does the Church teach us about responding instead of reacting?  * How can the Church community support parents?  * How do we avoid the comparison trap?  * What can we do to stop fearing judgment as parents?   * How do we navigate a betrayal of trust? * What can we do when our kids are feeling hurt or excluded?   * How do I balance motherhood, work and the life of the Church?  * Can you share tips for fasting with children?  * I’m scared my kids will grow up and leave the Church. What should I do?    Resources: *  Follow and rate the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/orthodox-christian-parenting/id1840695620], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ij2IRfmbFqzYAGFVSq0gS] or YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithtreeResources/podcasts] * Download this episode’s free Discussion Guide [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting] * Explore the full library of Faithtree Resources [https://www.faithtree.org/] * Download The Encounter App [https://www.faithtree.org/individual] * “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” [https://www.faithtree.org/buy-now-products/p/ten-things-every-parent-should-know] * “Parenting Toward the Kingdom” [https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Toward-Kingdom-Principles-Child-Rearing/dp/1944967028] by Dr. Philip Mamalakis

Who Your Children Are Becoming Matters More Than Grades With Liz Caddow

Whatever schooling option your family has chosen, you are your children’s primary educator! In this episode, Liz Caddow joins the podcast to talk about her work as the founder and head of school at Trinity Classical Academy. She explains why education is ultimately about a child’s formation, shares advice for parents on understanding their school’s curriculum and offers guidance on supplementing schoolwork with the Church’s wisdom. She also reminds us that education is not just about what our children are learning but also who they are becoming. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting].   Episode Recap: * Today we’re talking with Liz Caddow about education as formation and transformation. * When did you realize education could be more than grades and test scores? * What advice would you give to parents with children in public school? * How can parents continue learning in the home? * What should we do when we don’t feel qualified? * What role does community play in our children’s formation? * How can parents evaluate what their kids are learning and absorbing? * How do you teach Scripture and history in tandem? * What fruit have you seen in the lives of your students? * What are you most excited about right now? * How can we help our children redefine success? * What’s the biggest mistake parents make about education? * What is one thing listeners can start doing today?  Resources: *  Follow and rate the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/orthodox-christian-parenting/id1840695620], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ij2IRfmbFqzYAGFVSq0gS] or YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithtreeResources/podcasts] * Download this episode’s free Discussion Guide [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting] * Explore the full library of Faithtree Resources [https://www.faithtree.org/] * “Navigating the Digital Tsunami” [https://www.faithtree.org/buy-now-products/p/digital-tsunami-orthodox-strategies-for-protecting-your-children] * Get The Relationship Project [https://www.faithtree.org/the-relationship-project] * Learn more about Trinity Classical Academy [http://www.trinityclassicalacademy.com]

What Time With Grandparents Does to a Child's Faith With Dr. Josh Mulvihill

We were never meant to raise our children alone, and one of our most valuable resources is one we often take for granted: grandparents! In this episode, Dr. Josh Mulvihill joins the podcast to break down the biblical role of grandparents and explain why the grandparent-child relationship is so vital. He also answers some of your most pressing questions about navigating the sometimes complicated but always important relationships between parents, grandparents and the children we’re called to disciple. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting]. Episode Recap: * Today we’re talking with Dr. Josh Mulvihill about the importance of grandparents when raising children in the Church. * What does the Bible say about the role of grandparents?   * How can families find the grandparenting “sweet spot”? * Why “How can we help?” is the most important question for grandparents to ask.   * How can grandparents play an intentional role in discipleship?  * When might parents need to set boundaries with grandparents?  * What do you say to parents who wish the grandparents would be more involved?  * How can parents navigate relationships with grandparents who aren’t believers?  * What can grandparents do when there’s estrangement?  * What role can adoptive grandparents play in the Church?  * How can grandparents set expectations and draw healthy boundaries?    Resources: * Follow and rate the podcast on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/orthodox-christian-parenting/id1840695620], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ij2IRfmbFqzYAGFVSq0gS] or YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithtreeResources/podcasts] * Download this episode’s free Discussion Guide [https://www.faithtree.org/parenting] * Explore the full library of Faithtree Resources [https://www.faithtree.org/] * Download The Encounter app [https://www.faithtree.org/individual] * “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know”  [https://www.faithtree.org/buy-now-products/p/ten-things-every-parent-should-know] * More resources for Christian grandparenting [https://christiangrandparenting.com/]  * Find Josh’s work at Renew a Nation  [https://www.renewanation.org/]