F*ck "Should"

Threats, unhinged comments, and why earning more is the answer

When 31 million people watched my reel, the internet had opinions—some loud, some unhinged, some threatening. This is the origin story of Out Earn The Men: how public backlash clarified my mission, why "playing nice" never changed anything, and why earning more—on purpose—is the most practical path to freedom, safety, and options. I'm sharing the raw, behind-the-scenes story of what it cost to get here, what this show will give you every week, and a blueprint for moving money and power without losing yourself. We talk about: The cost of going viral: what actually happens when millions watch you—and why the backlash can be the best data you'll ever get. Threats, noise, and nervous system: how I processed the unhinged comments without self-silencing or burning down my life. The thesis: why earning more is not vanity—it's agency: options, exits, childcare, legal help, healthcare, time. Power > performance: why negotiating differently and creating demand beats "being liked" every time. What to expect from this podcast: weekly, clear, zero-fluff playbooks—pricing, offers, audience growth that converts, systems that buy back hours, scripts, and 7-day action plans you can run now. Disclaimer This episode discusses online harassment and threats.

F*ck "Should"

Your 15-minute reset to stop performing and start choosing. We open in the present—nervous-system regulation, intentional rest, a simple choice that reclaims Monday—and then turn the lens on you. In this short, cinematic talk, you'll identify the "shoulds" running your calendar, feel where they live in your body, and replace them with want-driven choices that create more time, energy, and agency. You'll get a 60–90 second guided exercise, two vivid scenes that spark reflection (not performance), and a grounded look at why letting go of "should" matters for women's wealth, motherhood, and modeling possibility. Walk away with clear prompts, language to use this week, and permission to design mornings, boundaries, and goals that actually fit your life.

Wealth Shame & Why Women Paying Changes Everything

This one goes there. Business coach Lacey Sites joins me to talk about the conversations most coaches avoid—like telling a client she needs therapy, not coaching…or helping a "successful" client shut down a business she hates. We get radically honest about what it actually takes for women to scale: seasons of sprint vs. sanity, outsourcing the home before the business, division of labor with high-powered partners, and why love is not self-sacrifice. We cover: * Therapy vs. coaching: how to know which one you need—and when to say it out loud * Golden handcuffs & permission to quit: closing what "works" but kills you * The mental load & marriage math: why a house manager might beat your next hire * Seasonality: building in the cracks with little kids—and why it can't be forever * Over-responsibility, worth, and the "good girl" script you're done performing * Wealth without apology: first-class backlash, nanny hate, and owning your power * Why more money in women's hands changes policy, families, and the future If you've ever thought, "I'm supposed to want this," while quietly drowning, this episode hands you language, frameworks, and micro-moves to take back your time, needs, and next chapter. Listen in, then ask yourself: What's the one obligation I'm releasing this week—and the one support I'm adding back?