#158 - Stop Performing Confidence—Start Owning it with Erik Dominguez

#158 - Stop Performing Confidence—Start Owning it with Erik Dominguez

Welcome to the Charismatic Leader Podcast. In this episode, Brett McDermott sits down with Erik Dominguez, communication coach and speaker with over 25 years of experience helping leaders transform fear into fuel. Erik breaks down why confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s a skill you can build, test, and strengthen every single day. Together, Brett and Erik explore how confidence and communication are deeply connected, why integrity is the foundation of trust, and how small daily promises—like getting up when the alarm rings—shape your identity as a leader. Erik shares practical strategies for turning fear into focus, building confidence through consistent action, and using storytelling and tonality to project executive presence. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders who want to communicate with conviction, lead with integrity, and build confidence that lasts. Key Takeaways: * Why confidence is a learnable skill, not a fixed trait * How to transform fear into fuel for communication * The link between integrity and trust in leadership * Practical ways to build confidence through small daily commitments * How storytelling connects and inspires audiences * The role of tonality, pacing, and silence in projecting executive presence

#157 - Your Voice is Costing You Trust with Tracy Goodwin

Welcome to the Charismatic Leader Podcast. In this episode, Brett McDermott sits down with Tracy Goodwin, the world’s leading voice identity expert and founder of Captivate the Room. Tracy reveals how your voice communicates far more than your words—and why your audience believes the voice every single time. Together, Brett and Tracy unpack the psychology of the voice, exploring the seven layers of sound that reveal who we are beneath the surface. Tracy explains how subconscious patterns, fear of judgment, and lack of presence can distort our authentic voice—and how to reclaim it. She shares practical tools for speaking from feeling instead of performance, building radical trust in yourself, and connecting through genuine presence rather than perfection. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders who want to use their voice as a true instrument of influence, authenticity, and connection. Key Takeaways: * Why your voice reveals identity more than your words ever could * The seven layers of sound and how they shape communication * How subconscious protection patterns limit authentic expression * Why presence and feeling create deeper trust than performance * The power of silence and slowing down to build connection * How to step into your most authentic, powerful voice

#156 - Self Awareness is A Superpower with Monique Russell

Welcome to the Charismatic Leader Podcast. In this episode, Brett McDermott sits down with Monique Russell, executive coach, communication expert, and founder of Clear Communication Solutions. Monique has helped leaders at the CDC, Verizon, Intel, and beyond show up and communicate with real impact. Together, Brett and Monique explore why self‑awareness is the true foundation of charisma and executive presence. They break down how leaders who know themselves communicate better, connect deeper, and command more respect. Monique shares her definition of executive presence—insights, interpersonal communication, and results—and explains why emotional intelligence is inseparable from communication. She also offers practical tools for building self‑awareness, preparing for high‑stakes presentations, and using frameworks like DISC profiles to inspire and influence teams. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders who want to strengthen their presence, close the clarity gap, and lead with impact. Key Takeaways: * Why self‑awareness is the foundation of charisma and executive presence * The three pillars of executive presence: insights, interpersonal communication, and results * How emotional intelligence and communication are inseparable * Practical ways to identify your blind spots and get honest feedback * How to prepare for high‑stakes presentations and command the room from the start * Using tools like DISC profiles as conversation starters to inspire and influence teams

#155 - The Art of Delegation with Kate Waterfall Hill

Welcome to the Charismatic Leader Podcast. In this episode, Brett McDermott sits down with Kate Waterfall Hill, executive coach, leadership expert, and creator of the viral character Linda the Bad Manager. Kate breaks down why getting promoted is one of the most dangerous transitions for leaders—and what to do about it. Together, Brett and Kate explore the common pitfalls of accidental managers, including the struggle to delegate, the temptation to keep control, and the difficulty of shifting from being the best technical performer to enabling others to succeed. Kate shares practical strategies for effective delegation, building self‑awareness, and creating space between emotional reactions and considered responses. She also explains why leaders must resist the urge to “swoop in” and save the day, and instead coach their teams to grow through challenges. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders navigating promotions, managing pressure, and building teams that thrive. Key Takeaways * Why promotion can be one of the riskiest transitions for leaders * The difference between allocating tasks and delegating outcomes * How to decide what only you can do—and what others should own * Why self‑awareness and creating space between reaction and response are critical * How to coach your team through conflict instead of rescuing them * The importance of consistent appreciation and one‑on‑one conversations to re‑engage teams

#154 - The Influence Superpower of Appreciation with Vanessa Cuddeford

Welcome to the Charismatic Leader Podcast. In this episode, Brett McDermott sits down with Vanessa Cuddeford, strategic communications advisor and speaker coach, who spent years as a TV news anchor for global broadcasters including BBC and NBC. Vanessa knows firsthand what it takes to connect with people, and today she shares how leaders can master the art of making others feel truly seen, heard, and appreciated. Together, Brett and Vanessa break down the essentials of executive presence—often called gravitas—including why trust is built on credibility, reliability, warmth, and authenticity. They explore how nonverbal communication must align with your words, why clarity of message is vital, and how lowering the stakes in high‑pressure situations helps leaders show up with confidence. Vanessa also shares practical tools for listening deeply, using eye contact effectively, leading meetings with impact, and giving genuine appreciation that inspires loyalty and performance. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders who want to project presence, build trust, and create meaningful connections in every interaction. Key Takeaways * Why executive presence is built on trust, warmth, and authenticity * How to align nonverbal cues with your message for credibility * The importance of clarity of communication and leading with outcomes * Practical strategies to lower anxiety before high‑stakes presentations * How genuine appreciation and specific feedback inspire loyalty and performance * Why effective meetings start with framing and clear expectations