Why Elevation Feels Like Loss

Is Being a "Traditional" Woman Going Backwards ?

In today’s world, being a woman is often defined by independence doing everything on your own, not needing anyone, building your life solo. But what happens when you want something different?In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, I sit down with Destiny to have a real, unfiltered conversation about what it means to choose a more traditional lifestyle in a modern world and why that choice is often misunderstood.We talk about:• Independence vs interdependence • Marriage, family, and identity • The pressure to “do it all” alone • Whether modern women are truly fulfilled • And what it really looks like to build a life rooted in partnership This isn’t about telling women what they should do it’s about opening up the conversation around choice, perspective, and what fulfillment actually looks like.Whether you agree, disagree, or are still figuring it out this conversation is for you. What’s your perspective?Do you think women today are more fulfilled… or just more independent?Drop your thoughts in the comments.📩 Share this episode with someone you’d have this conversation with.#relationships #modernwoman #marriage #selfgrowth #perspectivesunfiltered #podcast

Grieving and Still Showing Up (What This Has Been Like)

I wasn’t sure if I was ready to record this… but I knew I needed to be honest about what this season has really been like. Losing my grandfather has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced. And truthfully… I’m still in it. In this episode, I’m not breaking down what grief feels like step by step. I’m sharing what it’s looked like for me to keep going… to keep showing up… even while grieving. This is real life. Unfiltered. In this episode, I talk about: • The moment everything changed and how I processed it • What it’s been like trying to function through grief • The unexpected waves that come and go • Choosing not to let grief consume me or be used against me If you’ve ever had to keep going while hurting… this is for you. Watch the full episode, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the Perspectives Unfiltered community.

Why Elevation Feels Like Loss

In this solo episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, LaShante dives into the part of growth that people rarely talk about the loneliness that can come with elevation. When God begins shifting your life, sometimes the first thing that changes isn’t your bank account, your opportunities, or your success… it’s your circle. Conversations feel different, connections shift, and suddenly the spaces that once felt like home don’t fit the same anymore. In this episode, we talk about what it really feels like to outgrow certain environments, and to trust God through seasons where everything around you looks the same but you feel completely different inside. If you’ve ever felt like you were losing people while trying to become a better version of yourself, this conversation will remind you that you’re not broken you’re transitioning. Sometimes elevation feels like isolation at first… but eventually it becomes alignment. Tune in!!

Pain Repurposed

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, I sit down with Rob for a raw and unfiltered conversation about what it really looks like to rebuild after public loss. From a very public engagement and wedding to an equally public divorce, Rob opens up about the emotional cost of disappointment, the weight of grief, and the identity shifts that come when the life you planned falls apart in front of people. We talk about brokenness, starting over, and what it means to repurpose pain instead of letting it define you. This episode isn’t about blame or spectacle it’s about healing in real time, trusting God again after disappointment, and learning how to realign with purpose when everything changes. Rob also shares how writing his book became part of his healing process and a way to make meaning out of loss. If you’ve ever had to grieve a version of your life that didn’t last…If you’ve ever had to start over while people were watching…If you’ve ever wondered how God could still use you after heartbreak… This conversation is for you.Because sometimes your pain isn’t the end of the story it’s the material God uses for the next chapter. 🎧 Tap in

That's your dog but are y'all aligned?

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, we dive into "The Let Them Theory" and how it applies to friendships, purpose, and personal growth. We break down the three pillars that shape our relationships and seasons: proximity, timing, and energy. Not every friendship ends because of conflict. Some end because the timing shifted. Some change because the energy no longer aligns. And some fade because proximity kept the connection alive longer than purpose did. This conversation explores:      •    Recognizing when you’re trying to be your friend’s savior     •    Understanding when helping turns into exhaustion     •    Letting people walk their own journey without controlling the outcome     •    Choosing intentionality as you step deeper into your purpose     •    Protecting your energy by feeding your mind and surrounding yourself with positivity Growth doesn’t always require explanations. Sometimes it requires boundaries. Sometimes it requires distance. And sometimes it requires trusting that what’s meant for you won’t require force. If you’re in a season of becoming more intentional, protecting your peace, and aligning your energy with your purpose this episode is for you.