Why She Don’t Trust You: The Hidden Ecosystem of Love & Trauma.

Episode 3: Love Languages & Loyalty – Do They Match Up? 🎙️💌🤝

In this episode of Pretty Lit & Talkin’ Shxt, we dive deep into the connection between love languages and loyalty. Do they always go hand in hand, or can one exist without the other? 👀 Join me as we: 💬 Break down how love languages show up in real relationships 🔥 Discuss the difference between loyalty & bare minimum effort 💡 Explore self-love, healing, and breaking toxic cycles 📖 Share raw, unfiltered stories + affirmations you can carry with you Whether you’re questioning your own love life, trying to understand your partner better, or just here for some real talk with no filter — this episode is for YOU. ✨ Grab ya drink, tune in, and let’s talk shxt.

Why She Don’t Trust You: The Hidden Ecosystem of Love & Trauma.

In Why She Don’t Trust You: The Hidden Ecosystem of Love & Trauma, Kayla takes you deep into the hidden roots of why trust breaks down in love — and how it connects to childhood wounds, heartbreak, and survival mode. 💔 From feeling unseen during pregnancy, to messy friendships, family drama, and side chick situations that leave scars… this conversation is unfiltered, emotional, and 100% real. We unpack how trauma shapes love, and how to reclaim your power with self-love + affirmations for my kings & queens 👑. If you’ve ever been betrayed, misunderstood, or had to heal yourself in silence… this episode is for you. 🎙️✨

Let Me Reintroduce Myself

EPISODE 1: Let Me Reintroduce Myself – The Beauty & The Bruises 🎙️ Hosted by Kayla | Pretty Lit & Talkin’ Shxt In this powerful first episode, Kayla kicks the door wide open and reintroduces herself—not as the perfectly polished woman the world expects, but as the beautifully bruised, battle-tested, and still-standing force she’s become. She gets real about the truth behind her glow-up: 💔 Single motherhood with two baby daddies (one MIA, one toxic) 😤 The nights she almost broke down over baby clothes and past due bills 👊🏽 The day she snapped back, took her voice back, and chose healing 🧠 Relationship advice for men from a woman’s honest perspective 💅🏽 A message to women: Stop shrinking for people who can’t hold your light 🎤 An original rap verse and a soul-shaking poem: The Woman I Am “I’ve cried on floors and laughed in storms. I’ve lost myself in people and found myself in pain. I’ve carried children and trauma — and kept them both alive. I’ve been too much and not enough. But still… I rise. Unapologetic. Untamed. Unstoppable. I am her. And I am here.” If you’ve ever survived pain with a smile and kept going for your kids… this episode was made for you. 🎧 Listen now, subscribe, and share with a sister who needs this. 💬 Use #PrettyLitAndTalkinShxt to join the conversation.

It’s The Intro For Me

In this very first episode of Pretty Lit & Talkin’ Shxt, Kayla lights up the mic and gets real about who she is, why this podcast was born, and what you can expect every Sunday. From single motherhood to toxic love, from healing trauma to finding her voice—Kayla opens up about her journey with no filter and no apologies. This is for every woman who’s been through it, is going through it, or trying to do better. Whether you’re sippin’, smokin’, or just tryna stay sane, this space is for you. 💋 Tune in for laughs, lessons, and lit moments as we kick off something powerful, personal, and petty in all the right ways. 💨 New episodes every Sunday on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere you get your podcasts.