62. Checking In + Being Excited To Shoot Gay Weddings Doesn't Make You An Ally

Welcome to Queerly In Love Season 1 - Pivoting

Send Wildly Connected a Text! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/fan_mail/new] Queerly Beloved is Shifting from its current name to "Queerly in Love" Conversations on all things LGBTQ+ love, community and identity"  This is not death to Queerly Beloved but rather an expansion to something new. Right now, there is so much happening in Minneapolis I wanted to share that this will be the focus right now. Thank you for continuing to support  and follow along, please consider checking out some of the resources below to get involved or donate. START AT THIS GOOGLE DOC FOR THE MOST COMPREHENSIVE LIST OF WAYS TO GET INVOLVED: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1n7lelhhIkSTjYRUlcte9EFZMh7jP5MWpzj71-3bS-js/edit?usp=sharing [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1n7lelhhIkSTjYRUlcte9EFZMh7jP5MWpzj71-3bS-js/edit?usp=sharing] Support Mutual Aid In Minneapolis (CANMN) [https://www.canmn.org/donate] Get Legal Observing Training with Monaraca [https://monarcamn.org/training] Resources for those affected and learning more with MIRAC MN [https://www.miracmn.com/resources] Support our Somali Neighbors through Isuroon  [https://isuroon.org/] Get involved in your neighborhood networks We take care of us and we take care of our neighbors. Don't forget to find moments of joy.  'm so glad you joined! Please keep the community going by checking me out on instagram @wildlyconnectedphoto [https://www.instagram.com/wildlyconnectedphoto/] or the NEW podcast instagram: @queerlyinlovepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/queerlyinlovepodcast/]  come say hi! I'd love to hear from you! :) MUSIC BY @JaynaDavisMusic [https://www.instagram.com/jaynadavismusic/]

62. Checking In + Being Excited To Shoot Gay Weddings Doesn't Make You An Ally

Send Wildly Connected a Text! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/fan_mail/new] How is everyone holding up? This week we check in about all that's happening, learn about the lesbian flag and have a little bit of an uncomfortable conversation on something I get a little firey about. Specifically: the way some straight vendors get excited about photographing queer weddings not because they care about our community, but because it makes them look cool, inclusive, or “good.” olive's tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@digital.olive?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8OyhD6XW4y53E3uX%2BIhhKnTq49rvHodvZtWBBxvQyF1ptv%2BHq3OT%2F3ZsFBOVuma1nr2%2BdRvAUW8HhhmsqGgA%3D&_svg=3&checksum=e862e87b5e7a524886b74f8350eeb76f767b446209a5251d8450cfa6b5380976&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAAT78GjUpd_9E6nT6ki7Gau7x_QyaIYnFtSfnCAAx_GoDJ3IWe5-bWsz71Yh2nuJv_&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAGPAfkHgdUudQzrwzG3s02Nkkb72DE0BX00q2MoxSbhiQTakgRaRiU9nWEsEAyIng&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=6639877189125242885&share_link_id=2C46A756-F26D-4EDE-B0DD-F554CB1B0EAE&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=5&source=h5_m×tamp=1750279135&tt_from=copy&u_code=da28hd7856cj86&ug_btm=b2878%2Cb5836&user_id=6773887643789952006&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy]where I learned about the lesbian flag - follow them! Other BIPOC folks you should follow (by no means is this comprehensive, please share your favs with me on instagram!!!!) * - Charmee  [https://www.tiktok.com/@charmeeifyoudare?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8gnZ6gPweuMLNme7rFDP%2BRRauyoRQCMr0YoJXVwKC0wQraP31P%2By0Kxu53iE7uWAzRbsetyBA5%2FK95qdRGgA%3D&_svg=3&checksum=b527ce41969bf25e0dc039d0fc6162d87abaeb51077e15352601e1d87cdf2fbd&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAALd6K8ZBGUaL1mT1FYn0VdlvzKitQOx60_X437MsHE-8iiQseCNgiCLsQkvcpbvUB&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAGPAfkHgdUudQzrwzG3s02Nkkb72DE0BX00q2MoxSbhiQTakgRaRiU9nWEsEAyIng&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=6762795838983111686&share_link_id=C30F1318-5A33-4371-9CC4-966ED7189AD2&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=5&source=h5_m×tamp=1750279164&tt_from=copy&u_code=da28hd7856cj86&ug_btm=b2878%2Cb5836&user_id=6773887643789952006&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] * Horace Gold [https://www.tiktok.com/@horacegold?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8WFXB2d0Skwq9c7OQ%2Bi0677Ig86BywXQpa9zEh6Y%2FNYHw0dgtEgoPK1ldAiOShpxALNfZTDMPnGmpp%2BUyGgA%3D&_svg=3&checksum=69c031b941b1c40eaa71c9d54bf86a87c08ab95ab340bd3853328e9a562938f7&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAAty__etE2984RwwhqCgHha_gnTFN2THOv2Qiv16YjWI-pHET1C7uBMPz52G8Tp8h1&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAGPAfkHgdUudQzrwzG3s02Nkkb72DE0BX00q2MoxSbhiQTakgRaRiU9nWEsEAyIng&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=6584985853826220037&share_link_id=608C7BF2-B993-45A5-B5B0-DF3F057A15CA&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=5&source=h5_m×tamp=1750279217&tt_from=copy&u_code=da28hd7856cj86&ug_btm=b2878%2Cb5836&user_id=6773887643789952006&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] * Black Gay Weddings [https://www.instagram.com/blackgayweddings?igsh=aDB6OXB1N3NnMjRw] * Blair Imani [https://www.instagram.com/blairimani/] * https://www.instagram.com/char_bailey_/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=d15dd0a3-bcc7-4d1b-be03-89a495e85555  'm so glad you joined! Please keep the community going by checking me out on instagram @wildlyconnectedphoto [https://www.instagram.com/wildlyconnectedphoto/] or the NEW podcast instagram: @queerlyinlovepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/queerlyinlovepodcast/]  come say hi! I'd love to hear from you! :) MUSIC BY @JaynaDavisMusic [https://www.instagram.com/jaynadavismusic/]

61. Confronting Problematic Vendors – From Both Sides of the Aisle

Send Wildly Connected a Text! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/fan_mail/new] today we’re diving into a topic that’s not always comfortable but so important: confronting problematic vendors. Whether you're a couple planning your wedding or a vendor working in the industry, you’ve probably witnessed or experienced something that made you think, “Yikes… what do I do here?” We’re talking everything from microaggressions to “wow… that REALLY like REALLY should have been an inside thought” moments, and how to handle these moments with clarity, care, and courage. We'll look at this from both perspectives: how couples can respond, and how vendors can step up and hold each other accountable. I learned about this week's "Know Homo" segment from HERE [https://www.instagram.com/p/DJcJSBEM4p9/?img_index=8]. HERE [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/episodes/16694033]is the episode on more red flags.  'm so glad you joined! Please keep the community going by checking me out on instagram @wildlyconnectedphoto [https://www.instagram.com/wildlyconnectedphoto/] or the NEW podcast instagram: @queerlyinlovepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/queerlyinlovepodcast/]  come say hi! I'd love to hear from you! :) MUSIC BY @JaynaDavisMusic [https://www.instagram.com/jaynadavismusic/]

60. Talking All Things Queer Wedding Attire w/ Portrait Of a Bride On Fire

Send Wildly Connected a Text! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/fan_mail/new] Trying to figure out what you want to wear on your wedding/ elopement day can feel overwhelming for some- dress? pants? neither? both? Listen to this week's episode with Kati from @portraitofabrideonfire [https://www.instagram.com/portraitofabrideonfire/] to chat through tips and ideas for finding ways to dress and present that will truly bring you joy on your day. Find all of Kati's socials etc and more by clicking HERE! [https://brideonfire.com/link-in-bio/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaco8y9Ii_bVTfraJSC4Ik1Mf2Iopt8rqqOMEtx4PA71M8GNiNagyWBdxW7GJA_aem_hXtNRCSinD3xfwSltZITmw]  'm so glad you joined! Please keep the community going by checking me out on instagram @wildlyconnectedphoto [https://www.instagram.com/wildlyconnectedphoto/] or the NEW podcast instagram: @queerlyinlovepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/queerlyinlovepodcast/]  come say hi! I'd love to hear from you! :) MUSIC BY @JaynaDavisMusic [https://www.instagram.com/jaynadavismusic/]

59. Why Do Trends Feel So.... Straight?

Send Wildly Connected a Text! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080415/fan_mail/new] Do you feel the same? Let me know by leaving a comment below! Take the  Minnesota LGBTQIA2S+ Community Needs Survey [https://mn.gov/lgbtqia2s/community-needs-assessment/mnqt-survey.jsp]  'm so glad you joined! Please keep the community going by checking me out on instagram @wildlyconnectedphoto [https://www.instagram.com/wildlyconnectedphoto/] or the NEW podcast instagram: @queerlyinlovepodcast [https://www.instagram.com/queerlyinlovepodcast/]  come say hi! I'd love to hear from you! :) MUSIC BY @JaynaDavisMusic [https://www.instagram.com/jaynadavismusic/]