Raising Good Humans

In today's episode I speak with activist Shannon Watts, founder of Moms Demand Action, about her new book 'Fired Up: How to Turn Your Spark Into a Flame and Come Alive at Any Age'. Shannon shares her journey from corporate PR to leading a grassroots movement against gun violence and discusses how women can discover their core values, ignite personal and professional transformations, and find a sense of belonging. We talk about the importance of taking small, consistent actions, identifying personal values and abilities, and building supportive communities. This episode serves as a reminder that purpose is always evolving and to live authentically and audaciously at every stage of life. I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL [https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL] Subscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com  [http://draliza.substack.com%20/] Follow me on Instagram for more: @raisinggoodhumanspodcast  Sponsors: Resortpass: Visit resortpass.com/humans [http://resortpass.com/humans] and use code humans at checkout for $20 off your first purchase. Medtronic: For more information and to take the pledge to talk to your mother or a woman in your life about heart health, visit Alettertomymother.com [http://alettertomymother.com/] Water Wipes: Visit WaterWipes.com [http://WaterWipes.com] to learn more about how Water Wipes effectively cleans with minimal ingredients that leave nothing behind KiwiCo: Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/RGH [http://kiwico.com/RGH] Royo: Go to- EATROYO.com [http://EATROYO.com] -and use my promo code HUMANS for your20%OFF 1MD: Head to 1MD.org [http://1MD.org] and use code [HUMANS] for 15% off Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

In this episode, Tina and I discuss personal moments of our parenting missteps, explore instances where our reactions didn't align with my expertise and what we might have done differently. We discuss the benefits of imperfections, the power of repair, and the importance of modeling self-compassion for our children. Through our real-life anecdotes, we highlight the challenges and lessons learned from our experiences, and offer practical takeaways on setting boundaries, managing fear-based parenting, and the pivotal role of repair in maintaining strong, trusting relationships with our kids.  I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL [https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL] Subscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com  [http://draliza.substack.com%20/] Follow me on Instagram for more: @raisinggoodhumanspodcast  Sponsors: Venmo: Visit Venmo.me/debit [http://venmo.me/debit] to learn more and sign up today Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com [http://wayfair.com/] right now to shop a huge outdoor selection Wonder Factory: You can find Wonder Factory exclusively at Walmart stores and Walmart.com [http://Walmart.com] Resortpass: Visit resortpass.com/humans [http://resortpass.com/humans] and use code humans at checkout for $20 off your first purchase. Medtronic: For more information and to take the pledge to talk to your mother or a woman in your life about heart health, visit Alettertomymother.com [http://Alettertomymother.com] Dailylook: For 50% off your order, head to DailyLook.com [http://DailyLook.com] and use codeHUMANS Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

In this episode, I’m joined by James Kimmel Jr. JD, a lecturer in psychiatry at the Yale School of Medicine and author of The Science of Revenge, to explore what the latest neuroscience tells us about revenge, grievance, and retaliation. We discuss how the brain’s reward system becomes activated in response to perceived harm—often fueling cycles of conflict that begin in childhood. Together, we examine how understanding these mechanisms can help us teach our children to reframe grievances, regulate emotional responses, and move toward forgiveness, both in everyday sibling conflicts and larger social dynamics. I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL [https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL] Subscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com  [http://draliza.substack.com%20/] Follow me on Instagram for more: @raisinggoodhumanspodcast  Sponsors: Rylee & Cru: Visit ryleeandcru.com/raisinggoodhumans [http://ryleeandcru.com/raisinggoodhumans] and use code HUMANS for 20% off your first order Bobbie: Bobbie is offering an additional 10% off on your purchase with the code:humans. Visit www.hibobbie.com [http://www.hibobbie.com/] to find the Bobbie formula that fits your journey. Venmo: Visit Venmo.me/debit [http://venmo.me/debit] to learn more and sign up today Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com [http://wayfair.com/] right now to shop a huge outdoor selection Water Wipes: Visit WaterWipes.com [http://waterwipes.com/] to learn more about how Water Wipes effectively cleans with minimal ingredients that leave nothing behind BetterHelp: Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/HUMANS [http://BetterHelp.com/HUMANS] Philadelphia Cream Cheese: Visit creamcheese.com [http://creamcheese.com/] Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

In today's episode I dive into one of the most triggering parenting challenges: backtalk. From eye rolls to attitude, I’m sharing 10 practical, research-backed ways to respond to backtalk without damaging your connection with your child. From toddlers asserting independence to teens testing boundaries, I’ll share developmentally informed approaches to help you regulate your response, set respectful limits, and foster more effective communication. Let’s turn those moments of sass into opportunities for teaching respect and emotional regulation—for both of you. I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL [https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL] Subscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com  [http://draliza.substack.com%20/] Follow me on Instagram for more: @raisinggoodhumanspodcast  Sponsors: Rylee & Cru: Visit ryleeandcru.com/raisinggoodhumans [http://ryleeandcru.com/raisinggoodhumans] and use code HUMANS for 20% off your first order Bobbie: Bobbie is offering an additional 10% off on your purchase with the code:humans. Visit www.hibobbie.com [http://www.hibobbie.com/] to find the Bobbie formula that fits your journey. Active Skin Repair: Visit https://www.ActiveSkinRepair.com [https://www.ActiveSkinRepair.com] to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code:HUMANS. Venmo: Visit Venmo.me/debit [http://Venmo.me/debit] to learn more and sign up today Beam: For a limited time, you can get UP TO 35% off plus 2 FREE gifts when you go to shopbeam.com/HUMANS [http://shopbeam.com/HUMANS] and use code HUMANS at checkout Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com [http://Wayfair.com] right now to shop a huge outdoor selection Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Today I sit down with Claire Lerner to discuss practical approaches for parents managing highly sensitive, highly reactive, or 'orchid' children. We address common struggles parents face, such as interpreting sensitive caregiving, setting boundaries, and dealing with tantrums. Using real-life case studies, the importance of creating 'positive discomfort' for growth is emphasized. Tips include setting firm limits, using 'mommy/daddy moments' for decision-making, and the concept of sensitive caregiving that balances meeting children's needs with family dynamics. Pre-order her book HERE [https://www.lernerchilddevelopment.com/big-reactors] I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL [https://bit.ly/3rMLMsL] Subscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com  [http://draliza.substack.com%20/] Follow me on Instagram for more: @raisinggoodhumanspodcast  Sponsors: Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com [http://Wayfair.com] right now to shop a huge outdoor selection Little Bellies: To learn more about Little Bellies and the age and stage snack offerings, go to www.littlebellies.com [http://www.littlebellies.com] Acorns Early: Head to acornsearly.com [http://acornsearly.com] / or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today Water Wipes: Visit WaterWipes.com [http://WaterWipes.com] to learn more about how Water Wipes effectively cleans with minimal ingredients that leave nothing behind iRestore: Reverse hair loss with @iRestore laser and unlock HUGE savings on the iRestore Elite with the code RGH at www.irestore.com/rgh [http://www.irestore.com/rgh] Quince: Go to Quince.com/humans  [http://quince.com/humans]for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five-day returns Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. [https://dearmedia.com/] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].