Sass & Surrender Episode 14: Balancing Dynamics & Relationships

Sass & Surrender Episode 15: Switching With JoJo Shenanigans

In this episode of Sass and Surrender, hosts Drew and Fly chat with JoJo Shenanigans about her lifelong love of spanking, discovering the kink community online, and her journey as a true switch. JoJo shares origin stories from childhood, coming out to herself, party experiences, and the challenges of mixing dynamics with romantic relationships. Tune in for candid conversation about discipline vs. play, negotiating consent and boundaries, switching roles in scenes, and how spanking can be a form of healing, growth, and connection.

Sass & Surrender Episode 14: Balancing Dynamics & Relationships

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss how to balance a romantic relationship with a 24/7 power-exchange dynamic. Using personal stories—including a post national party emotional reset, heavy discipline as reassurance, and scene-based play—they explore boundaries, expectations, and the importance of honest communication.   They offer practical takeaways: set clear rules, prioritize partner time, be upfront about feelings, and nourish the vanilla side of your relationship while maintaining care and responsibility in kink dynamics.

Sass & Surrender Episode 13: GASP 2026

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Awag recap their packed weekend at GASP, sharing highlights from Camp Corporal, Wayward, the spanking carousel, vendor fair buys, and memorable play sessions with friends and new contacts. They also reflect on lessons learned about pacing, balancing partner time and bookings, and small suggestions for improving future events.

Sass & Surrender Episode 12 : Spanking Therapy With Miss Chris

Hosts Drew and Fly welcome Miss Chris of Spank University to explore the history and community of spanking, from Shadow Lane origins to SpankoCon and educational events. The episode breaks down "spank therapy": how warm-ups, hormones (adrenaline, endorphins, serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin), and session structure create calming, bonding, or cathartic experiences, and how sessions differ from play or disciplinary scenes. Miss Chris discusses working with neurodivergent bottoms, negotiation and assessment for new players, practical session details (music, bell-curve pacing, implements, aftercare), and the importance of safety and education in the spanking community.

Sass & Surrender Episode 11: Neurodivergence & Kink With Bratty Scientist

Hosts Drew and Fly welcome Bratty Scientist (Poppy) to share her spanko origin story—from collecting VHS spanking scenes to impulsively attending Oasis and getting her first adult spankings. They discuss how community support and playful scenes shaped her journey. The conversation explores neurodivergence (ADHD and autism), masking, and how spanking helps reconnect her body and calm her mind. Practical tips for negotiating sensory needs, clear communication, and tailored aftercare are highlighted for both tops and bottoms.