Episode 004 | Chris Ramsey — Living With the Damage You Can’t See

Episode 005 | Chief Peterson: Mental Health, Combat, and Taking Care of Sailors

Episode 005 | Chief Peterson: Mental Health, Combat, and Taking Care of Sailors In this episode of Scars and Struggles, I sit down with Chief Peterson for an honest conversation about leadership, combat, and the unseen mental health battles many service members carry long after the mission ends. Chief Peterson shares what it was like growing up in rural Nebraska in a broken home, being raised by a mother who sacrificed everything, and how those early hardships shaped the leader he would become. He opens up about combat deployments, rocket attacks, survivor’s guilt, PTSD symptoms, and the long struggle to seek help in a culture where mental health was often minimized or misunderstood. We talk candidly about alcohol use as a coping mechanism, the stigma surrounding mental health treatment, and the moment everything reached a breaking point. More importantly, Chief Peterson explains how those struggles transformed his leadership philosophy — putting sailors first, leading with compassion, and being the kind of leader who answers the phone at 1:00 a.m. when someone is in crisis. This episode is not about rank or titles. It is about resilience, accountability, and taking care of people as human beings before anything else. If you are a veteran, active duty service member, leader, or someone navigating mental health challenges, this conversation is for you. You are not alone. Help is available.

Episode 004 | Chris Ramsey — Living With the Damage You Can’t See

In this episode of Scars and Struggles, Dustin sits down with Chris Ramsey to talk about what life really looks like after the uniform comes off. Chris opens up about the invisible weight many service members carry long after their time in the military ends, including trauma, identity loss, and the long-term impact of experiences that never fully stay in the past. This conversation is raw, honest, and grounded in lived experience. Chris shares what it means to keep moving forward while carrying scars that are not always visible, and why talking about these struggles matters, not just for veterans, but for anyone trying to understand the cost of service beyond the surface. This episode is not about solutions or sound bites. It is about listening, understanding, and creating space for stories that are often left untold. Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of trauma, traumatic brain injury, mental health challenges, and strong language. Listener discretion is advised.

Episode 003 | Matthew Garcia: Real Talk on PTSD and the Daily Fight

In this episode of Scars and Struggles, Dustin sits down with Matthew Garcia, a Navy Veteran who transitioned to the Reserves and is still fighting daily battles with PTSD. Matthew speaks with raw honesty about what it feels like to be “in it” right now, how it impacts relationships and day to day life, and what helps him keep going when things get dark. This conversation is heavy, real, and necessary for anyone who has served, loves someone who has served, or wants to better understand what the fight can look like after the uniform comes off. Content Note: This episode discusses severe PTSD and mental health struggles. Please listen with care and pause or skip if needed. If you need immediate help in the U.S., call or text 988, or text 838255 for the Veterans Crisis Line.

Episode 000 | Why Scars and Struggles Podcast Exists

This episode is an introduction to Scars and Struggles and to the voice behind it. Dustin shares his background, why these conversations matter, and why creating space for honest dialogue is so important. This podcast is for anyone who has been through hard seasons, worn invisible scars, or felt like their story was not worth telling.

Episode 002 | Strength, Service, and Survival — Lara Wilkinson (U.S. Army)

Content Note: This episode includes discussion of mental health challenges and personal trauma. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode of Scars and Struggles, Dustin sits down with Lara Wilkinson, a U.S. Army veteran who shares her deeply personal story of service, trauma, and resilience. Lara opens up about her time in the Army, the challenges she faced during and after service, and the lasting impact those experiences had on her mental health and sense of self. This conversation explores the realities many service members face but rarely talk about, including trauma, survival, and the long road toward healing. Lara’s honesty sheds light on the strength it takes not only to serve, but to confront the scars that service can leave behind. This episode is a reminder that survival itself is an act of courage.