06: Christmas Planning for SEND families

09: Being more than "mum"

In this episode, we’re talking identity - yours, the one that existed long before SEND life swallowed your name and renamed you Mum to absolutely everyone. This isn’t self-care chat. It’s identity repair. Tiny sparks that reconnect you with the person you were before the forms, appointments and chaos took over. What we cover * Why parent carers don’t just get tired — we vanish a bit * How identity erosion sneaks up without warning * The small, doable sparks that help you feel like an actual human again * The daily identity hack that quietly pulls you back to yourself This week’s SEND SOS Hack Pick one tiny thing that reconnects you with who you were before SEND life rearranged everything. Not chores. Not self-improvement. Just one breadcrumb back to you - guilt-free. Free Resources Grab the free parent-carer journaling prompts and other downloads here: 👉 https://lifeaspland.com/resources/ [https://lifeaspland.com/resources/] Share the love If this episode helped you feel seen, send it to another parent carer who might need the reminder too. And if you found your spark? Message me - I genuinely want to hear.

08: The real SEND Cost

This episode names the invisible tax every parent carer pays - the emotional, physical and mental cost no report, EHC plan or NHS meeting ever acknowledges. Short, honest, three practical hacks that actually lighten the load. What We Cover 1. The Real Cost Interrupted sleep. Millions of micro-decisions. Decision fatigue as a lifestyle. Losing your identity. Losing friendships. Carrying a load the system doesn’t see. You’re not imagining it - this life has a price. 2. Hack One: The “One Thing I’m Dropping” Rule Once a week, pick one thing you’re dropping, pausing or doing the easy way - guilt-free. This is capacity management, not “failing”. 3. Hack Two: The 10-Minute Capacity Reset A tiny task that future-you will thank you for. We've even added in a few for Christmas too. 4. Hack Three: The Boundary Script (Updated) Two scripts you can copy and paste exactly as they are. No softening. No apologising. A) “We can't take anything else on this week. If it's urgent, please send us the exact steps and the deadline.” B) “I need to be really honest with you. We are at full capacity here emotionally, physically, and mentally. And I can't take on another problem just now. What is the absolute minimum you need from me?” Use them with school, professionals, services, family - anyone trying to hand you one more thing. Small, doable, and actually load-reducing. Free Parent-Carer Resources Many useful tools to help you get through the day can be found on our website: https://lifeaspland.com/free-resources/

07: Bullet Journalling for Parent Carers

This week we’re talking notebooks, Bullet Journals, and how to turn one battered pad (or a digital folder) into a genuine sanity-saver. No washi tape required. Unless, of course, washi tape is your emotional support item. In which case… carry on. In this episode we cover: • Why your notebook keeps failing you - and the simple trick that fixes the “first page fear”. • Paper vs digital: how to do this in your Notes app if you hate using actual notebooks. • The magic of “one landing spot” so your brain can stop juggling 87 metaphorical tabs. • The must-have pages for parent carers: inbox dump, weekly stuff, contacts, meds log, meeting prep, wins + joys. • The game-changing pages: your “shit day” list, Waiting For list, working/not working, questions to ask, call/email history, support team, important documents. • How to use your notebook or digital setup as a handover tool when you’re ill or overloaded. • A quick idea for hiding personal pages in meetings using cheap washi tape. • When templates help (and when they don’t) and why hybrid setups often work best. If you want the ready-made templates without drawing boxes, the Parent Advocate Companion (digital edition) includes the key pages for meetings, contacts, timelines and paperwork. Links • Parent Advocate Companion (digital): https://lifeaspland.com/product/parent-advocate-companion-digital-edition/ [https://lifeaspland.com/product/parent-advocate-companion-digital-edition/] • Free resources for parent carers: https://lifeaspland.com/resources/ [https://lifeaspland.com/resources/] If this episode helped, please follow, rate, or share it with another exhausted parent carer who could use an easier week.

06: Christmas Planning for SEND families

Christmas can be magical - but for SEND families, it can also be a sensory and emotional marathon. In this episode of SEND SOS, Debs shares simple, practical hacks to help you plan a calmer Christmas that works for your family. You’ll learn: * How to keep familiar routines (and your sanity) when everything feels unpredictable * Easy ways to create quiet, sensory-friendly spaces at home or when visiting family * Budget-friendly gift ideas that actually bring joy (yes, even the salad spinner!) * How to use AI to make festive prep easier - from meal planning to polite “we can’t make it” messages * Why “manageable” always beats “magical” at Christmas Debs also shares a free SEND Christmas Survival Guide, packed with checklists, sensory-friendly ideas, and planning prompts to help you survive (and even enjoy) the festive season. Free Resources for Parent Carers Find all the guides, printables and tools mentioned in this podcast at lifeaspland.com/resources

05: Social Stories – How AI Can Help You Create Them in Minutes

Social stories are one of those brilliant-but-time-consuming tools parent carers rely on - whether it’s preparing for a dentist visit, a new taxi driver, or the festive chaos of Christmas Day. In this episode of SEND SOS, Debs explains how to use AI to make creating personalised social stories faster, easier, and less stressful. You’ll learn: * What social stories are and why they help reduce anxiety for our kids * How to create your own in minutes using ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini * How to personalise the story for your child’s needs and communication style * Quick ways to turn your story into a visual or audio version using Canva or your phone Debs also shares a free guide to help you get started with AI safely and confidently - no tech jargon required. Free Resources for Parent Carers: Find all the guides, printables and tools mentioned in this podcast at lifeaspland.com/resources [https://lifeaspland.com/resources]