Sexplicit

What makes someone leave a corporate career to become a male escort? In this eye-opening conversation, Anisa sits down with George Goulburn, who shares his unexpected journey into the world of professional intimacy. George talks about:  The emotional and psychological depth of his work  The profound impact he has on his clients’ lives  The biggest misconceptions about male sex work  Why intimacy—paid or not—is a fundamental human need This episode challenges everything you think you know about sex work. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or just eager to hear a fresh perspective, George’s story will make you rethink the way you view sex work. Hit play and step into a world rarely discussed but deeply human. Connect with George: Website: www.georgegoulburn.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/george_goulburn/?hl=en

In this special bonus episode, we step away from expert interviews to sit down with everyday people. Silence and stigma around sexuality can leave us feeling isolated, misunderstood, or even ashamed, but sharing stories reminds us that we’re not alone. Today, I’m joined by Lynton, who candidly shares his personal story. Together, we explore: * Polyamory: What it means to embrace ethical non-monogamy. * Difficult Conversations: Navigating open and honest communication with partners, even when it’s uncomfortable. * The Role of Vulnerability in Connection: How being vulnerable can deepen intimacy and foster stronger relationships. * Managing Jealousy: Strategies for working through jealousy in any relationship. * Living with an Acquired Injury and Disability: Lynton’s talks about his experience of intimacy, connection, and self-acceptance post-injury. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that might just change how you view intimacy and connection. Resources & Links * Our website: www.relatesexology.com * Lynton's Youtube channel: www.youtube.com/@BeingLynton 💬 Have a story to share or a topic you’d love us to explore? Reach out – we’d love to hear from you! 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast – your support helps us continue provide free sexuality education to all.

In this conversation, Anisa Varasteh and Stacey Micallef discuss the concept of sexual confidence in relation to gender identities and the challenges faced by gender diverse individuals. Stacey shares practical tips for enhancing sexual confidence and emphasises the freedom that comes with gender diversity. The discussion also touches on the connection between gender and sexuality, and how individuals can find inclusive therapists to support their journey. Chapters 00:00 Introduction  04:16 Challenges Faced by Gender Diverse Individuals 07:01 Impact of Body Acceptance on Confidence 11:26 The Importance of Labels in Gender Identity and Sexuality 18:38 The Connection Between Sexuality and Gender 21:56 The Benefits of Gender Diversity 23:52 Tips for Feeling More Confident Sexually 30:54 Creating a Safe and Affirming Environment with Therapists Find Stacey here: everybodysexology.com.au

In this episode of Sexplicit, Anisa sits down with Clinical Sexologist Kate Dempsey to explore the complex journey of rebuilding sexual confidence after infidelity. This episode delves into the intense emotional landscape that can emerge after betrayal, examining the ways it affects one’s sense of erotic confidence and other areas of life. With practical tips grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Anisa and Kate discuss strategies to manage overwhelming feelings and begin the healing process. Kate  is an Accredited Clinical Psychosexual Therapist, Certified IFS Clinical Consultant, and Clinical Sexuality Educator. She teaches in the Psychosexual Therapy Postgraduate Program at the University of Sydney’s Faculty of Medicine and Health and works as an embedded contractor in a psychiatric hospital, where she facilitates sessions on “Sexual Function and Mental Health” and “Sexual Function and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder” for veterans and first responders. Kate also operates a private practice, Sexology North Queensland, where she works with adults in diverse relationship styles. Topics Covered: * Overview of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and its application to infidelity recovery * The impact of infidelity on both individuals and partners, including its effects on self-esteem and sexual confidence * Rebuilding trust and courageous communication within relationships * Practical tools for managing intense emotions during recovery Tune in for insights and actionable advice to help listeners regain confidence and reconnect with their authentic sexual selves, even after the challenges of betrayal.

In this episode of Sexplicit, join Anisa as she dives deep into the topic of sexual confidence for heterosexual men with Cam Fraser, a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Together, they explore the barriers men face when it comes to sexual confidence and provide practical strategies to overcome them. Topics Covered: * Insecurities and anxieties men commonly experience in the bedroom * The influence of social norms and masculine identity on sexual confidence * How sexual education (or lack thereof) shapes men's sexual experiences * Practical tips and resources to build lasting sexual confidence About Our Guest: Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, and former Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work blends scientifically validated sexual health information with sacred sexuality teachings. Cam helps men move beyond surface-level sex to experience full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free from anxiety and shame. You can learn more about his work at cam-fraser.com [https://cam-fraser.com/].