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Call Them Up, Not Out: How to Handle a Pattern of Negative Behavior on Your Team

7 min · 29 de abr de 2026
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There's a person on your team whose behavior has become a pattern — the one everyone talks about, but no one addresses. You know exactly who it is, don't you? Nicole Bianchi names what's actually happening when leaders keep delaying that conversation in this episode of the Small Brave Moves Podcast. Because every day you say nothing is a day your team reads your silence as a standard. She introduces the Being Better conversation — one of her Five Tough Talks — and reframes what most leaders think of as a difficult HR moment into something rarer and more powerful: a direct expression of belief in someone's potential. This isn't about calling someone out. It's about calling someone up. Whether you've been managing around a team member for weeks or you're a senior leader who knows a conversation is overdue but can't find the right words, this episode gives you the framework, the language, and the honest push you need to lead the conversation with courage and clarity. You'll leave this episode knowing how to: * Deliver a clear, pattern-based performance conversation using Nicole's six-step framework * Distinguish between behavioral feedback and character attacks — and why the difference changes everything * Avoid the four most common mistakes that make performance conversations backfire * Recognize the hidden cost of avoidance on team trust, engagement, and retention This episode is direct, practical, and built for leaders who know they've been waiting too long. Work with Nicole Bianchi⬇️ 🎤Book Nicole Bianchi as your next keynote speaker [https://www.nicolembianchi.com/speaking] 🏅Hire Nicole Bianchi to coach you or your leadership team [https://www.nicolembianchi.com/coaching] 🗣️Get certified in the Five Tough Talks [https://www.nicolembianchi.com/get-certified] 📖Check out Nicole Bianchi's books, often referred to as corporate survival guides, Small Brave Moves and Five Tough Talks [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Nicole-M.-Bianchi/author/B09468CXP2?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true] Find Nicole Bianchi👇 LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolembianchi] Small Brave Mondays Newsletter [https://www.nicolembianchi.com/small-brave-mondays-freebie-sign-up-page]

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