Ep. 5 Midlife Sex, Scheduled Intimacy & Keeping the Spark Alive After 40 | Spouseology Podcast FULL EPISODE

Ep 6 Career Changes, Fear & Marriage | How Jobs Can Impact Relationships

Can a career change save your marriage… or destroy it? In this deeply honest episode of Spouseology, Santi DeOleo and Susie Castillo open up about the emotional reality of career transitions, burnout, fear, people-pleasing, anxiety, and how work stress can slowly impact your marriage and home life. Santi shares the full story behind leaving a 20+ year career in radio at JAM’N 94.5, the fear that kept him stuck for years, and how finally walking away changed his mental health, marriage, confidence, and life. Susie also opens up about navigating career uncertainty with her husband Matt, supporting your partner through major life decisions, and the importance of speaking up instead of suffering in silence. This episode dives into: * Career changes and marriage * Fear of leaving a stable job * Burnout and anxiety from work * How jobs affect relationships and family life * Supporting your spouse through career transitions * People-pleasing in the workplace * Mental health, therapy, and self-worth * Balancing ambition, marriage, and happiness * Why communication matters during stressful seasons * The emotional toll of staying in the wrong career too long Santi and Susie also discuss: * Radio industry burnout * Entertainment careers and instability * Work-life balance in marriage * Tough love between spouses * Supporting your partner’s dreams * How fear can quietly control your life * The importance of speaking up at work and at home If you’ve ever felt stuck in a career, afraid to make a leap, overwhelmed by work stress, or worried about how career changes could affect your marriage or relationship, this episode is for you. 🎙️ Follow Spouseology for real conversations about marriage, relationships, communication, career pressure, intimacy, family life, personal growth, and modern partnerships. 📲 Follow us everywhere: Instagram/TikTok/Facebook: @SpouseologyPod #MarriagePodcast #CareerChange #Relationships #WorkLifeBalance #MarriageAdvice #MentalHealth #Burnout #CareerBurnout #RelationshipPodcast #Spouseology #Anxiety #Therapy #MarriageAndCareer #PersonalGrowth #Communication #Podcast

Ep. 5 Midlife Sex, Scheduled Intimacy & Keeping the Spark Alive After 40 | Spouseology Podcast FULL EPISODE

Is scheduling sex the secret to keeping intimacy alive in a long-term marriage? In this raw, funny, and surprisingly honest episode of Spouseology, Santi DeOleo and Susie Castillo dive deep into the realities of sex, intimacy, communication, hormones, attraction, and marriage after 40. From “scheduled sex” and Viagra conversations to hormone changes, flirting in marriage, emotional connection, body changes, and keeping passion alive after decades together, this episode pulls back the curtain on topics most couples think about but rarely say out loud. Santi opens up about how planning intimacy has actually improved his marriage and sex life, while Susie shares what midlife hormonal changes and communication with her husband have taught her about relationships, vulnerability, and staying connected. Together, they discuss how long-term couples can maintain attraction, flirt with each other again, communicate openly about needs, and avoid becoming “just roommates.” This episode also explores: * Why scheduling intimacy can reduce pressure in marriage * Midlife sex and changing hormones * Viagra, libido, and sexual confidence after 40 * The importance of communication in long-term relationships * How flirting keeps attraction alive * Marriage, intimacy, and emotional connection * Menopause, vaginal dryness, and hormone conversations * The reality of balancing sex, kids, careers, and exhaustion * How couples can rediscover passion after years together * Why honesty and vulnerability strengthen relationships If you’re married, in a long-term relationship, navigating your 40s or 50s, or simply trying to keep the spark alive, this conversation is honest, relatable, hilarious, and full of insight. 🎙️ Follow Spouseology for real conversations about marriage, relationships, intimacy, communication, love, sex, parenting, personal growth, and modern partnerships. 📲 Follow the podcast on social: Instagram/TikTok/Facebook: @SpouseologyPod #MarriagePodcast #Relationships #MidlifeSex #MarriageAdvice #DatingAfterMarriage #Intimacy #LongTermRelationships #SexAfter40 #CommunicationInMarriage #Podcast #Spouseology #MarriedLife #LoveAndRelationships #SexLife #RelationshipAdvice #Hormones #Viagra #MarriageCommunication

Ep. 4 Jealousy in Marriage: Red Flag or Sign You Still Care? | Spouseology Podcast FULL EPISODE

In this episode of Spouseology, Santi DeOleo and Susie Castillo dive into one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and marriage: jealousy. Is a little jealousy actually healthy in a relationship? Can it be a sign that you still care deeply about your partner? Or does jealousy eventually become toxic? Santi and Susie unpack real-life relationship stories, marriage insecurities, flirting boundaries, trust, communication, and the difference between healthy jealousy and controlling behavior. From Derek Jeter asking Susie out during her Miss USA days to awkward moments involving flirting, actors kissing on set, jealousy over exes, social media DMs, strip clubs, and emotional boundaries in marriage, this conversation goes everywhere. This episode is honest, funny, uncomfortable at times, and incredibly relatable for couples navigating long-term relationships, trust, attraction, and communication. Topics discussed in this episode: * Healthy vs toxic jealousy in marriage * Relationship insecurities and trust * Flirting while married * Boundaries in long-term relationships * Celebrity attention and jealousy * Actors kissing on set while married * Emotional intimacy and communication * Why jealousy can sometimes be a sign of love * Relationship red flags * Marriage advice for couples * Social media, DMs, and trust issues * How to maintain trust after 20+ years together Whether you’re newly dating, engaged, married for decades, or just trying to better understand relationships, this episode will definitely spark conversation. Subscribe to Spouseology for real, unfiltered conversations about marriage, relationships, communication, intimacy, parenting, trust, and modern love. Follow Spouseology: Instagram: @SpouseologyPod TikTok: @SpouseologyPod Facebook: Spouseology Pod #Marriage #Relationships #Jealousy #RelationshipAdvice #MarriagePodcast #CouplesPodcast #TrustInRelationships #Flirting #ModernMarriage #Spouseology

Ep. 3 Should married couples have separate bank accounts, or should everything be shared? | Spouseology Podcast FULL EPISODE

Should married couples have separate bank accounts, or should everything be shared? Listen now, follow Spouseology, and subscribe so you never miss an episode. In this episode of Spouseology, Santi DeOleo and Susie Castillo get real about one of the biggest pressure points in marriage: money. From joint bank accounts and financial transparency to secret credit cards, prenups, credit scores, and who handles the bills, this conversation breaks down why money can either strengthen a marriage or quietly create distance. Santi shares why he believes separate bank accounts can create a divide in marriage, while Susie opens up about how she and Matt built their financial life together from the beginning. They also talk about income imbalance, career changes, financial trust, wills, planning for the unexpected, and why uncomfortable conversations are necessary before and during marriage. This episode also touches on travel with kids, Susie’s Miss USA legacy moment, and the weekly highs and lows of married life, including support, laundry, dishwasher drama, and learning to show up better for your partner. Whether you’re married, engaged, or building something serious, this is a conversation worth having.

Ep. 2 KIDS: Dream or Disruption? | Spouseology Podcast FULL EPISODE

Do kids make a marriage stronger, harder, or just completely different?In this episode of Spouseology, Santi and Susie have an honest conversation about marriage, kids, parenting, fertility, and choosing a child-free life.Santi opens up about life with four kids, including the unexpected surprise of having a fourth child, raising twins, the pressure kids can put on a marriage, and why he believes having children does not automatically make a relationship better.Susie shares her and Matt’s decision to live child-free, the pressure couples can feel from society, and her deeply personal experience with endometriosis, fertility struggles, IVF conversations, and multiple miscarriages.This episode is not about judging anyone’s path. It’s about being honest about the different ways marriage can look.Some couples build a life with kids.Some couples build a life without kids.Both can be full, meaningful, loving, and right.In this episode, we talk about: • How having kids changes a marriage • Why children do not automatically fix or improve a relationship • Marriage with kids vs. marriage without kids • The importance of being aligned before having children • Parenting stress, freedom, finances, and identity • Fertility struggles, miscarriage, and the emotional toll of trying to conceive • Why couples need to keep dating each other after kids • The pressure society puts on people to become parents • How every marriage has its own version of “what works”Santi also shares one of his biggest pieces of marriage advice for parents: your relationship with your spouse still has to matter, even after kids.This is a real conversation about parenthood, child-free marriage, communication, resentment, love, and the choices couples make behind closed doors.Whether you have kids, want kids, are unsure about kids, are struggling with fertility, or have chosen not to become parents, this episode is for you.