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The Headhunter Turned Therapist | Kathleen Saxton

56 min · 7 de may de 2026
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Kathleen Saxton was repossessed out of her family home at 11. By 40 she was running C-suite headhunting at The Lighthouse Company. She trained as a psychotherapist along the way and now argues boards have governance for cash, finance and risk, and none at all for behaviour. In an hour with James Kirkham she walks through the memoir she wrote on domestic abuse and the lawyer she hired to defend it; the flute teacher Norman Blow who took her on after she got a clean note out of the mouthpiece on her second try; the safe-cracking interview method she used to read C-suite candidates at Lighthouse; the candidate's story that pushed her to enrol at Regent's University; what private equity buyers and founders are actually doing to each other after the deal closes; "human remains" wellbeing post-COVID, and the executive whose chair refused him half an hour off a board to dial into a friend's funeral; AI as triage versus AI as treatment; what covert narcissism actually looks like, the dark tetrad, and the moment her ex-fiancé asked if she was wearing that to the wedding; lobbying the BACP and UKCP to add narcissism as a search specialism; the difference between what UK and US guests will say on tape; and the Felix Dennis answer she keeps thinking about. Chapters : (00:00) Cold open and intro (01:30) The memoir her lawyer warned her not to publish (03:30) Repossessed at 11: shame, sofas and two gerbils (07:30) Sweet tooth and 'don't be a Coca-Cola bottle' (10:30) Cracking the safe: how she read C-suite candidates (14:00) The interview that sent her to train as a therapist (21:00) Founders, private equity and the wellbeing mask (25:30) AI in therapy and in the boardroom (30:30) No governance for behaviour (33:00) Narcissism: grandiose, covert and the dark tetrad (39:30) Writing the book and training other therapists (47:30) What's next: live radio, a documentary, accessibility "I can't bear the thought that someone can't be helped." — Kathleen Saxton Mentioned in this episode * My Parent the Peacock — Kathleen Saxton (book, on narcissistic parents) * Endless — Kathleen Saxton (forthcoming memoir) * DSM-5 — American Psychiatric Association (the diagnostic manual Kathleen references on cluster B and the nine narcissism traits) * Billions — Showtime (the Wendy character as house psychologist) * Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over — BBC (cited as the format Kathleen would borrow for a narcissism documentary) * This Morning — ITV (Kathleen's regular phone-in slot) * The Lighthouse Company — C-suite executive search firm Kathleen founded * Psyched Ventures — Kathleen's clinical-psychology-into-business venture * Sky, Global, Omnicom — Kathleen's prior media and advertising posts * Regent's University, London — where she trained as a psychotherapist * The Priory — psychiatric placement during training * BACP and UKCP — UK psychotherapy accrediting bodies; Kathleen successfully lobbied for narcissism as a search specialism * Felix Dennis — publisher; the "I forgot to get married" anecdote * Bruce Daisley — interviewer in the Dennis story * Matt Shetna — co-founder with Kathleen of Advertising Week Europe * Ronnie Scott's, London — venue of the Dennis interview * Cambridge Analytica — referenced via the whistleblower lawyer Kathleen hired About Kathleen Saxton Kathleen Saxton spent three decades at Sky, Global and Omnicom and founded the C-suite headhunters The Lighthouse Company. She is a qualified psychotherapist with rooms in London and New York and a co-founder of Psyched Ventures. My Parent the Peacock hit Amazon category number one. Endless is forthcoming. Listen elsewhere Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast] Website: https://www.storyco.site [https://www.storyco.site] Follow: @StoryCoPodcast Credits Host: James Kirkham Guest: Kathleen Saxton Producer: Jago Lee Assistant Producer: Nelly Batt Editor: Ryan O'Meera Music: Doubt Point Recorded at TYX Studios, Kings Cross, London

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episode Community is the Whole Business Model | Wez Saunders, Defected Records artwork

Community is the Whole Business Model | Wez Saunders, Defected Records

Summary A cold email, a chest-infection phone call, a buyout, and 951 sold-out shows since 2021. The CEO of Defected Records on what holds the centre. Episode Overview Wez Saunders cold-emailed Simon Dunmore in 2013. Two days after a meeting in which Dunmore said he could sell a pen, Wez was home with a chest infection when Dunmore called. He took the club promotions job. Four years later he ran Defected. In an hour with James Kirkham, Wez traces the line from a dropped Sony Walkman tuned to Kiss FM, through twelve years on the fast track at Deutsche Bank, to the summer of 2008 when his brother was diagnosed with leukemia and died in 23 days. He explains the £265 first quarterly paycheck from his first label that forced him to build an ecosystem rather than one imprint. He walks through the management buyout that made him chairman as well as CEO, the ninety-page manifesto he wrote for staff, and the pendulum metaphor he uses to keep house music's centre still while its edges swing. Then come the numbers: since 2021, Defected has put on 1,033 events outside Ibiza and 951 of them have sold out, against a live scene squeezed by inflation, war in Ukraine, and venue closures. He covers the fifty-plus-show virtual festival run during COVID that reached tens of millions, why a market that has gone from 100,000 songs a day to 140,000 makes brand and provenance matter more not less, and why bands like Jamie Webster and The Lathums may be the early signal of an AI-era backlash. The through-line he keeps coming back to is one word: community. Chapters (00:00) Cold open and intro (01:30) Tell me a story: Kiss FM, decks at fourteen, blagging gigs (05:30) Married at 22, Deutsche Bank, brother dies in 23 days (07:00) Endemic Digital, £265 and an ecosystem of labels\ (09:30) Cold email to Simon Dunmore: sell me this pen (11:30) The phone call in bed: club promotions to MD (14:30) COVID and the virtual festival born on a Sunday WhatsApp (17:30) The management buyout: from licensee to CEO and chairman (22:30) Cola, streaming and why Defected stopped licensing out (27:30) 1,033 events, 951 sold out, the squeezed live scene (35:00) The ninety-page manifesto and the pendulum (38:30) AI, 140,000 songs a day and a bands renaissance "Since 2021 we've put on 1,033 events that are not Ibiza. 951 of them have sold out." — Wes Saunders About the guest Wez Saunders is the CEO and chairman of Defected Records, the independent dance label founded by Simon Dunmore in 1999. He spent twelve years in finance, joining Bankers Trust in 1999 and rising on a fast track at Deutsche Bank, before leaving on his thirtieth birthday to acquire Endemic Digital and re-enter music. He joined Defected in 2014 as club promotions manager after cold-emailing Simon Dunmore, became managing director within four years, led the company through COVID with a fifty-plus-show virtual festival run that reached tens of millions, and led the management buyout that made him chairman as well as CEO. Defected and its sister brand Glitterbox have put on 1,033 events outside Ibiza since 2021, of which 951 sold out, and now move roughly a million tickets a year. Listen elsewhereApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413]YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast]Website: https://www.storyco.site [https://www.storyco.site]Follow: @StoryCoPodcast Credits Host: James Kirkham Guest: Wez Saunders Producer: Jago Lee Assistant Producer: Nelly Batt Editor: Ryan O'Meera Music: Doubt Point Recorded at TYX Studios, Kings Cross, London

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episode The Headhunter Turned Therapist | Kathleen Saxton artwork

The Headhunter Turned Therapist | Kathleen Saxton

Kathleen Saxton was repossessed out of her family home at 11. By 40 she was running C-suite headhunting at The Lighthouse Company. She trained as a psychotherapist along the way and now argues boards have governance for cash, finance and risk, and none at all for behaviour. In an hour with James Kirkham she walks through the memoir she wrote on domestic abuse and the lawyer she hired to defend it; the flute teacher Norman Blow who took her on after she got a clean note out of the mouthpiece on her second try; the safe-cracking interview method she used to read C-suite candidates at Lighthouse; the candidate's story that pushed her to enrol at Regent's University; what private equity buyers and founders are actually doing to each other after the deal closes; "human remains" wellbeing post-COVID, and the executive whose chair refused him half an hour off a board to dial into a friend's funeral; AI as triage versus AI as treatment; what covert narcissism actually looks like, the dark tetrad, and the moment her ex-fiancé asked if she was wearing that to the wedding; lobbying the BACP and UKCP to add narcissism as a search specialism; the difference between what UK and US guests will say on tape; and the Felix Dennis answer she keeps thinking about. Chapters : (00:00) Cold open and intro (01:30) The memoir her lawyer warned her not to publish (03:30) Repossessed at 11: shame, sofas and two gerbils (07:30) Sweet tooth and 'don't be a Coca-Cola bottle' (10:30) Cracking the safe: how she read C-suite candidates (14:00) The interview that sent her to train as a therapist (21:00) Founders, private equity and the wellbeing mask (25:30) AI in therapy and in the boardroom (30:30) No governance for behaviour (33:00) Narcissism: grandiose, covert and the dark tetrad (39:30) Writing the book and training other therapists (47:30) What's next: live radio, a documentary, accessibility "I can't bear the thought that someone can't be helped." — Kathleen Saxton Mentioned in this episode * My Parent the Peacock — Kathleen Saxton (book, on narcissistic parents) * Endless — Kathleen Saxton (forthcoming memoir) * DSM-5 — American Psychiatric Association (the diagnostic manual Kathleen references on cluster B and the nine narcissism traits) * Billions — Showtime (the Wendy character as house psychologist) * Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over — BBC (cited as the format Kathleen would borrow for a narcissism documentary) * This Morning — ITV (Kathleen's regular phone-in slot) * The Lighthouse Company — C-suite executive search firm Kathleen founded * Psyched Ventures — Kathleen's clinical-psychology-into-business venture * Sky, Global, Omnicom — Kathleen's prior media and advertising posts * Regent's University, London — where she trained as a psychotherapist * The Priory — psychiatric placement during training * BACP and UKCP — UK psychotherapy accrediting bodies; Kathleen successfully lobbied for narcissism as a search specialism * Felix Dennis — publisher; the "I forgot to get married" anecdote * Bruce Daisley — interviewer in the Dennis story * Matt Shetna — co-founder with Kathleen of Advertising Week Europe * Ronnie Scott's, London — venue of the Dennis interview * Cambridge Analytica — referenced via the whistleblower lawyer Kathleen hired About Kathleen Saxton Kathleen Saxton spent three decades at Sky, Global and Omnicom and founded the C-suite headhunters The Lighthouse Company. She is a qualified psychotherapist with rooms in London and New York and a co-founder of Psyched Ventures. My Parent the Peacock hit Amazon category number one. Endless is forthcoming. Listen elsewhere Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/storyco/id1886770413] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@StoryCoPodcast] Website: https://www.storyco.site [https://www.storyco.site] Follow: @StoryCoPodcast Credits Host: James Kirkham Guest: Kathleen Saxton Producer: Jago Lee Assistant Producer: Nelly Batt Editor: Ryan O'Meera Music: Doubt Point Recorded at TYX Studios, Kings Cross, London

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