Ep. 4: Miss Masochist/Lola | Masochism + Sober Spaces

Ep. 4: Miss Masochist/Lola | Masochism + Sober Spaces

Posey sits down with Lola to explore their shared love of pain, why Lola thinks sober spaces are so important in the kink scene, and how being a sub has informed their work as a safeguarder in sex-positive spaces. Posey also gets a little carried away chatting about masochism and forgets to ask questions 🥲 Lola has been on the London kink scene for 5 years. They head safeguard Pinky Promise [https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world/], manage Quench [https://www.instagram.com/quench.hq/], and monitors in other sex-positive spaces. In 2024, they founded Lucid [https://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events/], at the time London’s only sober play party open to all, born out of their experience and a real love for the community. They’re also very well known for being a big ol’ m_sochist! Guest: Miss Masochist/Lola [https://www.instagram.com/miss_masochist_/] Host: Posey Mehta [https://www.instagram.com/mosey_moo/] Music: Oliver Vibrans [https://www.instagram.com/vibransoliver/]

Ep 3: Androgalien | Rope + Sensory Seeking

Posey sits down with Androgalien to explore how rope and rubber allow them to regulate as a neurodivergent person with a history of ACE (adverse childhood experiences). We also discuss the difference between viewing kink as therapeutic and treating kink as therapy 👀 Androgralien has been on the scene for 5 years. They crew at Debauchery, performed as a special guest and assisted rope workshops at Eurix, Berlin, and led workshops at Explore Festival Berlin and across London. They're also a published poet! Guest: Androgalien [https://www.instagram.com/androgalien] Host: Posey Mehta [https://www.instagram.com/mosey_moo/] Music: Oliver Vibrans [https://www.instagram.com/vibransoliver/] C.N. discussions of kink & sexual activity; being tied up; neurodivergence; structural disassociation; reference to adverse childhood experiences.

Ep 2: Dr Tahlia-Rose Virdee | Kink + the Law

Posey sits down with Dr Tahlia-Rose Virdee (Taz) to chat about the legality (and illegality) of s_dom_sochism, as well as Taz’s own relationship with k_nk... and why she doesn’t call herself a sub. Spoiler alert: even if you’re vanilla, you’ve probably broken the law 👀 Dr Tahlia-Rose Virdee is a socio-legal academic and lecturer in criminology at Birkbeck, University of London. Her research focuses on legal conceptions of harm, consent, bodily autonomy, and freedom of expression in England and Wales (basically on what we have the right to do and consent to as k_nksters). She’s also a very bratty bottom! Guest: Dr Tahlia-Rose Virdee [https://www.bbk.ac.uk/our-staff/9493151/tahlia-rose-virdee] Host: Posey Mehta [https://www.instagram.com/mosey_moo/] Music: Oliver Vibrans [https://www.instagram.com/vibransoliver/] C.N. discussions of kink & sexual activity; bias against queers in legal systems; coercive relationship dynamics.

Ep 1: Posey Mehta | Origins

Before Posey welcomes on an absolute bevvy of guests, they sit down with a cuppa to introduce themself and why they wanted to start Subspace. Host: Posey Mehta [https://www.instagram.com/mosey_moo/] Music: Oliver Vibrans [https://www.instagram.com/vibransoliver/]