#68 Surrogate Profiles 101: Avoiding Mistakes and Finding Your Ideal Match

#69 Coping with Holidays Surrogacy Edition: 8 Intended Parent Survival Tips

The holidays can feel like the brightest spotlight on what’s missing—especially when intended parents are still waiting, longing, or grieving their path to parenthood. Scrolling through social feeds packed with family celebrations, facing sensitive questions from relatives, or enduring pregnancy announcements at festive gatherings can sting in ways few people understand. It’s exhausting to keep showing up, pretending, or shrinking yourself just to survive the season. But you don’t have to go through it alone or unprepared. In this episode, Alyssa Small Layne shares 8 practical, compassionate strategies to protect your emotional and financial wellbeing, set boundaries without guilt, and create tiny moments of comfort and control—even before your baby arrives. 🎧 Press play and discover how to make holidays survivable, honest, and even full of hope. What You’ll Learn: * 02:23 — Why the holidays amplify grief, longing, and comparison for intended parents * 07:14 — How to decide your level of participation and give yourself permission to opt out * 08:55 — The power of having a “safe person” at every gathering * 11:31 — Scripts for handling nosy, insensitive holiday questions about surrogacy or infertility * 13:12 — Creating exit plans and time limits to save energy at hard events * 16:27 — Handling pregnancy announcements without falling apart * 19:48 — Building new traditions—even ones focused on your future child * 22:00 — Special tips for navigating surrogacy during the holidays—whether matched or still waiting * 24:53 — How to honor both your emotional and financial budget while building your family Resources Mentioned: * BloomBridge Surrogacy App [https://bloombridge.gojunie.com/]  * Free Surrogacy Starter Kit for Intended Parents [https://gojunie.com/surrogacy-starter-kit] * #40 Surrogacy Costs Soaring: Are Luxury Gifts Really Necessary? [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5SXUZBRBslmtzKJurdCzn8?si=UJ52XYgrRqueps-jXXkvlA] Key Takeaways: * You do not owe anyone holiday participation that harms your emotional health. * Preparing responses ahead of time reduces anxiety during gatherings. * A designated safe person can anchor you when conversations become difficult. * Triggers do not mean failure, they are normal and temporary responses. * New traditions can help you reclaim meaning during a sensitive season. 🎧 Ready to reclaim peace and comfort this holiday season?Listen now and let Alyssa Small Layne guide you to a gentler, stronger holiday—just for you. “You are allowed to protect your peace during the holidays.”

#68 Surrogate Profiles 101: Avoiding Mistakes and Finding Your Ideal Match

Worried about making a mistake when choosing your surrogate? You’re not alone—one wrong decision can lead to contract battles, lost money, or broken dreams. It’s easy to get caught up in emotions and miss the subtle warning signs hiding in a profile. In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne reveals exactly how to choose a surrogate step-by-step: what signals caution, how to interpret health notes, and which “green flags” actually matter. Real profile examples, actionable tips, and must-ask questions will help you avoid common pitfalls—and confidently invest in the right match for your family. 🎧 Press play so you can match with clarity and peace of mind! What You'll Learn: 00:07 — The emotional reality of reading that first surrogate profile 05:02 — Why your fertility clinic’s requirements must guide your decision 07:01 — How to anchor your preferences and stay focused 11:00 — Spotting hidden red/orange flags before it’s too late 14:41 — Surrogate compensation, double embryo transfers, and support systems 18:40 — How health history (like thyroid antibodies) should affect your choice 30:27 — Why location, insurance, and termination views are critical to “how to choose a surrogate” 44:18 — The biggest financial red flag you should never ignore Resources Mentioned: * BloomBridge Surrogacy App [https://bloombridge.gojunie.com]  * Surrogate vetting essentials [https://gojunie.com/resources/surrogate-vetting-essentials%E2%81%A0] * Episode #66 [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QyiuoQAfJurrfaW97iLS7?si=ea4vWERyS0qQ-eOam8dEvQ] * https://gojunie.com/podcast/episode/5 [https://gojunie.com/podcast/episode/5] * Surrogacy BluePrint Course [https://gojunie.com/blueprint] Key Takeaways: * Review both clinic and personal criteria before saying yes to a match * State laws on termination and reproductive rights can affect your journey * Look for consistency, honesty, and a strong support system in profiles * Use professional guides to vet red flags and protect your investment * Matching isn’t luck—it’s clarity, alignment, and communication 🎧 Want to feel confident about how to choose a surrogate?Download the Surrogate Vetting Essentials Guide on BloomBridge and start your matching journey with clarity!

#67 Surrogacy in Insurance 2026: Higher Premiums, Liens, and New Rules for Intended Parents

Navigating surrogacy insurance is more daunting than ever in 2026. Thinking you’ve found the perfect surrogate, only to worry about the massive, unpredictable expenses hiding in her insurance?  You’re not alone. As surrogacy insurance evolves in 2026, many intended parents are blindsided by exclusions, rising premiums, and devastating liens—making “insurance options for surrogacy 2026” more confusing (and essential) than ever.  In this episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne and Sarah Paige break down every insurance option, debunk myths about surrogacy-friendly plans, and show you how to spot red flags before you match.  Feeling overwhelmed? This discussion will help you take control, protect your budget, and safeguard your journey with confidence. Don’t let insurance confusion steal your peace—press play to get clarity now! What You’ll Learn: 00:00 — Why surrogacy insurance is more complicated (and expensive) in 2026 01:32 — What qualifies as “surrogacy friendly” insurance—and why it matters 05:39 — How premiums, deductibles, and out-of-pocket maxes are changing 07:16 — Liens explained: hidden risks in surrogacy insurance 13:27 — Lloyd’s of London and other alternative insurance policies you should know 15:13 — Liens vs. compensation: understanding “right to reimbursement” 27:19 — How to compare your insurance options for surrogacy in 2026 39:11 — Most common states for lien policies and insurance pitfalls 46:17 — The new surrogacy climate in California (and what it means for your journey) Resources Mentioned: * BloomBridge Surrogacy App [https://bloombridge.gojunie.com/]  * ART Risk [https://artrisksolutions.com/] * Creative Family Connections Surrogacy Law Map [https://creativefamilyconnections.com/us-surrogacy-law-map/] Key Takeaways: * Premiums are up 18%—out-of-pocket costs now average $10,600 per journey. * Liens are expanding, especially in California, Oregon, Colorado, and Ohio. * Never hide surrogacy from an insurer—it can void coverage and risk employment. * Always compare lien policies to Lloyd’s plans to find the true cost. * Legal support and professional insurance review are essential before matching. 🎧 Wondering which insurance options for surrogacy 2026 are right for you? Use BloomBridge to get your policy professionally reviewed before you match!

#66 What’s Changing? How Abortion Laws Impact Surrogacy for Today’s Intended Parents

Worried about how changing abortion laws might affect your surrogacy journey? You’re not alone. In this urgent episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne dives into exactly how abortion laws impact surrogacy—from limiting access to IVF and restricting doctors, to threatening the very care surrogates and intended parents depend on. Even if abortion isn’t part of your plan, these laws can create roadblocks and risks for everyone trying to build a family. Get clarity on what’s happening, why it matters now, and the concrete steps you need to protect your surrogate, your embryos, and your future. 🎧 Press play and arm yourself with vital knowledge! What You’ll Learn: * 00:00 — How abortion bans are already affecting surrogacy in the U.S. * 02:15 — The hidden consequences for fertility clinics and reproductive care * 03:12 — Why personhood laws are disrupting IVF and embryo care * 05:19 — How Alabama’s Supreme Court decision impacted IVF treatments * 07:41 — The “abortion ban domino effect” and its reach across surrogacy * 10:03 — How surrogacy and termination laws intersect—and what it means for you * 11:29 — What you must do before matching with a surrogate in restrictive states * 13:30 — Why every surrogacy plan should include termination discussions upfront * 15:13 — The medical malpractice paradox that’s making OBs scared to act * 17:14 — How you can still protect your surrogacy journey amidst legal confusion Resources Mentioned: * ASRM Position statement on personhood [⁠https://www.asrm.org/advocacy-and-policy/fact-sheets-and-one-pagers/asrm-position-statement-on-personhood-measures/⁠] * RESOLVE personhood statement [ ⁠https://resolve.org/advocacy/our-issues/opposing-personhood/] Key Takeaways: * Surrogacy care is being impacted by legal ambiguity, and every intended parent needs to stay informed * Personhood laws threaten more than abortion—they could impact IVF access and embryo storage * Abortion-related legal changes are pushing OB/GYNs out of the field, leading to surrogate care shortages * You must discuss termination and know your surrogate’s stance before moving forward * Proactive legal planning is your best defense in navigating this changing landscape Start your surrogacy journey with clarity and protection—don’t skip the legal preparation. 📱 Download the BloomBridge app today to access tools and guides that prepare you for every step of the surrogacy process. “When abortion laws change, fertility care changes. And your surrogacy journey needs to be ready for it.”

#65 Kindbody IVF Disrupted—Profit Over Patients and Hidden Challenges Facing Modern IVF

Dr. Alyssa Small Layne digs into why Bloomberg’s “IVF Disrupted” resonated so widely and what it reveals about the modern fertility industry. She explains how a specialty that once covered broad reproductive care narrowed to one core product—IVF—then absorbed private-equity incentives and startup-style operations. The result can be speed over safeguards, glossy lobbies over lab quality, and patients left guessing about real risk. In this episode, you’ll learn how to look past marketing, ask process-focused questions, and spot profit-driven decisions before they shape your care. Press play to learn how to evaluate clinics with clarity and confidence. What You’ll Learn:  03:14 — How REI shifted from medicine to marketing 04:50 — Why private equity targets IVF clinics 06:52 — How fast growth leads to dangerous mistakes 08:20 — Real cases of embryo mix-ups and clinic errors 14:30 — The lab procedures you never get to see 16:50 — Why clinics reject patients to protect success rates 17:34 — Add-on procedures that increase cost but not outcomes 19:39 — How intended parents can push for industry change Resources Mentioned: * BloomBridge Surrogacy App [https://bloombridge.gojunie.com/] * SMS#47 [https://gojunie.com/podcast/episode/47] Hidden Risks of PGT-A Testing in IVF and Surrogacy - Allison Freeman * IVF disrupted: The Kindbody story [https://www.bloomberg.com/features/2025-ivf-disrupted/] Key Takeaways: * A narrow, procedure-driven model can sideline safety and transparency. * Lobby aesthetics never substitute for validated lab processes and controls. * Profit incentives may shape add-ons, timelines, and who performs procedures. * Ask precise, process-focused questions to evaluate real clinic safeguards. Choosing or re-evaluating a clinic? Use today’s questions to assess lab quality, staffing, and add-on recommendations—then press play for the full guide. “Don’t judge care by the lobby. Ask how the lab protects your embryos.”