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How do the elderly live in big cities like Shanghai? This week’s episode touches on problems facing families in China today through a discussion of the wildly popular Life is a Long Quiet River (2022) with my good friend Li Xiang (李翔)and his wife Wang Ting (王婷). Audio Transcript Jane: [00:00:00] Hello. And welcome back to that Chinese show. Today i’m going to sit down with my good friend Li Xiang and his wife Qing and we’re going to talk about a new urban drama called Xinju (心居). It’s very popular in China right now and the English translation on that is Life is a Long Quiet River. Xiang: Okay. Hi, Jane, thanks for your invitation today. So I’m pleasure to show my opinion about this show. I come from Wei Feng. My parents live always in Shandong. So now I live in Arras near Paris with my wife. Jane: Great. Well Qing why don’t you tell us a little bit about yourself too Ting: Okay. So Thanks for your invitation. I’m glad to see you today. I was a student in France. So we have met in Paris and we get together and we get married. Now we have a [00:01:00] daughter who is two. years’ old. Jane: Oh, well, thank you for making time. I’m sure you’re very busy with your daughter. And where are you from in China Qing? Ting: I come from the same state as Xiang. Xiang: We found it’s about nine million population, so it’s not a so big city, like Beijing, like Shanghai . Jane: Well, it’s bigger in Paris, but mid-sized for China. Okay. Well, let’s get into our show. So we’re looking at a family drama that I am very much enjoying. I have to say. So. Last week we looked at how Hao Hao shuo hua, which is a romantic comedy. This is more, I mean, there are love stories in this show, but it’s more of a family drama and it basically follows the adventures of the Gu family. So what I’d like to do is just get into some of the themes. This is a spoiler free review. So we’re not going to talk about plot details, but we are going to talk about some of these themes. So one of the themes [00:02:00] of the show that emerges is the problem of the elderly in China and what to do about older people who are basically vulnerable often in need of care, but whose families are either too busy or not nearby and cannot take care of them. Could you talk to us about this phenomenon? Is this realistic the way it’s presented in the show and is it a preoccupation for young people like yourselves who have young children? Are they often in a situation where their elderly parents are far away or they cannot care for them? Ting: Well it, it is now a real problem in China because how to explain that many years ago in the generation of our parents or even before. The first time when young couple to get married it’s a wife lives with the other family’s his husband, [00:03:00] because it’s a Chinese traditional because we like to live together. Jane: That is actually a part of the show. The daughter-in-law. Takes care of her in-laws and she, she feels like this is a very strong duty that she has. I mean, she really views this as her job. And I think for Western audiences, this is a bit strange because she, is an incredibly devoted, even though they’re not always that nice to her. Ting: Well, it, yes, it is another problem because before it is like that we like live together with all the families. We feel happy and for example the grandparents well, take care of the children of their children. How to say that Jane: Right they provide the childcare for the younger children, such as yourself, but things are obviously not like that anymore. In China, you have a lot of people who have moved [00:04:00] away. So do you have this problem in your own family? I mean, you have your parents and your grandparents are in China today. Who’s taking care of them? Xiang: So from my grandparents. So it’s my parents take care to my grandparents. Jane: Okay. So if you project this a few decades later who do you think will take care of your parents? Are you planning to go back to China or how will this work? Xiang: Exactly. So this is our project in about 20 years, because now, my parents. is in good health Okay. So now we don’t need to take care every day, but now for the Chinese young people, we need the work hard to have a good job. Jane: So if you just take France for an example, you know, there, there is a very highly developed childcare system that is subsidized by the state. And you [00:05:00] also have a lot of elderly care facilities, because this is in the show that you know, this woman who, delivers food to these big, high rises. She sees there, these elderly people who are basically in need of care and unsupervised, she wants to start an elderly home. Do you think that this is going to develop in China? I mean, will people trust the government to take care of the elderly? Is this a project or do you think it will always remain in the care of the families? Xiang: I think this is good question, because now the government of China develop system for— Ting: Taking care of the old people. It is really a big social problem now in China, because for example, our generation for every family, we can have just one child. Jane: So this is something you think in the years to come, the Chinese government is going to put in place more measures for the elderly population, because it is rising [00:06:00] so rapidly? Or do you think it will always be the families or private companies that they will depend on to take care of this section of the population? Xiang: I think this is depend of the city. Because in the big city, like Beijing and Shanghai. The young people come from another province not was born in this city. Jane: That brings me to another question in the series and that is how competitive and brutal the workplace is. The way that it is presented in the series, you basically can be fired for, for almost anything. There is even one of the characters is like, oh, Shanghai is like this, you’ve got to stand tall in Shanghai. You know, it’s really presented as a battle that if you come to Shanghai, you have to be ready to try these very underhanded tactics. There are characters who do things that are very shady, but they’re presented as people just trying survive. Hi. Hello. Hi baby. [00:07:00] So Is that is that realistic? Is the workplace that brutal in large cities in China? Because that is really the way it is presented in the series. Ting: I think in the biggest cities. Yes. Because for example, former students who have graduated from the universities it’s based on the big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, and they have two choices. They will stay or they will get back to join the families, to live their parents and for the students, they have lived normally in this big city, for four years, They like, the city, it is more developed than his original city. And they choose to stay in the big city and the big city that’s the pressure is very, very high. Jane: The competition really is that brutal. Ting: In the big city I think yes. Jane: [00:08:00] So, this is actually quite a fascinating issue that I’d just like to touch on rapidly. Is that paradox there seems to be an urban society in China that I feel like is really treated in interesting and honest ways in this series. And that is on the one hand you’ve got this very rapidly aging population, especially in large cities and they’re not always cared for very well. But on the other hand, you’ve got students who have come in from the different regions and rural areas in China. And once they are in the big city, they stay in the big city. So the labor market is very young. There’s like this incredible downward pressure or young-ward pressure, I guess you’d have to say. Where once you’re out of university, if by the time you’re 30. If you’re not got a job as a manager, you really there’s this perception you’re done for, and that’s actually portrayed in this series and I’ve seen it time and again in other Chinese series. [00:09:00] So I think this is an interesting issue, an urban phenomena, that you have one of the most rapidly aging populations in the world on the one hand but on the other hand you have this urban landscape where it seems like there’s only a place for the young at least in the workforce and it is being treated in really interesting ways by various types of Chinese TV. So I I’d like to move on to another theme that is in the within the show and that is the delivery person the whole culture surrounding, you know, what the Chinese call, “wai mai” (外卖), you know, “song wai mai” (送外卖) and the character xiao qin the daughter-in-law, who becomes a delivery girl. You know, this is, it’s so much more developed in China and obviously you can have anything delivered almost, even though that’s coming to the West. So could you talk to us about the delivery culture in China and how big a part does it play in everybody’s lives? Ting: [00:10:00] Well, well, it is very, very developed in China and they, they are two types after delivery people so one as they were people for the food. It is very used for the young people because they work very hard. They have time, or they don’t know how to for cooking. And there’s another, is that the sorry, it’s a delivery for the purchase for the things? Yes. Like Tao Bao Jing Dong I don’t know if you heard about this tool. Jane: Tao Bao, well, I remember when I left China, the day that I left China, I actually had a bag delivered to my apartment in less than two hours. I realized I didn’t, I needed another bag. And this was in 2012. So this gives you an idea of how developed this is. I ordered a bag on Tao Bao and said, I need it. Now I’m leaving for the airport. And the guy was like, “xing xing [00:11:00] xin, mei wenti!” (yes, no problem!) And I thought he’ll never arrive in time, but yeah, 15 minutes later, he was at the gate of our apartment, which I was just floored. I realized I could never have had that kind of. In Paris. So I want to thank you all for joining me. Our conversation was cut a little bit short with Xiang and Qing because they had to go take care of their daughter. But I think we touched on a lot of interesting issues and I really hope this inspires you to go take a look at this series Life is a long quiet river. All 35 episodes are available on YouTube with English subtitles. So I hope you like what you’ve heard. If you have tune in with us next week, we’re going to shift gears pretty radically. We’re going to go and look at a historical drama this time. Now it’s one that’s just come out. Not going to give away any spoilers, but I’m also going to be interviewing a good friend of mine who was my former student and who lives in Beijing [00:12:00] right now, so tune in next week and I hope you have a great day. And you’ve had a good time listening to That Chinese Show.
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