The “Fix Our Lives” Weekend Reset

The “Fix Our Lives” Weekend Reset

This week, Nikki and Damaris stumble into a much deeper conversation than they expected about how “growing up emotionally alone” can show up in adult relationships. From being hyper-aware of everyone else’s moods to feeling uncomfortable depending on people, they unpack the habits they thought were just personality traits, and realize maybe there’s more underneath them. And because they can’t leave themselves emotionally spiraling without a plan, Nikki and Damaris also commit to a full “weekend reset” challenge: journaling, social media audits, routines, meal planning, goal-setting, identity shifts, and the deeply intimidating concept of spending two uninterrupted hours alone with your thoughts. Somewhere between emotional breakthroughs, muffins, and baby duck videos, the episode becomes a conversation about support, accountability, and what it actually looks like to build a life that feels a little more intentional and a little less lonely.

Summer Is Coming! And We’re Winging It!

Nikki and Damaris kick things off with birthday stories, thoughtful gifts, and a surprisingly moving conversation about what it means to receive love gracefully. From a server who ran to Walgreens for a Tide pen to the awkward beauty of saying “you are welcome,” they unpack why accepting kindness can feel just as vulnerable as offering it. Then they turn to Memorial Day and the unofficial start of summer. They talk about honoring the deeper meaning of the holiday, the pressure to make magical summer memories, and the very real exhaustion of trying to coordinate camps, reunions, beach trips, and family plans when you’re already running on empty. Along the way, they make a case for lowering the bar just enough to enjoy yourself: maybe it’s a local day trip, maybe it’s a week of boredom for the kids, maybe it’s admitting you’re doing your best and that has to be enough. Because sometimes the most fun summer plan is giving yourself permission to stop trying to do it all.

Put It on the Calendar: A Little Structure, A Lot More Fun

Always meaning to plan the trip, sign up for the yoga class, or finally put something fun on the calendar...and then somehow never getting around to it? This week, Nikki and Damaris tackle a topic that may not sound exciting at first: structure. But as they’ve both come to realize, a little more routine can actually be the thing that makes life feel lighter, calmer, and a whole lot more fun. They unpack how growing up in big, loosely organized families shaped their relationship with planning, why spontaneity doesn’t always lead to the adventures we imagine, and how simple rituals can bring more connection and joy into everyday life. Nikki shares how creating a more structured schedule around work, workouts, and family time has helped her feel less overwhelmed and more fulfilled, while Damaris reflects on the role of discipline, trust, and learning to follow through on the promises we make to ourselves. And finally, they make the case for treating fun like any other priority: if it matters to you, put it on the calendar.

Rogaine, Rescue Dogs, and Trying Our Best

Nikki and Damaris catch up on the little things they’ve been trying lately in the name of feeling better, having more fun, and making life feel just a bit more manageable. They talk hair, skin, aging, and the beauty things women don’t always say out loud—from Nikki’s Rogaine update to Damaris’s Sculptra experience, including the parts that worked, the parts that hurt, and the very real question of where “natural” ends and “I would like my face to feel less crepey” begins. They also get into Nikki’s new life motto, and Damaris shares the latest on Midnight, her very sweet foster dog, and how even the hardest, most inconvenient things can sometimes nudge us toward tiny bits of joy. More walks. More backyard sitting. More reminders that life can be both a lot and still kind of lovely.

The Solo Trip: Dream Vacation or Low-Key Meltdown?

Nikki and Damaris talk about the solo trip: why adults don’t take them more often, why they sound both dreamy and mildly depressing, and what happens when you carve out time that is truly just for you. They get into the difference between traveling alone for work and choosing a trip for yourself, whether solo travel is relaxing, lonely, boring, freeing—or all of the above—and why a little discomfort might be part of the point. They also talk about the people who really know us, the ways we show up differently with partners, friends, and family, and why spending time alone might help us remember who we are when no one else is weighing in. And finally, they imagine what their own solo trips would look like: beach days, road trips, quirky off-the-beaten path stays, long drives, phone calls, silence, snacks, and maybe a hobbit house if the timing is right. Because maybe a solo trip is about finding out what kind of fun belongs only to you.