Things Men Say When They Secretly Hate Women

Things Men Say When They Secretly Hate Women

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa [https://youtube.com/@yv_edit?si=fUwEc3eLRpN7w7YI] and Sovereign [https://youtube.com/@thesovereignwoman?si=uCLCTb0aMqmA63Pp] tackle a question many women are increasingly asking in modern dating and relationships:   How do you find out if a man actually respects women?   Together, they break down the subtle behaviors, coded language, and red flags that often reveal underlying misogynistic beliefs long before they become obvious. From dating apps and first dates to long term relationships, they unpack the difference between performative progressivism and genuine respect, and why many women are learning to pay closer attention to actions instead of words.   They explore how misogynistic attitudes often hide behind seemingly harmless phrases, why some men adapt their language to avoid being exposed, and how conversations around gender, relationships, and autonomy can reveal much more than people realize.   But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to a viral video highlighting the growing affordability crisis in America, discuss Elsie Hewitt opening up after her split from Pete Davidson, and react to a video of men standing in line for fast food because "no women will cook for them."   Later, they open the mailbag to hear from a 21 year old listener questioning whether healthy and equal relationships actually exist after dating an Andrew Tate supporter.   🎧 This episode breaks down the difference between genuine respect and hidden misogyny, and why asking the right questions can save women from a lot of future pain.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: • How misogyny can hide behind subtle language and behaviors • Dating red flags and questions women should ask early • Performative allyship vs genuine respect for women • Cultural narratives around masculinity and relationships • Equality, emotional intelligence, and healthy partnerships • Why women are raising their standards   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: “You’ll Own Nothing And Be Happy” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You%27ll_own_nothing_and_be_happy [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You%27ll_own_nothing_and_be_happy] Gas Prices Surge https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/high-gas-prices-spur-americans-improvise-bus-rides-toy-cars-2026-05-19/ [https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/high-gas-prices-spur-americans-improvise-bus-rides-toy-cars-2026-05-19/] Elsie Hewitt 'on my own' after birth of daughter with Pete Davidson https://www.usatoday.com/videos/entertainment/celebrities/2026/05/18/elsie-hewitt-on-my-own-after-pete-davidson-breakup-baby/90139962007/ [https://www.usatoday.com/videos/entertainment/celebrities/2026/05/18/elsie-hewitt-on-my-own-after-pete-davidson-breakup-baby/90139962007/]   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: This fake "being healed" trend is about to take off! Get ready for it ladies!!! https://youtu.be/8vnTUKj_RGg [https://youtu.be/8vnTUKj_RGg]   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? 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Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For business, press or advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co [info@sirensound.co]   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Did Feminism Really Ruin Society?

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa [https://youtube.com/@yv_edit?si=fUwEc3eLRpN7w7YI] and Sovereign [https://youtube.com/@thesovereignwoman?si=uCLCTb0aMqmA63Pp] take on one of the internet’s favorite anti feminist talking points:   “Did feminism ruin society?”   Together, they break down why the answer is no, and how feminism is often blamed for problems it did not create. From rising living costs to changing relationship dynamics, they unpack the real systemic issues shaping modern life and why women gaining autonomy is treated as the problem instead of the solution.   They explore the history of women’s rights, the mythologized version of the “perfect” nuclear family, and why men’s frustration with changing gender roles is frequently redirected toward feminism instead of the economic and social systems actually responsible. The conversation also dives into women’s growing independence, dual income households, emotional labor, and why equality benefits society as a whole.   This is not about feminism destroying society. It is about patriarchy losing control over women.   But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign recap Mother’s Day and the frustrations many mothers expressed this year, react to New York lawmakers fighting to protect abortion pill access, and discuss the broader attacks on reproductive autonomy.   Later, in Tea Or Trash, they debate controversial feminist takes including gatekeeping feminism, terms like “girl boss” and “momtrepreneur,” and whether these labels actually undermine women.   🎧 This episode is a full breakdown of the backlash against feminism and why women’s freedom is not the reason society is struggling.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: • Why feminism is blamed for systemic societal problems • Women’s independence and changing gender dynamics • The myth of the “perfect” traditional family • Emotional labor, dual income households, and economic realities • How patriarchy harms both women and men • Why gender equality improves societies overall   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Some NYS lawmakers push for passage of mifepristone bill https://westfaironline.com/courts/some-nys-lawmakers-push-for-passage-of-mifepristone-bill/ [https://westfaironline.com/courts/some-nys-lawmakers-push-for-passage-of-mifepristone-bill/] I do... for now. UK Muslims revive temporary marriages https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-22354201 [https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-22354201] Marriage is meant to last a lifetime. But what if it were only for a temporary? https://www.ums.ac.id/en/news/research/the-snare-of-contract-marriage-in-java [https://www.ums.ac.id/en/news/research/the-snare-of-contract-marriage-in-java] Marital Rape and Domestic Violence https://www.thehotline.org/resources/marital-rape-and-domestic-violence/ [https://www.thehotline.org/resources/marital-rape-and-domestic-violence/] Automatic military draft registration takes effect in December https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/09/politics/us-military-draft-registration-2026 [https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/09/politics/us-military-draft-registration-2026] Gender equality and economic growth https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/gender-equality-and-economic-growth_fb0a0a93-en.html [https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/gender-equality-and-economic-growth_fb0a0a93-en.html] Conflict, aid cuts and equality backlash causing ‘stagnation and regression’ of women’s rights https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2025/sep/15/global-progress-gender-equality-womens-rights-sdg--un [https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2025/sep/15/global-progress-gender-equality-womens-rights-sdg--un] Educating girls and women drives employment and reduces poverty https://www.worldbank.org/ext/en/topic/education/girls-education [https://www.worldbank.org/ext/en/topic/education/girls-education] Girls’ education, gender equality, and the role of civil society https://blogs.worldbank.org/en/education/girls-education-gender-equality-and-role-civil-society [https://blogs.worldbank.org/en/education/girls-education-gender-equality-and-role-civil-society] The response of female labour force participation to the evolution of labour markets and policies supporting the reconciliation of work and family life https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241685091_Drivers_of_female_labour_force_participation_in_the_OECD [https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241685091_Drivers_of_female_labour_force_participation_in_the_OECD]   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Buy The Ambition Penalty https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1 [https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1]   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? 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Gatekeeping Feminism 01:26:36 Tea Or Trash? “Girl Boss” and “Momtrepreneur” 01:34:33 Poll Results   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising or business inquiries: info@sirensound.co [info@sirensound.co]   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Are Ambitious Women Being Punished? (feat. Stefani O'Connell)

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa [https://youtube.com/@yv_edit?si=fUwEc3eLRpN7w7YI] and Sovereign [https://youtube.com/@thesovereignwoman?si=uCLCTb0aMqmA63Pp] are joined by journalist and author Stefanie O’Connell [https://tooambitious.com] to ask a question more women are starting to confront head on:   Are ambitious women being punished for doing everything “right”?   Drawing from her book The Ambition Penalty, Stefanie breaks down how corporate culture encourages women to lean in, speak up, and achieve more, only to penalize them once they do. Together, they unpack the systemic barriers that persist in the workplace, the double standards women are forced to navigate, and why ambition in women is still treated as a threat instead of an asset.   Together they explore the reality behind the gender pay gap, the role of capitalism in reinforcing inequality, and how narratives around “fixing women” distract from the systems that are actually broken. The conversation also dives into parenting, “mom guilt,” and why women are expected to carry both professional success and moral responsibility without structural support.   This is not about individual choices. It is about a system that punishes women no matter which path they take.   But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the Supreme Court’s latest emergency voting rights ruling, react to a viral video of a high school girl trapped in an elevator with a group of boys, and break down a clip of a female chess streamer being berated after beating a man.   Later, they open the mailbag to hear from a 19 year old listener navigating the tension between her feminist values and her religious identity.   🎧 This episode is a clear-eyed breakdown of the ambition penalty and why success alone will not protect women from systemic bias.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: • The ambition penalty and workplace double standards • Why women are encouraged to succeed and then penalized for it • The gender pay gap and stalled progress • Capitalism, corporate culture, and structural inequality • “Mom guilt,” parenting norms, and invisible labor • Collective change vs individual responsibility   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Supreme Court Voting Rights Ruling https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2026/05/04/supreme-court-voting-rights-act-ruling-louisiana/89879693007/ [https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2026/05/04/supreme-court-voting-rights-act-ruling-louisiana/89879693007/] Spirit Airlines Shutdown https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/spirit-airlines-apologizes-shock-shutdown-thank-sorry-american-people-rcna343714 [https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/spirit-airlines-apologizes-shock-shutdown-thank-sorry-american-people-rcna343714] Abortion Pill Ruling https://www.politico.com/news/2026/05/04/supreme-court-mifepristone-ruling-00904892 [https://www.politico.com/news/2026/05/04/supreme-court-mifepristone-ruling-00904892] Texas Basketball Shooting Case https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/texas-man-charged-murder-fatal-shooting-woman-21-beat-basketball-polic-rcna53369 [https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/texas-man-charged-murder-fatal-shooting-woman-21-beat-basketball-polic-rcna53369]   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Buy The Ambition Penalty https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1 [https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1] Follow Stefanie https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/ [https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/]   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: • Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) • Ad-free listening or viewing • Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show • Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics • Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea [https://www.patreon.com/audacitea]   🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com [https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com]   ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast [https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast]   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast [https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU [https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU] Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788]   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:25 Voting Rights Ruling 12:44 Video Reaction: Girl Stuck In Elevator 16:39 Video Reaction: Chess Freakout 24:02 Welcome Stefanie O’Connell Rodriguez 32:52 What Is The Ambition Penalty? 42:45 Collective Action vs Individualism 47:49 The Impact of Capitalism 54:05 Reimagining Work Culture 01:09:50 Wellbeing and Diversification 01:11:17 Empowering Women’s Choices 01:18:59 Community Support and Resilience 01:25:38 Mailbag: Feminist or Catholic? 01:37:36 Poll Results   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co [info@sirensound.co]   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

Misandry Is NOT REAL

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa [https://youtube.com/@yv_edit?si=fUwEc3eLRpN7w7YI] and Sovereign [https://youtube.com/@thesovereignwoman?si=uCLCTb0aMqmA63Pp] take on one of men’s new favorite new buzzwords.   “Misandry.”   Is it real, or is it just another way to silence women? Together, they break down why misandry does not exist as a systemic force, and how the term is routinely misused to dismiss women’s lived experiences. They unpack the difference between individual feelings and institutional power, why women’s responses to harm are mislabeled as hatred, and how the conversation is often redirected to center male discomfort instead of female safety.   This is not about whether women can dislike men. It is about whether that dislike carries the same weight, consequences, or structural backing as misogyny. The answer is no, and this episode explains exactly why.   But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson breakup and what it reveals about gender dynamics, as well as reactions to MAGA men using or abandoning their wives during a violent incident at the White House Correspondents Dinner. Later, they open the mailbag for a chaotic “Am I The Asshole” story involving a father, a toilet, and a level of petty escalation that raises deeper questions about accountability in everyday life.   🎧 This episode reframes the conversation around “misandry” and makes one thing clear: discomfort is not oppression.   🎙️ Topics Discussed: • Why misandry is not comparable to misogyny • The difference between systemic power and individual bias • How women’s reactions to harm are mislabeled and dismissed • Male victim narratives and online discourse • Gender dynamics in relationships and infidelity • Accountability and everyday behavior in patriarchal systems   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson Breakup https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/celebrities/2026/04/25/megan-thee-stallion-and-klay-thompson-break-up-cheating/89798419007/ [https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/celebrities/2026/04/25/megan-thee-stallion-and-klay-thompson-break-up-cheating/89798419007/] Dread Game Emotional Abuse https://medium.com/@crackedeggtrivia/dread-game-an-emotional-abuse-tactic-everyone-should-be-aware-of-4cd4b394f91a [https://medium.com/@crackedeggtrivia/dread-game-an-emotional-abuse-tactic-everyone-should-be-aware-of-4cd4b394f91a] Why Some Rescue Dogs Are Afraid of Men https://www.rescuechocolate.com/why-some-rescue-dogs-are-afraid-of-men/ [https://www.rescuechocolate.com/why-some-rescue-dogs-are-afraid-of-men/]   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Imperfect Women https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31937954/ [https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31937954/] Margo's Got Money Troubles https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31137273/ [https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31137273/]   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line.   ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: • Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) • Ad-free listening or viewing • Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show • Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics • Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea [https://www.patreon.com/audacitea]   🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com [https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com]   ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast [https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast]   📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast [https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509] Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU [https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU] Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788]   🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:45 Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson Split 20:52 MAGA Men Don’t Care About Their Wives 30:41 Debunking Misandry 41:10 Misandry vs Misogyny 50:31 Women’s Lived Experiences 58:50 Male Victim Narratives 01:12:58 If Misandry Were Real 01:16:42 Patriarchy and Its Impact on Men 01:24:53 Mailbag: The Toilet Situation 01:38:03 Poll Results   🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co [info@sirensound.co]   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

How To Be A Horrible, Mean, Bad Woman (feat. Horrible Mean Bad Woman)

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa [https://youtube.com/@yv_edit?si=fUwEc3eLRpN7w7YI] and Sovereign [https://youtube.com/@thesovereignwoman?si=uCLCTb0aMqmA63Pp] are joined by returning guest Sarah, also known as Horrible Mean Bad Woman [https://linktr.ee/HorribleMeanBadWoman], to ask the question men desperately don’t want you to:    What if being a “good woman” is the problem?   Together, they break down how women are socially conditioned into constant niceness, emotional labor, and moral responsibility, all while men are never held to the same standards. Sarah unpacks the power of embracing the “horrible, mean, bad woman” identity as a rejection of impossible expectations designed to keep women compliant.   Together they explore how male behavior is excused while women are expected to absorb harm gracefully, how agreeing with men’s negative stereotypes can expose the absurdity of their logic, and why redefining your identity outside of patriarchy is a necessary step toward real autonomy.   But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the shocking murder case involving singer D4vd, the reality behind churches requiring sexual misconduct insurance, Nikki Glaser’s comments about non-monogamy on the Call Her Daddy podcast, and the internet’s reaction to influencer MJ Gray’s engagement.   Later, they open the mailbag for one of the wildest listener stories yet, covering a journey from trad marriage to dominatrix to taking down her pedophile father.   🎧 This episode is an unapologetic look at how to embrace your full potential to become the most horrible, mean, bad woman you can be!   🎙️ Topics Discussed: • The pressure on women to be “good” and endlessly accommodating • Emotional labor, morality, and unequal standards between men and women • Reclaiming identity outside patriarchal expectations • Using humor and “agree and amplify” to expose male logic • Why women are not responsible for fixing men or dismantling patriarchy • Embracing autonomy, boundaries, and self definition   ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Singer D4vd charged with murder https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2026-04-20/d4vd-murder-charge-slaying-celeste-rivas-hernandez [https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2026-04-20/d4vd-murder-charge-slaying-celeste-rivas-hernandez] The Clergy Abuse Crisis Has Cost The Catholic Church $3 Billion https://www.npr.org/2018/08/18/639698062/the-clergy-abuse-crisis-has-cost-the-catholic-church-3-billion [https://www.npr.org/2018/08/18/639698062/the-clergy-abuse-crisis-has-cost-the-catholic-church-3-billion] Exposing A Global ‘Rape Academy’ https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html [https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html] Gisèle Pelicot case https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c89xde5qzvgo [https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c89xde5qzvgo] Woman sets man on fire case https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-08/corbie-walpole-sentenced-burning-jake-loader-howlong-sentence/105265038 [https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-08/corbie-walpole-sentenced-burning-jake-loader-howlong-sentence/105265038]   📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Sarah https://linktr.ee/HorribleMeanBadWoman [https://linktr.ee/HorribleMeanBadWoman]   💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? 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Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.   📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co [info@sirensound.co]   💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates.