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The Better Everyday Podcast | S3 Ep.9 Reshaping Past Traumas

1 h 7 min · 13 de abr de 2026
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Welcome back to The Better Everyday Podcast where we are unlocking our best self one episode at a time. In this episode, we have an honest and vulnerable conversation about the fears that were shaped in our past—and how we’re doing everything we can to not pass them on to our kids. David opens up about his fear of damaging his relationship with his son, rooted in the lack of a strong relationship with his own father growing up. He shares how this fear gets triggered in real-time moments—especially when his son is upset with him—and how it can lead him to prioritize being liked over being the father his son truly needs. But at what point does that fear, even with good intentions, become counterproductive? We also dive into Grace’s journey with shame—how past decisions shaped her identity, and her deep desire to help her kids understand grace early in life so they don’t carry that same weight. She shares how she’s navigating that today and where she knows she still wants to grow. Grace also reflects on how losing her mother marked her life, creating a deep-rooted fear that time is limited. That fear led to anxiety, stress, and a constant urgency to “live now” because tomorrow isn’t promised. But over time, she realized that living in that mindset was actually living in fear—and that’s not how God calls us to live. Instead, we are reminded to trust Him, knowing His plans are perfect and His love is greater than any fear we face. We also explore an important question: Can fear actually be used for good? And what does it look like to bring our fears to God, confront the lies they tell us, and replace them with truth? If this episode speaks to you, we’d love to hear from you in the comments. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the channel so you don’t miss future episodes. Follow us on TikTok and Instagram: @thebettereverydaypodcast

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