The Problem with Constant Comfort

The Art and Science of Wishing with Guest Brownell Landrum

You make hundreds of small wishes every day. Most of them go unnoticed - because you've been taught that wishing doesn't count as real work. What if that's exactly backwards? In this episode, Sabrina is joined by Brownell Landrum - TEDx speaker, author, inventor, and explorer of metaphysical mysteries. Brownell's work sits at the intersection of science and imagination: her book The Art & Science of Wishing investigates what actually happens - in the brain, in behaviour, in lived outcomes - when a person makes a deliberate wish. She's also the creator of the Cosmic Wishes universe, executive producer of the Life is a Trip podcast, and the author of more than a dozen books spanning fiction, nonfiction, and children's storytelling. In this conversation, she and Sabrina dig into the mechanics of belief, the neuroscience of intention, and why disciplined imagination might be one of the most underused tools in personal development. In this episode, you'll hear: * Why wishing is better understood as a form of focused attention - and how that reframe changes what you do with your desires. * What the science actually says about how intention shapes behaviour, and where the evidence is stronger than most people expect. * How the stories we tell about ourselves function as a kind of internal operating system - and why changing the narrative is harder, and more powerful, than most self-help advice admits. * The difference between wishful thinking and deliberate wishing - and why the gap between them comes down to one thing: disciplined action. * Why belief isn't a passive state you either have or don't - and how you can actually build it incrementally. * What imagination has in common with scientific method, and why treating your vision as a hypothesis rather than a fantasy shifts everything. * How Brownell's exploration of metaphysical mysteries has shaped her view of possibility - and what she'd say to anyone who feels like their wishes are too big or too strange to take seriously. * The most practical thing you can do might be the thing you've been taught to dismiss as daydreaming. Breen Time is hosted by Sabrina Brown - life coach and management consultant. New episodes every Monday on Brum Radio and wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: @breentimepodcast LinkedIn: @breentimepodcast breentimepodcast.com Brum Radio: brumradio.com Find out more about this week's guest: brownelllandrum.com ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Letting Go of the Life You Thought You'd Have with Guest Pamela Thibodeaux

Some losses don't arrive once. They keep arriving - and the question becomes whether you can still build something meaningful in the wake of them. This week, Sabrina sits down with Pamela S. Thibodeaux - award-winning author, life coach, and mentor based in Louisiana. Pam is the co-founder of the Bayou Writers Group and the voice behind Coaching in PJs, blending decades of writing about women's lived experience with a faith-rooted approach to coaching that's earned her the tagline "Inspirational with an Edge." In this conversation, she draws on her own story to talk about what it really takes to keep moving when grief isn't a single chapter but a recurring one. In this episode, you'll hear: * Why our culture struggles to talk about grief that doesn't resolve, and what gets lost when we treat loss as something to "get through" rather than learn to carry. * How Pam distinguishes between the future we thought we'd have and the future that's still available to us - and why mourning the first is part of claiming the second. * The role faith plays as a working tool, not a slogan, when you're rebuilding a life you didn't plan for. * Why personal responsibility becomes more important, not less, in seasons when circumstances would justify giving up. * The disciplined daily practices that compound into resilience over months and years - and why repetition matters more than intensity. * How to recognise when "retreat" is wisdom and when it's avoidance dressed up as self-care. * Practical guidance on building a meaningful life from the inside out, even when the outside hasn't caught up yet. Grief teaches you that endings and beginnings often share the same address - and that walking forward isn't a betrayal of what you've lost. Hosted by Sabrina Brown — life coach, management consultant, and your weekly companion in the work of becoming. New episodes every Monday on Brum Radio and wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/ [https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/] Website: https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast [https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast] Brum Radio: https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/ [https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/] Connect with Pamela: pamelathibodeaux.com [https://www.pamelathibodeaux.com] If this episode raised something for you, support is available: * Counselling Directory [https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk] * Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org] * Mind [https://www.mind.org.uk] * NHS mental health & talking therapies [https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Life Storms - Finding Your Clear Skies with Guest Tracy Doyle

You can look like you've got it all together and still be quietly running on empty. This episode is for anyone whose composure has started to feel like a costume. This week Breen is joined by Tracy Doyle - entrepreneur, emotional wellness advocate, and author of Life Storms: Finding Your Clear Sky. After years of leading an award-winning business while privately burning out, Tracy developed the Aurora Method: a psychology-informed, mindfulness-based framework for healing emotional burnout and reconnecting with yourself and the people who matter most. Her story moves from childhood trauma and instability to reinvention, and her work is rooted in the belief that the patterns running our adult lives were usually written long before we noticed them. In this episode, you'll hear: * Why high achievement so often coexists with emotional exhaustion, and how the two can quietly feed each other for years. * How early life experiences shape the internal beliefs we carry into adulthood - and how those beliefs distort how we think, feel, and relate to others. * The difference between stress and emotional burnout, and the subtle signs that you've crossed from one into the other. * What it actually looks like to rebuild after years of holding it together for everyone else. * Why reconnection has to start internally before it can happen in our relationships. * Practical entry points into the Aurora Method, and how mindfulness becomes useful when life feels anything but calm. * The reframe Tracy offers on storms: not as something to escape, but as the weather you learn to navigate on the way to your clear sky. Your clear sky isn't on the other side of the storm - it's on the other side of how you've been weathering it. Breen Time is hosted by Sabrina Brown - life coach and management consultant. New episodes every Monday - listen now wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/ [https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/] Website: https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast [https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast] Brum Radio: https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/ [https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/] More from Tracy Doyle: https://www.tracydoyle.life [https://www.tracydoyle.life] Life Storms: Finding Your Clear Sky - available on Amazon. If this episode raised something for you, support is available: * Counselling Directory [https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk] * Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org] * Mind [https://www.mind.org.uk] * NHS Mental Health & Talking Therapies [https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The Problem with Constant Comfort

You've made life easier. But has it made you weaker? We've engineered discomfort out of almost everything - and it's quietly costing us our drive, our patience, and our ability to cope. This episode of Breen Time asks a question worth sitting with: what happens to us when nothing is ever hard anymore? In this episode, you'll hear: * Why the brain's reward system is wired to respond to effort - and what happens when rewards arrive without it, dulling our sense of satisfaction over time. * How instant access to food, entertainment, and work has quietly removed the everyday friction that once built resilience without us even noticing. * Why constant comfort doesn't make us calmer - it can actually increase anxiety and restlessness, leaving us less equipped to tolerate uncertainty. * The link between deliberate difficulty and confidence: why doing hard things, even small ones, rebuilds trust in your own ability to follow through. * Practical ways to reintroduce resistance into your daily life - from adjusting how you exercise to how you work and how you complete even the simplest tasks. * Why discipline isn't about punishment or grinding - it's about closing the gap between what you intend to do and what you actually do. * How patience and persistence aren't personality traits you're born with, but capacities that grow through practice - and shrink without it. * A reframe that changes everything: discomfort isn't the enemy of a good life. In the right doses, it's what makes one possible. * The goal isn't to suffer more. It's to stop mistaking ease for wellbeing. Breen Time is hosted by Sabrina Brown - life coach and management consultant. New episodes every Monday - listen now wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thebreentimepodcast/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/ [https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/breentime/] Website: https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast [https://shows.acast.com/the-breentime-podcast] Brum Radio: https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/ [https://www.instagram.com/brumradio/] If this episode raised something for you, support is available: Counselling Directory: https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk [https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk] Samaritans: https://www.samaritans.org [https://www.samaritans.org] Mind: https://www.mind.org.uk [https://www.mind.org.uk] NHS Mental Health & Talking Therapies: https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/talking-therapies-medicine-treatments/talking-therapies-and-counselling/nhs-talking-therapies/ [https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/talking-therapies-medicine-treatments/talking-therapies-and-counselling/nhs-talking-therapies/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Positivity that Produces Results with Guest Lori Rogers

Good intentions don't build great businesses. Disciplined daily habits do. In this episode, Sabrina sits down with Lori Rogers, business owner, speaker, and creator of the Positive Activity™ methodology - a science-backed approach to mindset that goes far beyond motivation and good vibes. After reaching her own breaking point in 2011, Lori transformed her business and her life through consistent, evidence-based practices - and went on to increase her sales by 200%. Now, through Rogers Marketing and the Positive Activity™ programme she co-created with her husband Neil, she helps individuals, sales teams, and business leaders do the same. In this episode, you'll hear: * Why there's a meaningful difference between surface-level positivity and what Lori calls "disciplined mindset practice" - and why that distinction changes everything. * How consistent daily activities, not bursts of motivation or hype, are what actually shape performance, culture, and long-term results. * What the Positive Activity™ methodology is built on, and how decades of real-world business leadership informed its development. * Why mindset isn't just something you feel - it's something that shows up visibly in your decisions, your habits, and the way you show up in relationships. * How responsibility and ownership sit at the heart of sustainable change, and why wishful thinking can quietly keep you stuck. * What it means to be a "rational optimist" - holding space for the hard stuff while actively choosing the thoughts and habits that move you forward. * Why incremental, almost imperceptible changes are often more powerful than dramatic overhauls - and how to trust that slow, steady progress is still progress. * Practical entry points for bringing Positive Activity™ principles into your daily life, whether you're a business owner, a team leader, or simply someone ready to do the inner work differently. * Positivity isn't a personality trait. It's a practice - and like any practice, it gets stronger the more consistently you show up for it. Breen Time is hosted by Sabrina Brown - life coach and management consultant. New episodes every Monday - follow, subscribe, and share with someone who needs to hear this. Instagram: instagram.com/breentimepodcast [http://instagram.com/breentimepodcast]  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sabrinabrown [http://linkedin.com/in/sabrinabrown]  Website: sabrinabrown.co.uk [http://sabrinabrown.co.uk/]  Brum Radio: brumradio.com [http://brumradio.com/] Learn more about Lori Rogers and the Positive Activity™ methodology: positiveactivity.net [http://www.positiveactivity.net/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.