How I Stopped Becoming Roommates with My Husband

18 Controversial Intimacy Takes — Agree, Disagree, or Hard Disagree

I found a list of 18 of the most controversial sex and intimacy opinions on the internet… and I have FEELINGS about every single one. In this solo quickie, I'm going through all 18 — agree, disagree, hard disagree — and giving you the raw, real conversation behind each take. Some I defend completely. Some I'll fight you on. And at least one is going to make you spiral (looking at you, "doggy style is the worst"). We talk about: 👄 Kissing during sex — connection or distraction? 👄 The truth about size vs. technique 👄 Why 75% of women can't orgasm from penetration alone (and why that's totally normal) 👄 Morning sex — gross, or secretly the best time? 👄 Mutual masturbation as the ultimate communication tool 👄 Doggy, missionary & reverse cowgirl — it's a technique problem, not a position problem 👄 Dirty talk done right vs. very, very wrong 👄 The shower-sex fantasy vs. the reality 👄 Toys in partnered play — threat or teammate? 👄 Anal play done the RIGHT way 👄 Why your orgasm shouldn't always be the goal 👄 Whether being in love actually makes sex better The throughline? There's no universal right answer when it comes to intimacy. What's incredible to you might be terrible to someone else — and the only way to find out what actually works for you and your partner is to TALK ABOUT IT. Play along: pause it, decide where YOU stand, then DM me which opinions you agreed with and which ones made you spiral. 💬 🎧 New episodes drop regularly — subscribe so you never miss a quickie. 🛒 Shop everything I mention: https://www.cassidybybee.com 💌 Want my FREE sexting guide? Comment "sexting" on any of my posts. Welcome to The Law of Cassidy — intimacy, business, personal growth, power, and healing. The conversations most people aren't comfortable having, served straightforward, raw, and real.

What I Learned Asking My Husband Anything For An Hour

Y'all asked, and he's back. My husband Josh joins me for the rawest, most unfiltered conversation we've had on the pod yet. We get into the questions women are too scared to ask their men, what mental health actually looks like in a marriage, the truth about running a business while raising a family, and the Mormon shame we're still untangling around sex and intimacy. This one is part rapid-fire, part real talk, part marriage therapy session you didn't pay for. If you're partnered, single, healing, or just curious — there's something in this episode for you. In this episode we get into: 👄 The questions women are too scared to ask their husbands (and Josh's no-BS answers) 👄 How men's mental health actually shows up — and why anger is the language 👄 What it does to a man when his wife initiates sex 👄 The truth about being three years into a business and still not paying yourself 👄 Stretch marks, postpartum bodies, and what your man is REALLY thinking 👄 Unlearning Mormon shame around sex as a married couple 👄 Why working through emotions IS masculine 👄 The pinnacle of intimacy — and how to give it to your partner this week Whether you've been married 20 years or you're still figuring out what you want in a partner, this episode will hit. Send it to your husband. Send it to your single friend. Send it to your sister. Then come tell me what landed. If this episode moved you, please rate and review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify — it's the #1 way to help the show reach more vain ones who need it. Follow along: Instagram: @thelawofcassidy , @its_cassidybybee TikTok: @itscassidybybee  #TheLawOfCassidy #IntimacyPodcast #MarriagePodcast #WomensWellness #MensMentalHealth #MarriageAdvice #PostpartumBody #MormonDeconstruction

How I Stopped Becoming Roommates with My Husband

If you've turned into roommates passing in the night since the kids came, this one's for you. Real question — when was the last time we had sex that didn't involve a child knocking on the door, a whisper, a monitor on the nightstand, or ending early because we heard a sound? If you paused on that, you're in the right place. In this quickie episode, I'm giving you 5 tangible tips for actually being intimate with your partner while raising small humans. We're talking King Night / Queen Night (the system that takes the mental load out of initiating), why nap time is sacred, the morning quickie (the most underrated move in parenting), date nights as maintenance (not luxury), and yes — car sex. I'm putting it on a bumper sticker. Plus the confession story about my daughter walking in on us (always. lock. the. door.), three DMs from real listeners in the trenches, and the Carry-On Confidential Kit you didn't know you needed. Having kids doesn't mean your sex life has to die. It means it has to evolve. 💋 If this hit you, send it to a friend or your partner. DM me your car sex stories — I read every single one. 🔗 Shop everything mentioned, including the Carry-On Confidential Kit and the Magic Wand Micro, https://www.cassidybybee.com/ [https://www.cassidybybee.com/]

I Lost 12 Friends This Year — Here's What I Learned

This one is my real, raw therapy session. I'm not on the other side of this — I'm in the middle of it. So if you've ever said no and spent three days wondering if you offended someone, immediately checked the comments after doing something brave, or felt the sting of someone whispering about you behind your back — this episode is for you. I'm getting into all of it: the people I've lost in my growth, the Utah-influencer-bubble that won't include me, the cheap chatter that almost made me question my entire podcast, and the trick I learned that actually stops the spiral when comparison hits. 💋 Why caring what people think is NOT a character flaw (it's biology) 💋 The Mormon-Utah pressure I'm done shrinking for 💋 Saying NO is saying yes to yourself — the smallest no to start with 💋 Stop trying to control the outcome (and what to do instead) 💋 If you have to force it, it's not for you 💋 What to ask yourself when someone tells you "people are talking" 💋 The 12 friendships I lost in the last year and a half — and what I learned 💋 The Pink Elephant trick that actually stops the spiral 💋 DM: "I say yes to everything. How do I start saying no?" 💋 DM: "I've been wanting to start something for 2 years. How do I build while being watched?" This is the conversation I needed to have out loud. If you needed it too, DM me. Tell me what no you need to say. Tell me what you're building that scares you. I read everything. 🛍️ COVETED PICK THIS WEEK: On Arousal Oil — for the women who just realized you've been giving everyone else your energy. Reclaiming pleasure is one of the most direct acts of choosing yourself that exists. ————— The Law of Cassidy is where I talk intimacy, business, power, healing, and fun — the things people are too uncomfortable to talk about. New episodes every week. 🎧 Follow on Spotify + Apple Podcasts 📱 Follow @its_cassidybybee on Instagram + TikTok 🛍️ Shop everything at cassidybybee.com #LawOfCassidy #CaringWhatPeopleThink #PeoplePleasing #PersonalGrowth #LosingFriends #BoundariesMatter #UtahPodcast #WomenWhoBuild

Why Masturbation Is Actually GOOD For You

It’s officially Masturbation May… and yes, we’re talking about it. In this solo quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy, I’m breaking down the science, shame, benefits, and reality of masturbation — for BOTH women and men. Because solo pleasure isn’t dirty. It isn’t shameful. And it definitely isn’t something we should still be whispering about in 2026. 💋 Why masturbation lowers stress and anxiety 💋 The real science behind orgasms and dopamine 💋 Why so many women feel shame around pleasure 💋 The Utah / purity culture conversation nobody wants to have 💋 Tips for women exploring solo pleasure 💋 Tips for men who want better stamina and control 💋 How masturbation improves intimacy and confidence 💋 The connection between masturbation and sleep 💋 Why your nervous system NEEDS pleasure 💋 The “7-Day Masturbation Challenge” I also answer listener DMs about: 💋 Never masturbating before 💋 Feeling guilty during solo play 💋 When masturbation starts replacing intimacy in relationships This episode is funny, educational, spicy, and probably something you should send to your best friend immediately. 🛍️ COVETED PICKS THIS WEEK: * For her — Sensual Newbie Turbo (link in show notes) * For him — Jetpack auto-stroker (link in show notes) * For him (manual) — Trifecta 📩 Take the 7-day challenge and DM me your wins. ————— The Law of Cassidy is where I talk intimacy, business, power, healing, and fun — the things people are too uncomfortable to talk about. New episodes every week. 🎧 Follow on Spotify + Apple Podcasts  📱 Follow @its_cassidybybee on Instagram + TikTok  🛍️ Shop everything at cassidybybee.com #MasturbationMay #LawOfCassidy #SexualHealth #IntimacyPodcast #WomensHealth #MensHealth #SexEducation