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I Think I Actually Care What People Think ... A Lot

11 min · 5 de jun de 2025
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In this episode, I explore the complex relationship we have with caring about what others think. I reflect on the societal pressure to appear unconcerned about others' opinions, particularly among women, and share my personal journey of realizing that I still care more than I thought. I discuss the difference between saying we don't care and truly embodying that mindset, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity, and I outline characteristics of individuals who genuinely live without the need for external validation. Takeaways We often claim to not care what others think before we truly stop caring. Caring about others' opinions is a part of being human. There's a difference between saying we don't care and actually not caring. The need for validation can manifest in our interactions, even with children. Being right can become an ego issue rather than a pursuit of truth. Deleting negative comments on social media reflects our need for approval. Saying we don't care is often a defense mechanism rather than a reality. Authenticity involves making decisions based on internal alignment. Criticism can be an opportunity for growth if approached with curiosity. Letting go of people who require us to be smaller is essential for true connection. My website: http://www.amberwardell.com Subscribe to my newsletter: https://amberwardell.com/subscribe-to-newsletter/ Follow along on all my socials: https://campsite.to/amberwardell Buy my book Beyond Self-Care Potato Chips: Choosing Nourishing Self-Care in a Quick-Fix Culture: https://amzn.to/4g7hHrt

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