What we've lost

What we've lost

Every technology gives you something. Every technology takes something away. The problem is we're usually so focused on what we gain that we don't notice what we've lost until it's gone. Joel and Tim open with new creation theology and the deep physicality of what Christians are actually looking forward to — then trace that thread through rally driving, unwrapping CDs, the washing machine, the microwave, the self-driving car and Zoom meetings that left everyone exhausted for reasons nobody could explain. Mike Dicker's framework for thinking about technological trade-offs is the practical anchor. Alan Noble's theology of presence is the theological one. And the question underneath all of it: are we trading away what makes us human? Timestamps 00:00 Welcome, rambunctious toddlers and Square One talks on new creation 02:00 What the age to come actually looks like 09:00 Rallying, sights, smells and what we miss when it's taken away 12:00 Not all technology is progress 14:00 Mike Dicker's framework — enhancement, obsolescence, retrieval and reversal 20:00 The Spotify trade-off 23:00 Theology of creation and physicality 27:00 Alan Noble on presence 33:00 Yann Martel's bad stories 36:00 The microwave and the family dinner table 38:00 The car, the 20-minute circle and the loss of geographic embeddedness 42:00 Zoom fatigue, pheromones and what we didn't know we were processing in person 45:00 AI and the wisdom of refusing the easy answer 47:00 Navigating technology with wisdom Discussed on this episode Mike Dicker — Navigating Technology [https://www.youthworks.net/articles/navigating-technology] Alan Noble — Presence in an Age of AI Reproduction [https://newsletter.oalannoble.com/p/presence-in-an-age-of-ai-reproduction] Andy Crouch — The Tech-Wise Family [https://www.amazon.com.au/Tech-Wise-Family-Andy-Crouch/dp/0801018668/ref=sr_1_1?crid=KL7IR3NNP79A&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.9L7_aR7hLVysABn84eiistWIdUu2IPvsPENYARqvHiyHrepCW4o7alqi4QbdVjchoMYSWlOaNFqja2wr8VHfpK3Pew1T4laTHxuvQskEqvk.6jKjfJe_mpj9QhjK-gskebmxkZ-A8G2bzHQiUC6GuIQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=andy+crouch+tech+wise+family&qid=1779794740&sprefix=andy+crouch+tech+%2Caps%2C256&sr=8-1] Andy Crouch — Culture Making [https://www.amazon.com.au/Culture-Making-Recovering-Creative-Calling/dp/151400576X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=9KDNMQG9W77V&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VVDGHV9XPuauyNn_WCONQopJezlDoVjVK9Gwv05lYq9BRphArtfWGuxZEG6SQJN47t0ZzMJfK5oo8_IiRvhYxXy3iVbXQ-lTxRZ4RUZDiFkAXsXPXloxwK_-lAs13cbX66V7e-G7kKYYpq5zaDVhDA.TY3yrJvtqmOCSucZ1f0kMdQjoZE151toJQoSA9w3_Og&dib_tag=se&keywords=andy+crouch+culture+making&qid=1779794765&sprefix=andy+crouch+culture+%2Caps%2C233&sr=8-1] John Dyer — From the Garden to the City [https://www.amazon.com.au/Garden-City-Place-Technology-Story/dp/0825433126/ref=pd_lpo_d_sccl_1/355-8624926-5883835?pd_rd_w=1SCY4&content-id=amzn1.sym.7ef4c059-30c9-4984-b131-e38134d0b653&pf_rd_p=7ef4c059-30c9-4984-b131-e38134d0b653&pf_rd_r=34QCWAFWFVVPETZPYB3P&pd_rd_wg=9ERdb&pd_rd_r=baa5b536-ba64-4604-b73a-703b0522027b&pd_rd_i=0825433126&psc=1] Yann Martel on the How I Write Podcast [https://substack.com/@davidperell1/note/c-254710818] Alan Noble — Disruptive Witness [https://www.amazon.com.au/Disruptive-Witness-Alan-Noble/dp/083084483X] Subscribe, leave a review, and send your thoughts to joel@shockabsorber.com.au [joel@shockabsorber.com.au]

The thick relational ecosystem - why we need youth ministry more than ever

Seth Kaplan's article on the After Babel Substack reads like a secular argument for why youth ministry matters. Joel and Tim trace the arc from 1950s street culture to the latchkey generation to the screen-based void that smartphones were custom-built to fill, and ask what the church uniquely offers in response. The answer, according to both secular sociology and Christian theology, is the same thing: thick, embedded, multi-generational communities where kids are known, challenged, given genuine responsibility and can't just opt out when conflict arises. Tim also pushes back on one of Kaplan's conclusions, and the pushback is worth hearing. 00:00 Welcome, studio upgrades, the Soul Revival car door and half marathon training 05:50 We Took Away the Phones. Now What? Seth Kaplan's After Babel article 10:00 How we lost the street, from 1950s community to suburban isolation 13:30 Overprotection, the latchkey generation and the void screens filled 18:00 What kids actually lose when they stop playing outside 22:00 Organised activities as a poor substitute for free play 27:00 Board games, conflict resolution and what teachers are being asked to fix 32:00 Scouts, third places and the church as embedded community 36:00 The 30-year generational arc: Miranda campus now vs Kirrawee in the 90s 43:00 The cognitive shift: from "my parents' church" to "my church" 48:00 Sport vs church: what non-negotiables reveal about priorities 54:00 Tim's pushback on Kaplan: why experiences AND instruction both matter 1:00:00 Church attendance as covenant, not option. Plus Tim's takeaway Subscribe, leave a review, and send your thoughts to joel@shockabsorber.com.au [joel@shockabsorber.com.au]

Relational and responsive

Last episode was the intangibles. This is the tangibles. Joel, Stu and Tim open with the Met Gala, a $1 bill across Sarah Paulson's eyes, and whether millionaires protesting billionaires is tone deaf,  before tracing the thread from wealth inequality all the way to how the church should function as a genuine leveller. Then they get practical. What systems does Soul Revival actually use? How do you say no to a good idea without crushing the person who brought it? What is ministry slide and why does grace need to be structurally built into your teams? And what does teams not tasks actually mean, and why does it protect against utilitarianism in a way that pure efficiency thinking never can? Plus: why prayer nights in the 90s drew the biggest crowds, what happened when the bands Soul Revival raised started pulling people to pub gigs on Saturday nights, and Stu's memory of a meeting 25 years ago where they cancelled all the plans and just prayed — and why he still remembers it. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome — excursions, the Met and peanut butter sandwiches on a school bus 03:00 The Met Gala, Sarah Paulson and tone-deaf protest art 07:00 Francis Schaeffer — how philosophy flows through artists into culture 12:00 Wealth inequality, housing and the church as a leveller 19:00 Galatians 3 — no longer Jew nor Greek, slave nor free 24:00 Practical levelling — $7 meals, camp subsidies and families taking home leftovers 29:00 Church systems — ChurchSuite, communication across generations and the pigeon budget 35:00 How to say no to a good idea — the shock absorber in practice 42:00 Prayer in the service — building a bridge to a new reality 48:00 Teams not tasks — why friendship protects against utilitarianism 57:00 God gives different personalities — honouring everyone in the team 1:02:00 Ministry slide revisited and wrapping up Discussed on this episode Francis Schaeffer — The Great Evangelical Disaster [https://www.amazon.com.au/Great-Evangelical-Disaster-Francis-Schaeffer/dp/0891073086/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.5R5UG6V5ITZR6zCi8-10tlmGQQJ6xxhSf4pfAa7c8ZUv0m9rGkYSGDg61WHe569fD85clvUJi6yziZpIxGsMlw.xmUYlNYG8zxQFLd6jdcniprpDFzpFVPzYNSbkppbk6I&qid=1778650489&sr=8-1] Andy Crouch — Culture Making [https://www.amazon.com.au/Culture-Making-Recovering-Creative-Calling/dp/151400576X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.rmhnYxPO5LJ0lNvq7NEXJfZSBifBFrZYM9UzI2R5BTLQL1RnvS3tF2rt3auUN_HlPxLj12IzIdGe570LR_pGZu-gliUO3ytq-4NJnid-BmcTNaIBlYIw64XxOsWNC0xqWLbuoWtaTAgdAZVSyukayQ.d79nVgYVcxRZGjeRYoCSFasFK7fL89EUg5h-FjPh_n8&qid=1778650512&sr=8-1] Robert Greene — The 48 Laws of Power [https://www.amazon.com.au/48-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/1861972784/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0] ChurchSuite — churchsuite.com [https://churchsuite.com/] Subscribe, leave a review, and send your thoughts to joel@shockabsorber.com.au [joel@shockabsorber.com.au]

Organised messiness - An element of grace beats efficiency every time

Is efficiency a godly value? And if the Good Shepherd leaves 99 sheep to find the one, what does that say about how we should be running our churches? The guys open with King Charles's surprisingly funny speech to the U.S. Congress, a masterclass in soft power, humour and resetting an agenda without throwing a punch, before getting into the real conversation: how do you manage a church well without accidentally turning it into a business? Stu unpacks Soul Revival's approach to project management — organised messiness, ministry slide, double-up meetings and why grace has to be baked into the structure from the start. Tim brings in Andy Crouch's cultural postures and Marshall McLuhan's medium-is-the-message warning about what happens when corporate metaphors quietly reshape how you think about ministry. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome — fake arrogance, King Charles and the Churchill bath story 08:30 Soft power, constitutional monarchy and why Charles reset the agenda without throwing a punch 17:30 Church project management — theology, strategy and practice 21:00 The African church vs the Sydney church — context shapes everything 25:00 Metrics, growth and the danger of deterministic ministry thinking 31:00 Andy Crouch, Marshall McLuhan and why corporate metaphors aren't value-neutral 37:00 Organised messiness — Stu's philosophy of church management 43:00 The Good Shepherd, the 99% and why efficiency isn't a godly value 47:00 Isaac Gordon's late arrival and what it taught Soul Revival about grace 54:00 Ministry slide — a practical framework for holding people and mission together Discussed on this episode: King Charles III addresses US Congress [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhoflAu-Lls]Andy Crouch - Culture Making [https://koorong.com/product/culture-making-2nd-edition-recovering-our-creative-calling_9781514005767]Marshall McLuhan - The Medium is the Message [https://web.mit.edu/allanmc/www/mcluhan.mediummessage.pdf]Colin Marshall and Tony Payne - Trellis and Vine [https://koorong.com/product/the-trellis-and-the-vine-3rd-edition-the_9781875245956] Subscribe, leave a review, and send your thoughts to Joel at joel@shockabsorber.com.au [joel@shockabsorber.com.au]

Jesus is the synthesiser

Tony Abbott wrote a history of Australia called, wait for it, Australia. Tim has been reading it, which sent him down a rabbit hole about celebratory versus critical history, cognitive dissonance, steel-manning both sides, and why we're so terrified of changing our minds. Joel and Tim work through black armband versus three cheers versions of Australian identity, and what Christian Smith's critical realist personalism has to do with welcoming newcomers at church. Then they land somewhere that ties it all together: Jesus is the synthesiser. Not a middle ground between two political tribes, not a careful hedge, but the total truth above and beyond all of it, which is exactly what a generation exhausted by polarisation is starving for. Plus: two Michael Jensen articles on how not to be weird to newcomers, the difference between a hobby and a practice, and Tim's takeaway on being genuinely curious about other people. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome — adventures, new creation and Tim's AI-generated book cover 05:00 Tony Abbott's history of Australia and the history wars 09:30 Black armband vs celebratory history, why we can't hold both at once 16:30 Steel-manning both sides with Claude and the danger of always complexifying 22:00 Christian Smith's critical realist personalism: objective truth, subjective engagement 28:00 Michael Jensen on how not to be weird to newcomers at church 34:00 The regulars and irregulars problem: when community becomes a closed circle 43:00 Hobby vs practice: Brad Stulberg on getting 1% better at welcoming 51:00 God's sovereignty and our practice: the both/and of sanctification 56:30 Tim's takeaway: be genuinely curious about others Discussed on this episode Tony Abbott - Australia: A History [https://www.amazon.com.au/gp/aw/d/1460768299/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_plhdr=t&aaxitk=97f0427424d202108b32c597968661cb&hsa_cr_id=0&qid=1777428830&sr=1-2-ac08f2b1-eb5b-4f1a-aa64-9e8f448c33ed&ref_=sbx_s_sparkle_sbtcd_asin_1_title&pd_rd_w=qqUmT&content-id=amzn1.sym.3fd9c7c8-f5b6-47bc-b327-397257a1065e%3Aamzn1.sym.3fd9c7c8-f5b6-47bc-b327-397257a1065e&pf_rd_p=3fd9c7c8-f5b6-47bc-b327-397257a1065e&pf_rd_r=1E79K9NNDX6GN0YECDE3&pd_rd_wg=9Chvw&pd_rd_r=ac84f0a8-c8bc-487a-a5a8-27bedf2c0b0b] Christian Smith - What is a Person? [https://www.amazon.com.au/What-Person-Rethinking-Humanity-Social/dp/0226765946] Sean Nolan - The Way He Walked [https://koorong.com/product/the-way-he-walked-sean-nolan_9781764382076]Michael Jensen - How Not to Be Weird to Newcomers at Church [https://michaeljensen603.substack.com/p/how-not-to-be-weird-to-newcomers]Michael Jensen - How to Be Normal to Newcomers at Church [https://michaeljensen603.substack.com/p/how-to-be-normal-to-newcomers-in]Brad Stulberg [https://www.bradstulberg.com/]Cal Newport - How To Build Discipline in a Distracted World [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8MZxq_Hb8vk]The Antilibrary: The Hidden Value of Unread Books [https://fs.blog/the-antilibrary/] Join the Shock Absorber Network: shockabsorber.com.au [https://www.shockabsorber.com.au/] Subscribe, leave a review, and send your thoughts to Joel at joel@shockabsorber.com.au [joel@shockabsorber.com.au]