Empathy vs. Boundaries: When Caring Too Much Hurts You

Ghosted

BOO! In this spooky special of The Sleepover Podcast, Rickeshia and friend of the show Warren Mills unpack the haunting truth about ghosting — why people disappear, what it feels like to be ghosted, and how it affects modern dating and friendships. Tune in for a fun yet thoughtful Halloween conversation about dating culture, communication, and emotional closure— perfect for anyone who’s ever been left on “read.” 👻 Black Girl, You Shine Coloring/Affirmations Book [https://a.co/d/btSxI00] Breakup Playlist - Poetry book [https://a.co/d/65VHvzA]

Your Journey Is Harder Because It’s Different

Why does it feel like your path is slower, messier, or more uncertain than everyone else’s? In this episode — the season two finale — I’m getting honest about what it really looks like to take the road less traveled. Whether you’re pursuing a creative calling, building something unconventional, or just don’t see your life following a “normal” timeline… this one’s for you. We’re talking about purpose, comparison, self-doubt, and that lingering feeling of being “behind.” I also share how The Alchemist and Matthew 7 helped me realize that the road you’re on may be harder simply because it’s different — but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. It might just mean you’re forging your own way. So if you’ve been second-guessing your path, this is your reminder: you’re not lost — you’re just creating something no one’s done before.

Stop Trying to Write Your Own Happy Ending

Are you exhausted trying to force your life into the vision you had in mind? In this episode, we talk about the chaos we create when we try to take matters into our own hands. I’m sharing my own struggle with wanting the “happy ending” now—and how faith is teaching me to trust the story God is still writing. This is for the woman who’s exhausted from striving, who’s tempted to take control, and who needs the reminder that she doesn’t have to have it all figured out. If you’re learning to trust God’s timing, surrender the script, and grow through the messy middle—this one’s for you. Scriptures Mentioned: Genesis 15 Genesis 16: 1-2 NIV Ephesians 3: 16-19 Genesis 21: 1-7 NIV Proverbs 13:12 NKJV Follow Me: ⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@xoxorickeshia] ⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/xoxoRicke/] ⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@XoxoRicke] ⁠⁠Pinterest:⁠ [https://www.pinterest.com/xoxorickeshia/] Show Some Love/Support: ⁠Budgeting Sheets in Pink⁠⁠ [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1857820699/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] ⁠⁠Budgeting Sheets in Gray⁠⁠ [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1843644224/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] ⁠⁠Black Girl, You Shine Affirmations & Coloring Book⁠ [https://a.co/d/cT3TWVg] ⁠Breakup Playlist (poetry book) [https://a.co/d/5L4BZLQ]

Empathy vs. Boundaries: When Caring Too Much Hurts You

Do you ever feel like your empathy is keeping you stuck in draining or even toxic cycles? In this episode of The Sleepover Podcast, we’re unpacking the complex relationship between empathy and boundaries, and how compassion can sometimes blur the lines in toxic relationships. Tune in as we talk about setting emotional boundaries and recognizing when empathy becomes enabling. Journaling Prompt: Write a list of people and/or boundaries you need to set Follow Me: ⁠TikTok: ⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@xoxorickeshia] ⁠Instagram:⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/xoxoRicke/] ⁠YouTube: ⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@XoxoRicke] ⁠Pinterest: [https://www.pinterest.com/xoxorickeshia/] Show Some Love/Support: Budgeting Sheets in Pink⁠ [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1857820699/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] ⁠Budgeting Sheets in Gray⁠ [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1843644224/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] ⁠Black Girl, You Shine Affirmations & Coloring Book [https://a.co/d/cT3TWVg] Breakup Playlist (poetry book) [https://a.co/d/5L4BZLQ]

What's Your Game Plan?

We've been trying to contact you regarding your car's extended warranty... Life has a way of throwing unexpected curveballs — especially when it comes to finances. In this episode, I share a recent financial setback that took me by surprise and the personal game plan I created to bounce back stronger. Instead of spiraling, I took a moment to pause, reflect, and lean into faith. Through that stillness, I discovered how God can redirect your path when you least expect it. If you're facing your own detour or wondering how to regain control when life hits hard, this episode will speak to your spirit and offer practical encouragement. Let’s talk about building resilience, trusting divine timing, and recovering in chaos. Budgeting Sheets in Pink [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1857820699/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] Budgeting Sheets in Gray [https://xoxorickeshia.etsy.com/listing/1843644224/monthly-bi-weekly-budget-tracking-bundle] Black Girl, You Shine Affirmations & Coloring Book [https://a.co/d/cT3TWVg] Follow Me: TikTok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@xoxorickeshia] Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/xoxoRicke/] YouTube: [https://www.youtube.com/@XoxoRicke] Pinterest: [https://www.pinterest.com/xoxorickeshia/]