Hard Pass

Surrender Season

I know it seems as though I have been M.I.A. but your girl has had a lot going on. From hearing from God that I was in my waiting season, during my total surrender, a lot started changing in my life. Not only is your girl moving out and moving on, revelations, a newfound relationship, and energy only from God, are in the mix.  Scripture References:  1. Joshua 3:15-17 2. Philippians 1:6 3. Romans 11:29  Please do not forget to leave a review, download this episode, and add The Soft Life Shift to your library!  Stay in Touch with Dakota:  Follow The Soft Life Shift on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/thesoftlifeshift/] @thesoftlifeshift Follow Dakota on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/dakotaaaj_/] @dakotaaaj_  Follow Dakota on Tik Tok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@dakotaj_?lang=en] @dakotaj_

Hard Pass

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, it was only right that we talk all things dating and relationships. In no way, shape, or form do I regret any of my experiences, because I would not have the learned the lessons that made me the unapologetic and confident young woman that I am right now.  Please use this episode for reference when you need advice, courage, or a good laugh, but know that this is real advice and when you’re ready to take it, your life will change for the better!   Please do not forget to leave a review, download this episode, and add The Soft Life Shift to your library!  Stay in Touch with Dakota:  Follow The Soft Life Shift on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/thesoftlifeshift/] @thesoftlifeshift Follow Dakota on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/dakotaaaj_/] @dakotaaaj_  Follow Dakota on Tik Tok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@dakotaj_?lang=en] @dakotaj_

Boundaries are for Baddies

Alright class,  Say it with me, “ Boundaries are for Baddies”! Think of setting boundaries as creating rules, and no rules = no accountability, whether they be related to work, relationships, self care, etc., boundaries are must on your journey to becoming the best version of yourself.  A recent dating experience helped me realize that the disrespect that I was met with after communicating something that I did not appreciate, was actually me creating a boundary, something I’ve never done before.  Please do not forget to leave a review, download this episode, and add The Soft Life Shift to your library!  Stay in Touch with Dakota:  Follow The Soft Life Shift on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/thesoftlifeshift/] @thesoftlifeshift Follow Dakota on IG: [https://www.instagram.com/dakotaaaj_/] @dakotaaaj_  Follow Dakota on Tik Tok: [https://www.tiktok.com/@dakotaj_?lang=en] @dakotaj_

Thou Shall Not Covet

Last episode we talked breaking point, but what took me so long to get there? A covetous spirit, fear of perception, and no purpose of my own. As the eldest daughter, failure was never an option, and not being in a relationship or on a path towards marriage was included on my list of what ‘success’ looked like. I was trying to find my own success through relationships and it kept me stuck, putting up with anything, depressed, and away from my purpose.  This week on The Soft Life Shift, we unpack why you should always put yourself first, mind your business, and find some business. Also known as finding your purpose or just a hobby!  Stay in Touch with Dakota:  Follow The Soft Life Shift on IG [https://www.instagram.com/p/DS-bXu-Di0b/?img_index=1]: @thesoftlifeshift  Follow Dakota on IG [https://www.instagram.com/dakotaaaj_/]: @dakotaaaj_  Follow Dakota on Tik Tok [https://www.tiktok.com/@dakotaj_?lang=en]: @dakotaj_

Dear 2025: A Soft Reflection on the Year That Changed Me

My first podcast episode ?! Absolutely speechless and grateful to God and this community for supporting me every step of the way! It was only right that for the first episode, we get real! On top of being brought to my breaking point, I was lost, I was sad, and I was depressed, all while trying to put up front. But 3 months ago, I took my life back and now I can finally breathe. This episode is raw, unedited, and authentic, and I hope you all can relate or feel inspired to take your life back! Stay in Touch with Dakota: Follow The Soft Life Shift on IG [https://www.instagram.com/thesoftlifeshift/] : @thesoftlifeshift Follow Dakota on IG [https://www.instagram.com/dakotaaaj_/]: @dakotaaaj_ Follow Dakota on Tik Tok [https://www.tiktok.com/@dakotaj_?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc]: @dakotaj_