Why Most People Stay Stuck — and How to Move Forward with Jason VanRuler (pt. 1)

How Top Entrepreneurs Build Teams That Drive Results with Chandler Bolt

What does it really take to build a successful business without sacrificing your relationship, time, and sanity? In this episode of The Something New Show, we sit down with a high-level entrepreneur, Chandler Bolt, to break down the real systems behind success—from marriage rhythms and communication habits to hiring A-players, pricing strategies, and scaling a company the right way. We dive deep into: -How to balance ambition and relationships without burnout -Weekly, quarterly, and yearly systems for staying connected in marriage -The difference between “farm league” hiring vs. hiring proven winners -Why most business owners stay stuck (and how to break through) -The truth about raising your prices (and why you should do it ASAP) -How to attract better clients by charging more -The power of value-based pricing vs. hourly pricing -Why giving away your best content for free actually makes you more money -Building a high-performance team with aligned incentives If you’re an entrepreneur, creative, or business owner trying to scale without losing what matters most—this episode will change how you think about success, leadership, and growth. 🎯 Whether you're building your first business or scaling to 7–8 figures, these insights will help you: Work smarter (not just harder) Build a stronger relationship at home Create a team that actually drives results Increase revenue without increasing workload ⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 Balancing marriage and ambition 05:10 Weekly & daily connection rhythms 10:45 Quarterly calendar planning system 16:20 Talking about work in relationships 20:30 Entrepreneur couple challenges 25:00 Building a media company 30:40 Lessons from studying top entrepreneurs 36:15 Farm league vs. going pro in hiring 45:20 Why most businesses hire wrong 52:10 Remote vs. in-person teams 1:00:30 Can employees think like founders? 1:08:00 Aligning team incentives 1:15:40 Pricing mistakes entrepreneurs make 1:25:10 Value-based pricing explained 1:32:00 Raising prices without fear 1:40:00 Free content strategy that converts To connect with Chandler: https://www.youtube.com/@chandlerboltofficial Follow Chandler: https://www.instagram.com/realchandlerbolt/ Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. If you want a fuller experience, like & subscribe to the show on Youtube [https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfNG0QFDN6zU2C4G_meRh2Q?fbclid=PAAaYC9i_02CwRMksqPNzBojjOavqTCO4DkwQhfboZST2dLt9Gv6ua5tRw5lM]! Cheers!

From Miss Universe to Motherhood: Demi Tebow on Identity That Endures

What happens when the title you worked your whole life for is suddenly gone?  In this deeply honest episode of The Something New Show, host Mindi Linscombe sits down with Demi Tebow for a powerful conversation about identity, faith, motherhood, grief, and purpose beyond accolades. From winning Miss Universe to walking off the stage feeling unexpectedly empty, Demi shares the defining moment that reshaped how she understood her worth — and why it led her to write A Crown That Lasts. She opens up about becoming a first-time mom, navigating loss, learning how to say no in a new season, and why trust matters more than clarity. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has: ➡️ Tied their identity to a role, title, or season ➡️ Struggled with transitions, loss, or redefining success ➡️ Wanted to live with deeper purpose and intention Topics We Cover: ✨ Why accolades can’t sustain your identity ✨ The moment Demi had to give her crown back ✨ Motherhood, grief, and joy existing at the same time ✨ How she and Tim Tebow decide what to say yes to ✨ Trust vs. clarity in decision-making ✨ Faith as the only “crown” that truly lasts ✨ The mission and impact of the Tim Tebow Foundation ✨ Fighting human trafficking and serving vulnerable communities ✨ Health, routines, and staying grounded in a busy season ⏱️ Timestamps / Chapters 00:00 – Welcome + meeting Demi-Leigh 02:00 – Motherhood, grief, and holding joy + loss together 06:30 – The story behind A Crown That Lasts 08:45 – Giving the Miss Universe crown back 10:30 – Identity after titles end 12:30 – Faith as the crown that doesn’t fade 16:30 – Becoming a working mom + learning to slow down 20:30 – How Demi-Leigh filters her “yes” 24:30 – Trust vs. clarity (Mother Teresa story) 26:45 – Purpose alignment with Tim Tebow 28:30 – Human trafficking and advocacy work 30:45 – Tim Tebow Foundation + Night to Shine 35:00 – Health, routines, and daily rhythms 41:00 – Books, encouragement, and final reflections ✨✨📖 FREE BOOK GIVEAWAY📖 ✨✨ If you would like your chance at getting a FREE copy of Demi's latest book "A Crown That Lasts" then head to either link below:  Get Your Free Copy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfxj-90MUJFancNh9e4C2pJKyNtZonYcW_88wMCJOdINJWn1A/viewform Get Your Free Copy: https://jordanandmindi.com Connect with Demi: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demitebow/ 📹 Website: https://demitebow.com Her Links: https://linktr.ee/Demitebow?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGn1gVat26GXA0_06bvt8-3hq78XSCNWFJ2he9UIClgrdpFH4wlhPowkjpAYuM_aem_0N_1j2k71KMai0-lDaK05Q Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: @thesomethingnewshow 📹 YouTube: The Something New Show 🎵 TikTok: @thesomethingnewshow 📩 Join my email list for updates + encouragement: https://jordanandmindi.com Connect with our sponsor Something Blue 30A! 🏖️ 📸 Instagram: @somethingblue30a Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. Cheers! Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. If you want a fuller experience, like & subscribe to the show on Youtube [https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfNG0QFDN6zU2C4G_meRh2Q?fbclid=PAAaYC9i_02CwRMksqPNzBojjOavqTCO4DkwQhfboZST2dLt9Gv6ua5tRw5lM]! Cheers!

How Your Attachment Style Is Shaping Your Relationships with Mark Cameron, LMFT

What if the tension in your relationships isn’t actually about the other person — but about patterns you learned long before you realized it? In this powerful and deeply practical conversation, licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Marc Cameron joins us to unpack attachment styles — how they form in childhood, how they quietly drive conflict in adulthood, and how secure attachment can actually be earned later in life. From marriage and parenting to leadership, faith, and emotional regulation, this episode connects the dots between why we react the way we do and how to break unhelpful cycles for good. Mark is a co-host of New Life Live, the largest Christian counseling call-in radio show in the country, and the author of Understanding Your Attachment Style. Whether you’re married, single, dating, leading a team, or raising kids, this episode will help you better understand yourself — and the people you love. ✨ In this episode, we discuss: What attachment styles are and why everyone has one The 4 insecure attachment styles (Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Disorganized) What secure attachment actually looks like Why triggers are usually about the past — not the present How attachment styles show up in marriage, parenting, work, and leadership Why “just communicate better” doesn’t work How faith intersects with attachment and emotional healing How to earn secure attachment as an adult What to look for when choosing a spouse (without over-analyzing everything) This episode is for anyone who wants healthier relationships, deeper connection, and real tools — not just theory. If this conversation resonates with you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who’s navigating relationships right now. ⏱️ Timestamps / Chapters 00:00 – Meeting Marc Cameron & why this conversation matters 01:48 – What is attachment theory (and why everyone has an attachment style) 03:36 – The Avoider attachment style explained 05:06 – The Pleaser (anxious) attachment style 06:18 – Why siblings can develop different attachment styles 07:02 – The Vacillator attachment style (push–pull dynamics) 08:28 – Disorganized attachment: controllers & victims 09:43 – Secure attachment & why it’s the goal 11:35 – Can secure and insecure attachment coexist in relationships? 12:29 – Verbalize vs. dramatize: why language for feelings matters 13:32 – Attachment styles at work & in leadership 14:29 – How triggers reveal attachment wounds 16:13 – Reactions vs. responses (and why it matters) 17:38 – How to identify your attachment style 19:44 – Most common attachment pairings in couples therapy 21:13 – Why Mark keeps couples together in therapy 22:39 – Questions that uncover attachment wounds 24:57 – The “comfort circle” communication framework 25:48 – How attachment affects communication under stress 27:39 – Parenting for secure attachment 28:54 – Common issues callers bring to New Life Live 30:32 – Addiction, emotional numbing & attachment 31:59 – Practical rhythms for staying connected in marriage 34:52 – Faith, God & attachment styles 37:08 – Jesus as the ultimate secure connector 38:38 – Choosing a spouse: what really matters long-term Connect with Marc: https://m.facebook.com/marc.cameron.mft/ https://www.instagram.com/marc.cameron.mft/ Connect with Amy: https://www.facebook.com/amy.l.cameron Follow How We Love: https://www.facebook.com/howwelovebook?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr https://www.instagram.com/howwelovebook?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr https://www.tiktok.com/@how.we.love.tikto https://www.youtube.com/@HowWeLove The website for Marc's book is: https://understandingyourattachmentstyle.com/ The How We Love website link where people can take a free attachment quiz and find out more about Marc and Amy is: ht Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. If you want a fuller experience, like & subscribe to the show on Youtube [https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfNG0QFDN6zU2C4G_meRh2Q?fbclid=PAAaYC9i_02CwRMksqPNzBojjOavqTCO4DkwQhfboZST2dLt9Gv6ua5tRw5lM]! Cheers!

The 5 Communication Types That Transform Relationships with Jason VanRuler (pt 2)

Do you and your partner ever feel like you’re speaking different languages? In this episode, America’s leading therapist Jason VanRuler breaks down the five communication types that shape every relationship — and how to speak so that the other person truly feels loved, heard, and understood. We also dive into relationship renegotiation, emotional depth, parenting dynamics, workplace communication, and the science of emotional connection. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 — Most communication advice gets it wrong 0:22 — Welcome back: conversation with Jason VanRuler 1:10 — Why some people connect deeper, faster 2:59 — The Who & Why: the emotional depth levels 3:48 — The four levels of emotional understanding 4:18 — Relationship renegotiation in marriage 5:34 — Why honoring the “old way” stops growth 6:35 — How to begin a renegotiation conversation 7:32 — This applies in the workplace too 8:41 — Intro to the 5 PATH communication types 9:28 — The Peacemaker (P) 9:28 — The Advocate (A) 9:28 — The Thinker (T) 9:28 — The Harbor (H) 9:28 — The Spark (S) 11:55 — Example: Jason is a Harbor, his wife is a Thinker 12:50 — How polarity causes conflict 13:18 — Why we connect easily with people like us 13:32 — Why we marry our opposite 14:20 — We love the difference first — then resent it 14:57 — Creating the PATH assessment 15:05 — Couples vs corporate application 15:22 — Speaking to someone in their style, not yours 16:00 — When does the assessment release? 17:07 — What makes a healthy relationship? 17:36 — Parent/child communication & differences 19:53 — Estrangement and the refusal to validate perspective Connect with Jason: 📸 Instagram: jason.vanruler 📹 Website: www.jasonvr.com 🎵 Facebook: Jason VanRuler 📩 Buy the book: https://a.co/d/6uPl173 [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbm9mUzN5eHlEWmVndVczQVgyVkdZZlJLQmprUXxBQ3Jtc0tsU2d5aWdDeDdmN3Z2eTRYaFBQVXotclgzNVN0MnRxallsV1pQSkxkVUJPeENBemg3eEd4eTZpMzRpb0pTVktKLXQtbWtPTE53dHFjT2R5UlNvak9PR2FLdDFFMFlQcUZXd2ZjamRwckJ1UGtfOXR3Zw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fa.co%2Fd%2F6uPl173&v=-DQjBHKUxCk] Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: @thesomethingnewshow 📹 YouTube: The Something New Show 🎵 TikTok: @thesomethingnewshow 📩 Join my email list for updates + encouragement: https://jordanandmindi.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblRJVkxmZWg0MnRUOXFDMlVUZmltamthd2ZuQXxBQ3Jtc0ttTTlBSnlKOVluTkRFWlR0QS1xeWdBNldXcEFKcGZYSDJDZ2dmc0dWUk01UkV6dTN2MDVLNlVudU5hNUVDM3BXRXJPR1pQZ1hPd0ZiUllXcEdXT0xJWlRhR0hNV0VNY0pzSnkzX1o0SWNoVmJLMmdiUQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fjordanandmindi.com%2F&v=-DQjBHKUxCk] Connect with our sponsor Something Blue 30A! 🏖️ 📸 Instagram: @somethingblue30a Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. Cheers! Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. If you want a fuller experience, like & subscribe to the show on Youtube [https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfNG0QFDN6zU2C4G_meRh2Q?fbclid=PAAaYC9i_02CwRMksqPNzBojjOavqTCO4DkwQhfboZST2dLt9Gv6ua5tRw5lM]! Cheers!

Why Most People Stay Stuck — and How to Move Forward with Jason VanRuler (pt. 1)

In today’s episode, I sit down with therapist, author, and all-around brilliant human Jason, whose work spans trauma recovery, relationships, high performers, and helping people finally get unstuck. Jason opens up about his years working with everyone from child soldiers to Navy SEALs to everyday couples who feel trapped in the same painful patterns. We walk through the real process of getting unstuck — not the vague “do the work” advice, but the actual steps: connecting past experiences to present behavior, understanding your narrative, grieving what you hoped life would be, and creating a new story that moves you forward. Whether you’re navigating marriage challenges, struggling with unmet expectations, or trying to grow without losing yourself, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 02:53 – Why relationships are the lifeblood of our lives 03:03 – Why people stay stuck 06:10 – How to trace your “stuck” feeling back to a past moment 08:42 – Being “too much” — and how context changes everything 11:15 – Choices in marriage and what healthy people do 13:04 – “Can I love someone at their own pace?” 14:58 – Why safety is required before change happens 16:13 – Grieving the dream you didn't get 18:19 – When making peace is not settling 19:20 – What to do when someone won’t meet you halfway 20:07 – Changing your narrative and being open to changing it again 21:09 – Why cringing at your past is actually a sign of growth Connect with Jason: 📸 Instagram: jason.vanruler [https://www.instagram.com/jason.vanruler#] 📹 Website: www.jasonvr.com 🎵 Facebook: Jason VanRuler 📩 Buy the book: https://a.co/d/6uPl173 Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: @thesomethingnewshow 📹 YouTube: The Something New Show 🎵 TikTok: @thesomethingnewshow 📩 Join my email list for updates + encouragement: https://jordanandmindi.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbnI0bGNSVlBHTUN3TmxYazVsc2hWcGhlZjZvd3xBQ3Jtc0tuUzk1bmZ5YTNuSnFuYXYxZ3hxLUZfeUF0XzR3YWh3eElCZC1YOHpucjNPQXpfeGNIb1ZRc29OSGFyZ0d2dFBWTmd1dG01ejR3LVhsR3pJT290cWZpRV9BTDAyRl9tYUdZdXNMaUx5SkVueXRQLTQyUQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fjordanandmindi.com%2F&v=t91FfnPKVKk] Connect with our sponsor Something Blue 30A! 🏖️ 📸 Instagram: @somethingblue30a Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. Cheers! Thanks for listening! Be sure to rate the show and leave a review with one key takeaway from this episode. And, be sure to subscribe to the show and tell a friend. Also, follow @thesomethingnewshow on Instagram and Facebook. If you want a fuller experience, like & subscribe to the show on Youtube [https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCfNG0QFDN6zU2C4G_meRh2Q?fbclid=PAAaYC9i_02CwRMksqPNzBojjOavqTCO4DkwQhfboZST2dLt9Gv6ua5tRw5lM]! Cheers!