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Ep 3 | The Greatest Gift You Can Give to Your Partner

50 min · 3 de nov de 2025
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What if the foundation of loving others well is learning to love yourself? In Episode 3, Adam and Sarah Claire revisit their wedding vows—complete with Brené Brown quotes—and reflect on how their understanding of love has expanded through therapy, parenthood, and spiritual formation. They explore why self-criticism blocks intimacy, how self-compassion strengthens secure attachment, and how IFS helps us care for the protective “parts” that show up in relationships. This conversation highlights the deeply spiritual nature of inner work: when we turn toward our own hearts with curiosity and grace, we create more space to love and be loved. Tender, hopeful, and transformative—this episode is an invitation to honor the relationship within as sacred. Connect with Adam and Sarah Claire's Practice: * Bungalow Counseling on Instagram: ⁠@bungalow_counseling⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/bungalow_counseling] * Bungalow Counseling's Website: ⁠www.bungalowcounseling.com⁠ [https://www.bungalowcounseling.com/] Thank you to Emily Blaylock for our theme song, "Thinking of You Lately"

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Ep 3 | The Greatest Gift You Can Give to Your Partner

What if the foundation of loving others well is learning to love yourself? In Episode 3, Adam and Sarah Claire revisit their wedding vows—complete with Brené Brown quotes—and reflect on how their understanding of love has expanded through therapy, parenthood, and spiritual formation. They explore why self-criticism blocks intimacy, how self-compassion strengthens secure attachment, and how IFS helps us care for the protective “parts” that show up in relationships. This conversation highlights the deeply spiritual nature of inner work: when we turn toward our own hearts with curiosity and grace, we create more space to love and be loved. Tender, hopeful, and transformative—this episode is an invitation to honor the relationship within as sacred. Connect with Adam and Sarah Claire's Practice: * Bungalow Counseling on Instagram: ⁠@bungalow_counseling⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/bungalow_counseling] * Bungalow Counseling's Website: ⁠www.bungalowcounseling.com⁠ [https://www.bungalowcounseling.com/] Thank you to Emily Blaylock for our theme song, "Thinking of You Lately"

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Ep 2 | Turning Conflict into Connection

In this episode, Adam and Sarah Claire open up about a recurring conflict pattern in their marriage—one that many couples will instantly recognize. Through the lens of attachment theory, they unpack how anxious and avoidant attachment instincts can pull partners apart, even when both want connection. They share how the “You-Turn” changed the way they navigate triggers, repair disconnection, and communicate with compassion. With real-life vulnerability, Episode 2 explores how Internal Family Systems (IFS), nervous system awareness, and curiosity can transform conflict into deeper intimacy. If you’ve ever felt stuck repeating the same argument, this episode offers hope—and a practical pathway forward. Connect with Adam and Sarah Claire's Practice: * Bungalow Counseling on Instagram: ⁠@bungalow_counseling⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/bungalow_counseling] * Bungalow Counseling's Website: ⁠www.bungalowcounseling.com⁠ [https://www.bungalowcounseling.com/] Thank you to Emily Blaylock for our theme song, "Thinking of You Lately"

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Ep 1 | Welcome to the You-Turn: Where Relational Healing Begins

In the very first episode of The You-Turn, married therapists Adam and Sarah Claire introduce the heart behind their new podcast: transforming relationships from the inside out. They share how their own marriage and the conflicts that surfaced along the way led them to adopt the “You-Turn,” a practice of pausing blame, turning inward, and bringing curiosity and compassion to the parts of us that feel scared, angry, or disconnected. You’ll also learn how Internal Family Systems (IFS) became a game-changing lens for their personal and professional lives, why emotional triggers in relationships are opportunities (not failures), and how self-love is foundational to loving others well. Whether you’re single, dating, or deeply committed, Episode 1 invites you into a new way of seeing yourself—and the people you love. Connect with Adam and Sarah Claire's Practice: * Bungalow Counseling on Instagram: @bungalow_counseling [https://www.instagram.com/bungalow_counseling] * Bungalow Counseling's Website: www.bungalowcounseling.com [https://www.bungalowcounseling.com/] Thank you to Emily Blaylock for our theme song, "Thinking of You Lately"

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