Why Life Transitions Feel So Overwhelming — And The Ancient Practice That Actually Helps | Eva Orbuch

You Did Not Misremember. They Lied. How To Recognize A Narcissistic Relationship. | Taylor Simon

If you have ever left a conversation feeling like you completely lost your grip on reality — you were not imagining it. That was intentional. Taylor Simon is a therapist and psychedelic researcher who has spent years working with survivors of narcissistic abuse — and what he will tell you in this episode is something most people do not hear until years after they have already left. Narcissism is not just about someone being selfish or difficult. It is a calculated system of manipulation designed to make you doubt your own perception, abandon your own needs, and stay loyal to someone who is actively harming you. This episode breaks down the full spectrum of narcissistic behavior — from the grandiose and obvious to the covert and invisible. It explains why narcissists manipulate therapy itself to avoid accountability, what the red flags actually look like before you have the language for them, and what it takes to get out safely and rebuild a relationship with your own reality. If you have ever wondered whether you were the problem — this episode is going to answer that question once and for all. Connect with Taylor Simon: 🌐 taylorstherapyservices.com 📱  In this episode: 🔥 The full spectrum of narcissistic behavior — from grandiose to covert and everything in between 🔥 Why narcissists sabotage therapy — and how they manipulate the therapeutic relationship itself 🔥 The red flags that distinguish a true personality disorder from a wound that needs compassion 🔥 How to safely exit a narcissistic relationship and protect yourself physically and emotionally 🔥 The deep psychological survival strategies that keep victims trapped in cycles of abuse 🔥 How to reconnect with your internal voice and rebuild self-trust after narcissistic trauma 🔥 How childhood environments create narcissistic behavior and the generational cycles they produce 🔥 Inner child work — how to heal from betrayal and restore your sense of worth 🔥 Why you were attracted to the narcissist in the first place — and what that actually means about you 🔥 What reclaiming your inner power actually looks like on the other side of narcissistic abuse Timestamps: 00:00 — Welcome and introduction to narcissistic abuse recovery 02:10 — How narcissists emerge and how to recognize their traits 04:19 — Why narcissists sabotage therapy — and what happens when they are challenged 06:52 — The spectrum of narcissistic behavior and the empathy deficit 09:10 — Childhood roots and family dynamics that shape narcissism 11:04 — Are you self-diagnosing narcissistic traits — what to know 13:01 — Why we are attracted to narcissists' power and what to watch for 15:28 — Charisma, confidence, and the dangerous red flags hiding underneath 16:43 — The consciousness and strategy behind narcissistic abuse 18:09 — Why breaks in therapy are healthy and when to step back 20:14 — How to safely exit a narcissistic relationship and protect your future 23:04 — Building intuitive strength and self-validation from the inside out 26:26 — Practical steps to heal, rebuild identity, and trust yourself again 29:02 — Listening to your body's cues and embodying your inner voice 33:00 — Overcoming compulsive behaviors and meeting inner needs 36:12 — Reclaiming power and self-parenting your inner child 37:48 — Reorganizing your inner world for lasting self-trust 41:17 — Processing deep emotional wounds and moving forward 44:17 — Inner validation and inner child work to reclaim your reality 45:57 — You are the one you have been waiting for If anything in this episode brought something up for you — support is available: 📞 Mental health and crisis support — call or text 988 📞 Substance use support — 1-800-662-4357 💬 Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741 The Zhen Podcast is mental wellness for people who are done being told to just think positive. Real conversations. Real healing. No filter. New episodes every week — follow so you never miss one.

The Career You Were Meant For Has Been There The Whole Time | Randi Benator

Most people did not choose their career. They fell into it. Someone suggested it. It paid well enough. It made sense at the time. And now they are ten or twenty years in wondering how they got here and whether it is too late to do something that actually fits. Randi Benator is a career and life transition coach and the author of Awaken to Your Calling: A Guide to Discovering Your Career Path and Life Direction. She has spent years helping people answer the question that nobody teaches you how to answer — what am I actually supposed to be doing with my life? And what she will tell you is that the answer is almost never a lightning bolt moment. It is a process. And it is more accessible than most people think. This is not an episode about quitting your job tomorrow. It is an episode about getting honest about what is not working — sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way. If you have ever felt like you are living someone else's life — this one is for you. Connect with Randi Benator:  🌐 careerandlifetransitions.com  📖 careerandlifetransitions.com/book.html  📞 415-924-4944 In this episode: 🔥 Why most people are stuck in unfulfilling careers — and the real reason they stay 🔥 The myth of a single calling — why your purpose is allowed to evolve across life stages 🔥 How to balance active pursuit and receptive patience when building something new 🔥 The common pitfalls that keep people from following what actually lights them up 🔥 sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way. 🔥 Real life stories of career pivots that defied every societal expectation 🔥 How to get clear on your interests, talents, and what you are actually built for 🔥 How to manage the fear — the money, the seniority, the what will people think 🔥 Why mid life is not too late — it is actually the perfect time 🔥 What self awareness has to do with finding work that actually feels like yours Timestamps: 00:00 — Meet Randi Benator — career and life transition coach 02:22 — Why everyone needs to find their real path and the cost of settling 04:24 — Matching your work to your authentic self — what that actually means 08:48 — The evolving calling — why your purpose changes and that is completely okay 12:28 — Why so many people stay stuck in careers that never fit them 15:17 — Recognizing the signs that you need a major career shift 17:14 — Navigating fear, finances, and timing when changing careers 33:58 — The balance between taking action and trusting the process 41:36 — sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way. If anything in this episode brought something up for you — support is available: 📞 Mental health and crisis support — call or text 988 📞 Substance use support — 1-800-662-4357 💬 Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741 The Zhen Podcast is mental wellness for people who are done being told to just think positive. Real conversations. Real healing. No filter. New episodes every week — follow so you never miss one. 🖤

Why Life Transitions Feel So Overwhelming — And The Ancient Practice That Actually Helps | Eva Orbuch

Every major change in your life — the move, the breakup, the job loss, the identity shift — comes with a grief that nobody prepares you for. Not because something went wrong. Because something ended. And most people have never been taught how to actually close a chapter before they are forced to open the next one. Eva Orbuch spent years as a community organizer before becoming a life coach who specializes in exactly this — the space between who you were and who you are becoming. And what she has discovered is that the people who navigate transitions the best are not the ones who push through fastest. They are the ones who pause long enough to mark the moment. Rituals are not spiritual bypassing. They are not woo. They are one of the oldest and most neurologically effective tools humans have for processing change. And in a world that moves faster every year — the deliberate pause is not a luxury. It is a survival skill. This episode is for anyone in the middle of a transition right now who feels unmoored, overwhelmed, or like they cannot find their footing. Eva explains exactly what is happening in your nervous system — and what actually helps. Connect with Eva Orbuch:  Website: https://www.evaorbuch.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evaorbuch_coaching_consulting/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Eva-Orbuch-Coaching-and-Consulting/100086610301601/ In this episode: 🔥 The deep connection between childhood patterns and how you handle adult transitions 🔥 How to design personalized rituals that actually help you heal and move forward 🔥 The role of mindfulness and daily self meetings in navigating change 🔥 How to recognize and release old stories that are keeping you stuck 🔥 Practical rituals for everyday life and major life shifts 🔥 What your body is trying to tell you when you feel overwhelmed — and how to listen 🔥 Why slowing down is not falling behind — it is how you actually move forward 🔥 How to turn grief and loss into acknowledgment and acceptance 🔥 Building a sense of home within yourself when everything outside is changing 🔥 The transformative power of symbolic acts — visualization, burning old stories, ritualized farewells 🔥 Why time feels faster as you age — and what to do about it Timestamps: 00:00 — Meet Eva Orbuch — life coach and transitions expert 02:45 — From community organizer to life coach — the full story 04:10 — Navigating change with mindfulness and intentionality 06:50 — Childhood relocation patterns and how they show up in adult transitions 09:30 — Recognizing courage and grief in the middle of change 12:15 — Building a sense of home and attaching rituals to everyday life 16:49 — What your nervous system is doing during overwhelm and how rituals calm the chaos 19:10 — Defining and designing meaningful rituals for personal change 22:17 — Visual tools for controlling time and planning — the nesting dolls analogy 24:00 — Daily self meetings as a ritual to reconnect with yourself 27:09 — Processing professional transitions with creative ceremonies 31:20 — Why time feels faster as we age — perception and memory theories 33:17 — Reflections on youth, education, and life lessons 37:19 — Embracing the present moment and future possibilities 39:06 — Letting go of regret and the stories of what could have been 42:11 — Physical symbols and visualization to release old narratives 44:48 — Guided ritual — driving through life's milestones and releasing baggage 49:10 — Post ritual insights — feeling liberated and ready to move forward 50:00 — Practical tips for integrating rituals into daily life and major transitions 51:09 — How to work with Eva Orbuch If anything in this episode brought something up for you — support is available: 📞 Mental health and crisis support — call or text 988 📞 Substance use support — 1-800-662-4357 💬 Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741

You've Been Talking About Your Trauma For Years. Here's Why It's Still Not Healing. | Brad Galvin

If you have been in therapy for years and still feel stuck — this episode is going to make a lot of things click. Brad Galvin is an EMDR certified therapist who has spent over two decades helping people heal from trauma, addiction, and the childhood wounds that quietly run adult life. And what he will tell you in the first ten minutes of this conversation is something most therapists never say out loud — talking about your trauma is not always enough. And for a lot of people it is actually keeping them stuck. EMDR works differently. It does not ask you to relive your pain. It asks your brain to process it in a way that talking never reaches. And when you combine it with Internal Family Systems — the idea that you are not one person but many parts all trying to protect you — something shifts that years of traditional therapy could not move. This episode is for anyone who has done the work and still feels like something deeper is untouched. Brad explains exactly what that something is — and what actually reaches it. Connect with Brad Galvin: 🌐 brieftherapyworks.com 📞 206-339-4546 📧 brad@brieftherapyworks.com [brad@brieftherapyworks.com] In this episode: — What EMDR actually is and why bilateral stimulation works when nothing else does — Internal Family Systems — the parts of you still trying to protect a version of yourself that no longer needs protecting — Why talk therapy falls short for trauma and what it is missing — How trauma lives in the body and the brain and how EMDR rewires both — The nervous system in fight flight freeze and how EMDR calms the chaos — The real root of addiction and why it has nothing to do with the substance — The connection between childhood longing and adult self destruction — How to start healing even if you do not have access to therapy right now — Why trusting your therapist is part of the medicine not just the method — How traumatic memories become empowering stories on the other side of EMDR Timestamps: 00:00 — Meet Brad Galvin — EMDR therapist and inner parts guide 02:00 — What EMDR actually is and how eye movements process trauma 03:24 — Internal Family Systems — the parts inside you still running the show 04:23 — EMDR vs somatic work vs hypnotherapy vs ketamine 05:16 — Why the therapeutic relationship is part of the healing 06:14 — Attachment focused EMDR and the resources already inside you 07:42 — Why healing takes time and why that is not a failure 09:33 — What talk therapy misses and how to use it more effectively 10:32 — How EMDR calms the amygdala — the brain's trauma alarm system 14:51 — How to know which therapy is right for you 17:31 — The roots of addiction — what is really driving the behavior 21:39 — How traumatic memories transform into empowering stories 25:16 — Fight flight freeze and how to heal in the present 28:45 — Gambling addiction — how it works and how EMDR addresses it 34:52 — Childhood longing and how it shows up in adult life 40:52 — Practical tools for healing when therapy is not accessible 46:31 — Trusting your own inner wisdom — the path back to yourself

Lorie Eber: She Quit Law At The Top To Become A Health Coach. What She Found Out Will Change Your View Forever.

What if everything you thought you knew about dieting, willpower, and starting over was wrong? Lorie Eber spent years as a high powered attorney — successful by every external measure — and walked away from all of it to become a health and wellness coach. Not because she failed. Because she finally got honest about what was actually making her unhappy. And what she discovered on the other side changed everything she thought she knew about food, habits, emotional eating, and what it actually takes to transform your life at any age. This is not a weight loss episode. This is an episode about what is really driving the behavior underneath the weight. The emotional triggers. The habits that formed so slowly you didn't notice them until they were running your life. The career that looked impressive from the outside while quietly costing you everything on the inside. Lorie has been where a lot of people are sitting right now — stuck, successful on paper, and completely disconnected from what actually feels good. This conversation is for anyone who has ever wondered if it's too late to start over. It is not. Lorie is proof. In this episode: — Why diets fail and why it has absolutely nothing to do with your willpower — How Lorie walked away from a high powered legal career and what that decision actually cost her before it freed her — The emotional triggers behind overeating that nobody talks about — and how to identify yours — Why real food and mindful eating are not trends — they are the only sustainable strategy — How to navigate junk food in your home when not everyone is on the same page — The role of movement and portion control in a health journey that actually lasts — The mental and emotional layers underneath emotional eating that no diet will ever address — How to make a major life or career change without drowning in regret afterward — Why self compassion is not soft — it is the actual mechanism of change — How to find genuine purpose in every phase of life including the ones that feel like detours Connect with Lorie Eber: https://lorieeberwellnesscoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lorieeber/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7CeLbLNKnAva9szHp3Jx3A https://x.com/EberLorie The Zhen Podcast is mental wellness and personal growth for people who are done with the filtered version. Real conversations. Real healing. No fluff. Follow so you never miss an episode. 🖤